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Hello! My name is Shelby. I'm 13, about to turn 14 in April, and I have the greatest boyfriend anyone could ask for! His name is Landon, and he's sweet, funny, and loves me with all his heart. I love to hang out with friends, go to school, surprisingly, and to just relax and have fun. I'm on the computer most of the time. I love being on Facebook. I love to listen to music. But the one thing I love the most is Landon :D. If you have ANY questions, you can ask me and I will answer the best that I can.


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My boyfriend always wears a condom and never ejaculates in me... so we're safe right? I know theres a chance but I mean if theres no sperm around me then how could I become pregnant?

there is a way that u can become pregnant. if your fooling around with your underwhere on, the sperm is smaller than the fibers on your underwhere, so someone could get your knocked up. i hope you do get pregnant, cause then i will laugh in your face when you get fat.

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On july 13th, 2005 I started dating this boy who I really liked. I was so in love with this boy, even though I was so young. He is in my grade but he is a year older than me because I should be in a grade lower than I am in. I liked this boy so much because he was my first love. We were so open eachother and I told him more than what I would tell my best friend or my mom. If I needed help, or someone to talk to, he was the first person I'd call. Same for him towards me. We were inseperable and spent everyday together. We hardly ever fought, and if we did, we would make up the next day. Me and this boy dated for exactly 1 year and a week. We both just needed a break and dated other people. After about a month or two, we started going back out. Then we were on and off until February 21st, 07. He broke up with me because he thought I liked another boy but I didnt. Ever sense then, he has made out with some of my so called "friends" and he has completely ignored me. I want him back more than anything in the world right now. My friends have tried to talk to him but he says he hates me. Even I have tried but he just ignores my texts, or walks away. I've tried everything. I've tried ignoring him, ive tried making him jelous with his friends, he doesnt care. I dont know what to do and im dying inside, please help me get him back !!! =/

Well, sweets, there really is no way for us to help you get him back. All you can do is just accept what he wants, and move on. And really, It sounds like he still likes you. Look at the facts, he made out with your " friends ", and he just ignores you. Sometimes guys do that if they like someone. I hope I helped!

-Shelby

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so for starters im 17. My boyfriend left about july 10th to basic training, i wrote him for about a month and a half and he never replied back, i missed him like crazy. He got back about 10 days ago he didnt call he didnt message me or anything. My friend said she had talked to him, and he seemed really happy. So i had her ask him what his problem was, and she said that he said that he never got any letters so he thought i moved on... so i finally talked to him and now he says that he doesnt want me to worry about him all the time, and always having to wonder when the next time we would talk... so he said we should just be friends..but i was like how can you be friends with someone who you were absolutely in love with. i dont know what to do, because i love him so much but i dont know if i should just move on or continue with him, i've tried moving on and it just seems like i always compare him to other guys and other guys just dont even come close...i just dont know anymore

I know that your in love with him, but you need to just do what is best..try to move on...

Since your in love with him, you'll want what he wants....and he just wants to be friends.If you give yourself time, you will move on and be happy.

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Ok I have a question is there any free software that cleans your Registry cause my computer is really getting slow and please dont tell me how to make my computer faster just please tell me of any free software I am an advanced user for a 16 year old thanks

Um, I dont really think that there are any FREE ones. There are probobly some that you have to pay a monthly fee. But there may be some free ones.

-cricketsayrawr

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17/f

hey i think i have a crush on a girl my age on my rec softball team. we keep making eye contact with each other but we never talk. like i like the idea of me liking her but i dont like the idea of me kissing her. so i basically like the idea of her doing anything sexual with others..except when as its with me.

GOD ITS COMPLICATED.

so i want to be friends with her but its really awkward to be near her because of 2 reasons. 1) the eye contact thing makes me feel self-conscious around her and 2) her eyes are this deep deep hazel-green-blue mix and its hard for me to look away from her eyes. i knoww the 2nd reason is kind of BS but the first reason is true.

and sometimes i feel like she's following me, like ill sit on a place on the bench first and then she'll sit next to me. or when we do throwing drills ill pass/catch with my partner and then she'll lead her partner next to my group. anyone would think this is purely accidental but we've been sitting next to each other and doing drills next to each other for FIVE GAMES IN A ROW because of her! (well once it was because of me but thats because i wasnt paying attention lol)

shes a cool person and when we talk she usually starts it because this entire situation is too awkward for me for words.

um so ~in conclusionn~...

LOL i dont know what the hell im asking. this crush & the awkwardness is driving me insane and i just need advice..guidance..understanding words of wisdom..plz and ty

Well, just because you have a crush on a girl, dosent nessicarely make you gay or bi. You could be a lesbian, or you could just be going through a phase.

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15/f

I'm mainly attracted to guys but I'm attracted to girls too... I've talked about having sex with girls... And i LOVE being eaten out by my dog... I like the thought of ANY kind of sexual experience (whether it's w/ a man, woman, or animal)


I'd do anything. so am I trisexual?


please don't assume that because i'm 15 I can't know what my orientation is. I passed puberty years ago. just treat this question as if it were coming from an adult.

Well, really, the name is BISEXUAL. But you could be. I mean, there isnt anything wrong with it, and it is a natural part of life. But you very well could be. But, you could NOT be. You may just really like sex.

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a have a hair round my nipple. how can i get rid of it? it bothers me a lot.

you could shave it....but BE CAREFULL!!! the skin around there is really thin and you could easily cut yourself.

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