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I live in Ohio, and when I grauate from high school and college, I hope to get into the Medical field. I plan on joining the Air Force after graduation! I'm here for anyone who needs advice or needs help with anything. I'm an understanding person and a great listenerIf you need anything and you want to ask me personally you can email me or just sent me a message to my advicenators inbox.
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I'm a HUGE fan of christina aguilera. I was browsing around on youtube and heard a song from christina called I will be.. I found out that this song isn't on any of her albums (i own all of her albums) and I found more songs that aren't released. If there is anyone who heard of these songs, can you please list a few that I can hear? Thanks!
Hello I did some research for you and found that that song that you are referring to "I will be" is on the album called Stripped. There is this website that you can listen to ANY kind of music for free so its kinda like your personal radio and I use it all the time and it's called Last.Fm. I will give you a link that shows you all of her albums just in case you may not have all this shows you which 1s you may or may not have.
http://www.last.fm/music/Christina+Aguilera/+albums
you can go through all of the songs that you heard but cant find on any of the albums and see what album it is actually on.
Hope I helped
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Hi everyone!!!!!Happy new year Advicenators!!!!!May 2012 be a great year for us all!!!!
Happy New Years to you too even though I am responding today which is January 1,2012. Yes I ope it is a good year for everyone too.
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Do you guys have any advice for a newcomer on the site? Like how to rate, how to give good advice. I've already answered a few on here but I'm worried that my advice might be bad.
Denabella
(PS. I added my username for a reason so that you guys can give me a nice feedback and fully informed advice)
I have to say for the advice thing just be yourself when it comes to that and answer what you know. I was new here once too and 1 thing that I did was I went to different columnists page well there column and looked and the advice that they gave to others. That really helped me alot. When you give advice to someone most of the time they will rate and not alot of people do this but when they rate they leave a side not saying like thanks for the advice so on and so forth. Like I said before just be yourself and you will do just fine.
If you need anything else and you want to ask me just send me a question in my inbox and I will try to answer it as soon as I can.
Hope I helped.
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Hi everyone!!!I wish you a Merry Christmas and a happy New Year!!!!!thank you for your words of advice and I'm very happy to belong to this website!!!!kisses!!!:)
Merry Christmas to you to and Have a Happy New Year
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how do i tell my mom i got my period
I would just tell her and trust me she will want to help you. Tell her that u think you got your period and she will help you and talk to you about all of this well if she has not already.
wish you luck
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I brush my teeth twice a day and floss but i still have cavities. I'm 17 and i don't get to go to the dentist very often because my dad can't afford it. I know if you get a cavity in a molar they drill it and give you a filling, but what if its in between two of your teeth? Is there anyway I can get rid of them? /:
Unfortunately to my knowledge there is no way to get rid of a cavity unless you go to the dentist. They also have to give you a shot and trust me I don't like them. If you don't want cavities don't eat as much food with acid and eat healthy.
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Hello!
This may sound a bit odd, but I’m looking for research specifically on brain tumors. I’m looking mainly for links on symptoms, first hand accounts from people who have had malignant tumors, and any other links and information about it.
The reason why is my uncle recently died from some illness related to tumors that lowered his immune system (I think that was it?). All I’ve been able to understand from my family is that, when my uncle was a young man he ended up fainting in the middle of a bowling alley, going to the hospital, and discovered a very large tumor on his brain. They removed it, but the doctors mentioned that it probably would grow back, and chances were my uncle wouldn’t live very long. Well, he lived about thirty? years longer than they believed he would, having a few minor incidents where he had to get tumors removed as they’d started growing back. He was also, due to the chunk of his brain they removed, physically handicapped and unable to walk very well. It was about two years ago that the tumors started to grow back very rapidly, somehow deteriorating his immune system and weakening him.
I’d really just like to learn more about it in order to see the medical and personal things behind what my uncle went through, since I was mostly a child while it was all happening and didn‘t quite understand his death at the end. I’d also like to know about how the size of the tumor or placement affects the person, what happens during hospital procedures, possible chemotherapy? and the like. I’m not asking that someone explain all of this to me here, but if you have some links to decent medical pages about that particular problem or blogs/journals, I’d love to see them.
I have started googling, but to be honest I have no idea where to start (I‘d even be okay with a few topics to start on). I have attempted to ask my grandparents and parents about it, but it’s extremely awkward, they get very (understandably) upset, and I’d rather not have to do so.
Thank you in advance!
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and I hope that the information that I present will help and cure the wonders going around.
http://www.braintumortreatment.com/Brain-Tumors/Tumor-Types/Malignant-Brain-Tumors.aspx
this is a link all about this and there is a page about the summary, treatment, and diagnostics.
http://www.medicinenet.com/brain_tumor/page2.htm
this link tells you a little bit about the brain tumors
http://home.earthlink.net/~sdepesa/
this is the last link that I could find that could basically tell you everything you you need to know this link is about a person and how to cope and do the right thing.
Hope everything is ok and wish you and your family the best.
If you need to ask me another question you can just end the question to my inbox and I will try to help you.
