im 15 years old and going into sophomore year at lakewood highschool.. yes... i lied about my age earlier :-p but anyways, i consider myself a good helper. i've helped many friends in the past... some through suicide and worse. please ask me a question and ill do my best to answer it to the fullest of my knowledge.
E-mail: marcbode21@hotmail.com Gender: Male Location: Germany Occupation: student Age: 16 AIM: E1eMeNt4l MSN: marcbode21@hotmail.com Member Since: July 15, 2004 Answers: 78 Last Update: October 1, 2004 Visitors: 3605
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So I want my girlfriend to give me a blowjob but I don't know how to go about asking it, what do you suggest? (link)
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just have a conversation with her about how far she is comfortable going with you. if she tells you yes then, then go for it. if not, wait it out and see what happens, she might change her mind.
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So I was hitting mygirlfriend hard from the back, not in the butt but like doggy, and then I said something about my exgirlfriend... something like "oh *ex's name*" and then she said something about another guy... should I be mad about that or let it slide cause I said osmething too? (link)
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umm... let it go.. you arent the greatest either haha. you did the exact same thing.
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How do I un-stinkatize my girlfriendz vagina? (link)
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haha... umm... tell her to wash it? i really dont know...
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I have the best guy in the world as my friend, and I am perfectly fine with that, only,.. I like him. And I like him more than a friend? I think he knows but I'm not completly sure. I am fine with just staying friends because he is totally worth that!..but then again, i like him, so i suppose i want more than that. What should I do?? stay friends, or take that risk of embarrasment and do something about it? please help.?. :) thanks (link)
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well its up to you really. make sure he knows, i dont know, do something with him, show him then. but make sure he knows before doing anything else. and then maybe you can start hinting to him that you want to know if he likes you back. if he does, then by all means go for it. if not, then maybe try to back down a little because you dont wanna lose a friend ove rnothing :-/.
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is rakhi fat (link)
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no... and whats with all these questions about rakhi? ... is that you rakhi?
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ergh...I broke up with my boyfriend,but he keeps calling and calling and calling!!!!! he called me way early in the morning!!!! I told him to stop but it doesnt seem that he is. It is so over with him, why does he keep on persisting with me? I don't like him! It's over, and he knows it. PLease help me!!! what should I do?? What is your guy view?~girken (link)
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well, if he persists on calling you then there isnt that much you can do. but, something that you can do is you can threaten him. next time he calls you just warn him that you are not afraid to call the police on him for harrassement charges. that might discourage him. also, try to just not pick up the phone when he calls.. he might get the point that way.
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im really in love with this guy and he already has a girlfreind and i dont want to mess up things he has with his girl freind what am i supose to do just forget about him? (link)
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well you could do a couple things. there are pros and cons to both. the first thing that you could do is tell him. who knows, maybe he feels the same way? maybe it will strengthen your friendship with him? maybe if you tell him, when he breaks up with his girlfriend he will know that you like him and he will go strait to you. you can also not tell him. this might save you from embarrassement (in case he doesnt like you back). its really up to you. if i were you and i really liked him, i would definitly tell him just to let him know. if you think its just a temporary crush that will blow over in a few days, then dont bother because you would probably think yourself to be stupid in a couple weeks if you get over him quickly.
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will you be my sexymanwhore? (link)
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depends... torsten? yes. matt? yes. anyone else... sorry.
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[thnx for the advice before i have another question tho]is eating so little like one meal or none a day considered an eating disorder like anorexia or is it just eating light? (link)
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well, for me it was eating like one meal a day and then a small snack sometime before that. its really up to you what you consider light eating. and yes, if you tell people they will make fun of you and think you are belimic, or anorexic, but ignore them. just think of your goal and remember that you are on the way to that.
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how long did it take you to loose that much weight after eating light? and do you have to continue it?please let me know
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it took me 3 months to lose the weight. after you eat light for a little, your appetite automatically adjusts, and you dont feel like eating as much, its automatic, you dont have to worry about it. though it would be a good thing if you didnt eat monstrous amounts right after you lost weight.
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will you be my manlover? (link)
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maybe... torsten? is that you?
