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Q: OMG!!! yesterday i like wanted to pee my pants and have everyone see the wetness from the back of my pants which i so did and crapped my pants and the pants turned from white to brown and i want to know if this is normal cause im 13 and like i think i want to date girls and i am girl but i have a b/f and omg he is so freaking hott!!!! he is a babe magnet. see im a cheerleader and he is a football player. and he is like a player(hint hint. wink wink.) so like i think i want to move on and change to a lesbian. so can you help with my peeing/crapping problem and my lesbian problems.

brittany

Ok well first of all I am not quite sure why you feel the urge to go to the bathroom because no offense at all but if you want to attract people ( girls or boys) I doubt that will attract people. This is a huge desicion that is going to have an effect on you for the rest of your life so its best that you sit dwon and say ok and decide clearly and heartfully wheter your going to be gay or stay straight. Once you have decided I guess if you choose lesbian its time to talk to your boyfriend. Explain to hmi you don't want to go out anymore if he asks why make sure you can confide in him and tell him the truth. H edeserves to know. I know he isn't going to like it but hopefully he will respect your descision. As for the "pants problem" maybe think of other things that will make girls notice you instead. That may have people see you from a strange point of you so maybe think of lesbian girls you know and like flirt with them... sorry if this doesn't help much I'm straight so I don't know I hope I helped
Good Luck
Kel

Q: My boyfriends aunt like hates me. Now we can't hang out because of her and i really love him and he really loves me ut it's so hard because we'll neever see each other. I never even did anything bad or wrong she just hates me for some reason.well maybe because i broke up with him 2 times for VERY good reasons. What could I do to let her let us hang out? Or at least see each and hang out somewhere! thank you!

maybe call her up and say hi Mrs ( her last name) this is (your name) you no (your boyfriends name) girlfriend. I can't help feeling that you don't like me very much and I just wan tto know why. I love you nephew very much and I jusst want to figure out what the problem is so maybe we can resolve it. If she is nice hopefully she iwll begin to talk to you but thats not nessacarily going to happen. If she doesn't give you a truthful answer drop the situation and maybe bring it up when you see her face to face. If this still doesn't work maybe you and your boyfriend need to talk to his parentss. Afterall there in charge so it depends on them if they want there son hanging out with you or not. This woman to me sounds a little disagreeable. I hope I helped
Kel

Q: okay well i used to have brownish/ dirty blondish hair only darker... and well i put sun in in it and now its this dark blondish color. well i want to bleach my hair and im just wondering what kind of bleach i should use on my hair and how i do it exactly and what i can use on it afterwards to keep it from getting fried!

thanks

ps my hairs about an inch over shoulder length in the front and in the back its about 3 or 4 inches below my shoulders and i have bangs straight across my face and my hairs layered and wavy

I would go to your hairdresser if your planning on bleaching it. You may not be satisfied with the final result if you do it yourself. You hair stylist can recccomend different shades of blonde. As for keeping it from getting fried... look for hair products like shampoo or hairspray that have SPF and a number in it. Stay out of direct sunlight or at least keep your head covered. Wash your hair with a dove, or colors moustirizing shampoo and conditioner to keep your new blonde hair bright shiny nad healthy! Hope I helped
Kel

Q: Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me.

Public school is NOT that bad. I have gone to public school since pre school and I have never heard of anything that bad at least not where I go to school. Of course you get the occasional bully andthe average problems but I don't think many kids are raped at least not in most districs. As to who you want to hang out with you decide. Public school is unfortunatly built of stereotypes so either way you go there sgonna be someone who disagrees with your choice but thats life. Mkae ht ebest friends you can study hard and have fun! Its not like your gonna get another chance
hope i helped
Kel

Q: 13/f is there a website besides fictionpress.com where you can show people a book you wrote or any websites that help you get closer to publishing a book. xoxo

I am honestly not sure of any wedsites seeing as I write poetry not books but post your story in my column cheerprincess11 and I will read it and give you feedback in the answer. Good luck
Kel

Q: okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥

Ok all of us have our addicting habbits. For some people it's biting their nails and for others like you it's sucking your thumb. Seeing as your 14 I guess I can picture why you wouldn't want to tell your friends. I reccomend telling your best friends though so maybe if I don't help they can reccomend something good. My advice is put something like no bite on the thumb of your nails so everytime you stick your thumb in you mouth it taste really bad. No bite is non toxic but has an awful taste. I fthis doesnt work maybe try something else... for instance most habbits like this usually come about at certain times, when we are tired, scared, alone or other things among we begin these nasty habbits. Maybe say you suck youer thumb when you tired start something new. When ever your tired maybe you can like twist your hair around your finger. As stupid as it sounds if you remember to do this eventually it works. Good luck I hope I helped
Kel

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Hey! I'm Kelli! I love shopping dancing singing cheerleading fashion anything girly! I have awesome friends and I love to give advice so ask me anything!