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I'm a wild and crazy 14 year old, I've had a lot of rough spots with guys, friends, family, etc. important things in life like that. I'm outgoing and bold, if something needs to be said I will say it without hesitation!
E-mail: babyBgoddess@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Portage, Michigan
Age: 14
Member Since: March 25, 2005
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Last Update: November 14, 2005
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is it stupid for me to want to impress a guy by wearing a skirt and do my hair good? i mean i really like him and i really wanna impress him. also, do u know of anything else i can do to impress him? (link)
it depends do you sometimes wear skirts or is this JUST for him? What i'm trying to say is are you changing your entire look to impress him or do you normally wear skirts and do your hair? Also to further impress take intrest in some of the things he is intrested in and startup a conversation about it.


On Wednesday in school I asked my friend if she wanted to go to the movies afterschool on Thursday. She said she'd go home and ask her mom, yada yada. Well, on Thursday she didn't know if she could go for sure, so she told me to call her when I got home. When I got home, I called her and she couldn't go because she said 'her mom was going to a party'. Well, later that night..thanks to her other friends away messages, I found out she was at her other friends house. I know for a fact this girl invited her over that very day, and I had invited her on wednesday. Wtf is her problem? Should I confront her about it, or what..cause that just pisses me off. And, she's ALWAYS doing stuff with this girl, she has no freaking time for anyone else. (link)
Just tell her how you fell. Tell her that that girl is not the only person on earth and not her only friend and that if she wants to hang out with her instead to just tell you because honesty is the best policy.


Hi.
Well, my friends have all fallen out and I'm finding it really difficult to not take sides. Friend A said something nasty about friend B and friend C took friend B's side. This means that A is mad at C because she didn't take her side.
However, the nasty thing that A said was, in my opinion justified...
No-one is A's friend and I try and stick up for her because I don't think it's fair that B and C just slag her off behind her back all the time, but that makes them hate me. I want to take A's side even more when they do that. Plus friend B is SO annoying and is always doing weird stuff like humping us (seriously...everyone thinks we're lesbians or something) and messing up our hair and all this crap. So I should take friend A's side, right? Wrong. Friend A has said some really mean stuff over the years, none directed at me but I can't deny that it makes me wonder what she's thinking about ME. All their arguing is driving me crazy and I have to do something, and I don't want to take sides but it feels like I'm being forced to - B and C are horrible to me every time I talk to A. What can I do? (link)
If at all possible try not to take sides, but i know how friends can be sometimes, if they tell you that you have to chose sides or they'll be mad at you ask them why they are making you chose between your friends and put them on the spot tell them real friends wouldn't make you chose




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