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I have been with my now boyfriend for a while. It is obvious that we both want to have sex but we never have. I really want to and I feel it would be a great experiance being my first time and all but sense he has never tryd and ive never done it before i dont really know how to make it happen if you know what I mean. I dont really want to say right now "lets have sex" i just want it to happen naturaly and have it be sweet but i think that he doesnt want to pressure me but i am ready and i want to. i will rate high on anyone that can help me figure out how to make it happen in an un-weird way (link)
okay i'm a guy and i had the same problem with my gal cause we were both nervous,so most guys will wait for girls to start cause if they are the sensitive type they won't want to make you feel pressured or anything like that.here are some tips that me and my friends have come up with

1)While you guys are talking, slide your finger in his mouth and take out repeatedly, then slide your hands down to his pants but don't unzip it and rub it gently.I guarantee he will be all over you in a milisecond.

2)The funny thing about guys is that they are more turned on with girls that show a little than a girl that bares all.For instance,we like to do girls with uniforms on or with shoes on,yeah i know it's wierd.So you shouldn't walk in the room naked.You should show a lot of legs and thighs and definitely let him sit on the couch while you stand on the couch in front of him and wear a mini skirt.Instant sex.

3)While you guys make out, rub yourself on his cock,something like dry humping, but more rubbing,the rest is yours.


hey my name is rachel and i have been having cyber sex online and i think iam addicted to it i've tried to stop but i can't I want to stop before my parents find out please help me. (link)
okay,i'm a guy/18 and firstly I just wanna tell you that what you are doing is not retarded or stupid as most peeps say because in a recent survey, cyber has been known to be more......pleasing in a sense that the human brain can imagine and fantasize much more than reality, plus you get to do crazy stuff that you probably won't try in real life and finally, you don't lose your virginity or your identity.

Next, i used to do cyber a lot,with about fifty girls for months and months but i managed to quit.I think the key is to try a new hobby/interest or maybe masturbate before cybering.At least that's what i did and i stopped the habit after a 10 month non stop cyber spree.I think that you must believe that all addictions can be stopped if you want it too,I stopped cybering and watching porn cause maybe i got bored of it,but there are other ways,what i'm basically saying is that addiciton is a choice and humans are capable of stopping a habit if they find the suitable and right way for them to stop it.


My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. We've had phone sex before, but i know thats much different. He once said "I want to make you cum" and after that I got really self concious. I know Im able to cum, I can feel an orgasm, but am I suppose to actually like "cum" as in like liquid stuff? Lol. My boyfriend asked me once and he was wondering if I came alot and I told him yes, but truthfully I dont ever come like THAT. I feel it but its never like....coming out of me... Is it suppose to be? Is there something wrong with me? Im nervous becuase I think thats something that gets him really excited...I can get wet but its never like how he assumes....Im really scared about him being insecure if i dont cum like that and he thinks that its a normal thing for me. What do I tell him? (link)
i'm a guy/18 and when guys say they wanna make a girl cum, they usually mean they want to please a girl to ultimate orgasm. One thing you must understand is that guys have more pleasure seeing a girl having orgasm and moaning and all that then having orgasm themselves.Yes!!!, it's true.And if he really means cum as in liquid form, then I think he means squirting which most girls, if not all can do by simulating the g-spot which is located about 2 inches on the upper wall of your vagina.And yeah, most guys are reallly turned on by that.So you should ask him if he wants you to get an orgasm or does he want you to squirt?




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