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Everytime my boyfriend fingers me now, it hurts reallly bad ): It never used to hurt up until a couple weeks ago when it hurt so bad that it was a little swollen. I dont know what is causing it to hurt but I want it to stop. It dosen't hurt when we have sex though so thats the confusing part. Anyone know what could be causing this?
I think that everytime you do that have that other person wash his hands with water and anti-bacterial soap.. See if this works because his fingers could be dirty and what is causing the problem. So try this and see if it helps.
hope i helped.
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do i pods have charger that plunges into a wall
actally yes they do. You just have to get 1 for a usb and then plug the computer side to and then plug the other side to the ipod.
Here is a link to 1 I found
http://images.search.yahoo.com/images/view;_ylt=A0PDoS47R.tOUFMAGbGJzbkF;_ylu=X3oDMTBlMTQ4cGxyBHNlYwNzcgRzbGsDaW1n?back=http%3A%2F%2Fimages.search.yahoo.com%2Fsearch%2Fimages%3Fp%3Dipod%2Bchargers%2Btha%2Btgo%2Binto%2Bthe%2Bwall%26ei%3DUTF-8%26fr%3Dyfp-t-701-8%26tab%3Dorganic%26ri%3D18&w=400&h=400&imgurl=www.channelmax.net%2Fusers%2Fgameaccessory%2Fimages%2FIPHONE-3IN1CHARGEKIT.jpg&rurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.ebay.com%2Fitm%2FUSB-Cable-Car-Wall-Charger-iPhone-iPod-Nano-Touch%2F370244482278&size=15.1+KB&name=USB+Cable%2BCar%2BWall+Charger+For+iPhone+iPod+Nano+Touch+%7C+eBay&p=ipod+chargers+tha+tgo+into+the+wall&oid=4f6518f57e9effff64a8792c6d0250d3&fr2=&fr=yfp-t-701-8&rw=ipod+chargers+that+go+into+the+wall&tt=USB%2BCable%252BCar%252BWall%2BCharger%2BFor%2BiPhone%2BiPod%2BNano%2BTouch%2B%257C%2BeBay&b=0&ni=84&no=18&tab=organic&ts=&sigr=12m5o78mj&sigb=13sg01r7h&sigi=126lch4pq&.crumb=BBsungqjJfVd
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im a 52 yr old with bipolar disease who has lost his job with no savings.My mother in law is trying to breakup my marriage of 27 yrs.The hounds are at my door.The electric company is coming tomorrow to cut my power off.the mortgage company wants us out.Ive applied to every business I can think of and cant even get a job flipping burgers,We will be spending Christmas on the streets so I think the best thing is for me to kill myself so my mother in law will help my wife.If im out of the picture then she will help her.I have my gun loaded and plenty of prescription meds.I just want to know the fasted and least messy way to go.Please give me some clues to make this fast and quick.Pray for my family too is all I ask.
Please don't there are people out there that really do love you and all you have to do is find those people. 1 thing you can do is because they are coming to shut off all of that stuff is to go to a homeless shelter and they will help out any way they can. Don't base your life all on your mother-in-law yes she may be right with the relationship or she may not. I suggest you go to a place that you believe will help you. I think the best thing for you is to go to like a shelter that helps people that are in your situation. I have a friend that has a part time job its like for the government and if small and or little business that may need someone to sweep the floors or go and do some errands for them so maybe look into that. Hope i helped.
If you need someone to talk to you can always ask me.
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What do I do if this boy asked me out and I want to say yes but Im to scared?What should I do?
If you like him or have some feelings say yes but before you say yes ask if you can still be friends well that is if you are friends no. Go ahead and see what it does for you.
Hope i helped.
Good Luck
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my friend had a convo wit him and he told her what type of girl he likes and I almost fit it. he also said that he would be willing to date someone close to his type as well. i wondered if he liked me or not he stares at me sometimes and he acts wierd around me compared to other girls. What do I do?
I think you should tell your friends that you like him and have her maybe go to him and say that I know someone who is close to what you want and if he asks who have her say your name and have her see what he says and then have her tell you. If she says yes don't act all like crazy but like after school just go up to him and say like hi and just start a conversation and maybe he will ask you but it might take some time but if he says no don't take it personal just remember you can still be FRIENDS!!!!
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On the outsiders in the movie scene where Dally is apparently suppose to talk dirty to Cherry and he says "are u a read red head...are u real? how can i find out if this is your real red hair and if its the same red hair on your uh these these eye brows..." when he says that what is it suppose to mean? it says its suppose to be dirty but I don't get what it means? Thanks!
Yeah I agree with the person down below. I saw this movie and also have it. I had to read it for school this year and I thought it was GREAT!! He is just trying to get to the point to see if that is her natural red hair.
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I need Help please im failing i dont want to :(
Yes I will help you but 1 thing I need to know is well i nte title it says you need help with your homework but as the category you have health so do you need help with your schoolwork/homework ore health. Whatever it is just put the question and answer in my inbox and I will help you all that I can.
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I despise Christmas with every bone in my body right now. I never ever have any money, and my grandma sometimes lends me money, but that's not the whole of the problem.