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I just broke up with my boyfriend because i found out horribbly that he was cheating, he called me and just said some terrible things to me. Saying that i'm the one that drove him to cheating because of certain things i wouldnt do to him. He tried putting me down with so many things..and i think he succeeded. Why am i feeling so terrible, when i know those things arent true? (link)
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you are feeling bad because words hurt. even if its not true, it will get through to you. just keep reminding yourself that your boyfriend is a giant prick and any word that comes out of his mouth is a lie. dont worry about it, you will feel better with time :). just try not to take what he says seriously.
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hey how do I get my boyfriends attention??? (link)
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well, there are tons of ways to get a boys attention. one way that works with all boys is to flirt with them. you know what i mean. but different people like different things and sometimes you just have to try a lot of things. for example, you might get the attention of one boy by acting slutty, but you may drive another away with the same thing. you really have to try until you find something that he likes.
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I am getting soo fat these days and i cant seem to get the weight down i have been eating good but when i jump on the scale, im still the same weight *sigh* I'm getting more depressed then ever...if I eat only once a day will i lose some weight???? please help! (link)
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man.. i dont know. ill tell you what. i recently lost 60 pounds. how you ask? well, i ate a ton less then what i usually did. i didnt eat in between meals, and if i didnt feel like it i wouldnt eat meals. besides that, i now have a killer 6-pack because i did 70 crunches a day. do those too! they help.
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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help! (link)
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just to let you know... if you are 13 and you weigh 126 you are exactly where you need to be. you might even be a little underweight! however, if you are interested in perhaps slimming down your middle section just a little, i know the way to do it. this definitly worked for me... i lost 60 pounds this way. ok, so what you need to do is really simple. before you go to bed every night, do some crunches. just do like three sets of however many reps you can do until you really start to feel it. just do that everyday and you will slim down. also, you might want to try running a few times a week. you cant burn fat in just one area of your body, you have to burn fat everywhere. so just try running along with the crunches and you should be fine, i did that for 3 months and lost 60 pounds!
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if your boyfriend was talking to other girls he 'doesnt know' on the phone and wouldnt tell you who it was, or what they were talking about... what would YOU do??? (link)
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be rational, theres got to be plenty of good reasons why he "isnt telling you" or isnt telling you what they were talknig about. maybe it was about you and he was embarrased to tell you? perhaps he was talking on the phone because another girl called him, if that worries you. maybe he didnt call another girl at all, and she calls him. if you're really worried about him cheating on you or something then make him swear on his life that he isnt. he wouldnt break that promise. just dont freak out, theres plenty of reasons why hes doing what hes doing, and only one of them is that hes cheating on you. one out of thousands.
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what do you do when all you and ur bf/gf do is like make out and u cant even have a conversation with them. (link)
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if you want more of a relationship then just a make-out one, or whatever, seriously, just talk to them. a lot of problems can be solved by just talking. just tell him that you want more in your guys' relationship then just.. that. tell him you want to get to know him, not just his tongue. and if he doesnt want to, maybe you should reconsider guys.
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I think i like my best friend, but im afraid to say anything. I like him alot, what should i do!?!?!?! (link)
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well.. if you like him a lot a lot, like you really really want to date him, then you should tell him. hes your best friend and shouldnt freak out, but should talk about it and understand. but if you feel as if its just a small crush, then maybe you shouldnt poke at the matter. friendship is sometimes something you shouldnt risk. and sometimes friendship does get ruined by a bad relationship. but its up to you. if you want to risk your friendship with him, then go for it, some best friends turn out to have awsome relationships. if you dont wanna risk losing your friendship with him though, dont go for it. its your call. choose wisely.
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are you special???.....I THINK YOU ARE!!!!!;) (link)
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awe, thanks :) i try my best, thats it!
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I have been noticing that my boyfriend has been flirting alot...with other girls....is he cheating? i love him so much but im not willing to put up with this. (link)
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if that is a problem, then go ahead and talk to your boyfriend about it. let him know that you dont like what hes doing. and if he persists... you may want to do a little investigation of your own. if he wont tell you if there is anything going on, then try and find the answers yourself. you may be surprised at what you find. yes, he may flirt with other girls. but he also maybe the the most loyal boyfriend you will ever meet, and the flirting is not actual flirting. just be careful. it hurts when you find out someone has been snooping. but sometimes its necessary.
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