I am horrible at giving gifts. I'm creative at other times, but Christmas is always a curse... I can never come up with anything to give anyone. I want this year to be memorable, but I don't know what to get my mom, stepdad, sister, or baby brother. And more importantly, I have no idea what to get my boyfriend.
These people always do nice things for me and get me good gifts, and I want to do so in return. My boyfriend is so sweet and he likes video-games, pumpkin pie, and a lot of movies. He says he'll like anything but I want to treat him to a nice, thoughtful gift. My mom is very hard-working and she likes to read, and my stepdad really enjoys video-games like Red Dead Redemption and such, and he'll be satisfied with just about anything. Babies are easy to buy for, so I'm not as struggled with that, and my sister likes toys and trinkets and such, but I need help with finding a good gift for my boyfriend.
Tough having no money... :/
I can certainly help you but can you please send this question to my inboz and tell me what your budget is and yes I am aware that money is tough. Thanks and if you do send me this question trough my inbox I will respond as soon as I can. Hope I helped.
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i have got these small red sort of thing on my hand
they don't itch
and are very small like a ant has bit me or something
they are a couple of them on both my hands
could it be an std?
because of oral sex?
it could just be irritation. Try putting like cortizone cream on it for like a week and if it is gone then yeah that good but if not I would go to your doctor and ask him what it is and is they're anything he can prescribe to get rid of it. Sorry if I misspelled anything but anyways hope I helped.
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Okay this question may sound awkward but I lost my virginity 3 days ago and I just started bleeding. This is also my time of month could this be my menstrual cycle starting or from my "cherry" being popped? Or is it even a possibility of it being both? What I'm hearing is that you start a little spotting right after your first time but I didn't. Any advice would really be appreciated. Thank-you for you time:)
I answered this question like 4 times already but like I said before This is probably because of you losing your virginity. It also could be your menstrual cycle. Yes it is true that you do spot when it is your first time but its only for a few days like maybe 3-4 days. Like i said before it also could be your menstrual cycle and you may just have it light this time and maybe heavy the next.
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Normally I'm not a country music fan. But I heard a song and was so shocked that the lyrics were exactly how I was feeling! I'm starting to like country more and more.. But I'm not familiar with country songs or artists. Can a few people recommend songs or artists for me?
I'm mainly looking for songs about love (moving on, finding someone new, or waiting for someone) or about happy things like doing the things that make you smile or just partying and having a blast. But I'm up for anything really :) thanks!!!
I LOVE country and all o want to say is that if you want to know more about it you can go to cmt.com/ and they will have every country song POSSIBLE.... There are alot of good sons and artists but I will name alot instead of the songs so you can search them and look up the song. So here are the artists ABC order from according to last name...
Trace Adkins
Billy Ray Cyrus
The Band Perry
Big & Rich
Brooks Dunn
Johnny Cash
Kenny Chesney
Edens Edge
Sara Evans
Alan Jackson
Stonewall Jackson
Toby Keith
Lady Antebellum
Miranda Lambert
Little Big Town
Martina McBride
Scotty McCreety
Reba McEntire
Tim McGraw
Brad Paisley
Dolly Parden
Rascal Flatts
Thompson Square
George Strait
Surgarland
Taylor Swift
Randy Travis
Carrie Underwood
Kieth Urban
Lee Ann Womack
Chris Young
Zac Brown Band
I might have missed some but I said alot. A good place to look for music is www.Last.fm. Go there and look up the artist and then click on there name and then go to tracks. It will tell you about everything you need to know about that certain person and or band.
Hope I helped.
If you have anymore questions you can always ask me.
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Ok ok im just so confused.
My boyfriend and i are so in love. But when we get into an argument it seems he always say the most hatefull things to me. After he say its just to upset me but i want ti know if he just say that so i wont go further on about the things he spoke.
Things he say: your probly better off with some one else
I dont need you
You could go to hell
I cant stand you
Why do i put up with your shit etc.
I just dont under stand why the little things i do tick him of. Like telling him not to fart by me or prank me in hurtfull ways. Like play like hes breakin up with me
Someone please clear this up for me ... Please
Tell I'm that you get upset when he talks to you that way and see what he says. If he says something a gentleman would say then so ok that's for understanding but if he says something like and or something like that you should leave him because you don't deserve a guy like that. Its bad enough you put up with it this long.
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Ok, so I am an eleven year old girl, and Im friends with a boy that i like, and i think he likes me too. My friend told me he asked me to a dance, but i dont really think so. He is always flirting with me it seems, and i want to be able to talk to him when im not at school. I dont have a cell phone, but i have an email and i want to give it to him. Two questions: a. Should i give it to him, or would it be to weird to make the first move? And b. If you think i should, how should i give it to him? Ive never met a boy that likes me back, so im nit really sure how to act. Any advice helps! Thank you! :)
If you really want him to have your email then what I would do is say something like hey heres my email........ and I wanted to know if you would talk with me. If so just send me a email.. Thanks. then your name or u can type it and leave it anonymous well if u only want hime to find out when and if he does email you.
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