about

I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.



Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.

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me and mii teacher dont get along ne more and i cant stand his class ne more . wut do i do
i have no teachers off that block besizedss my case mangerrrrrr

Uhmm. Why don't you talk to your cousler at school or even your case manager. Your case manager would probably be glad to take you and work with you on other homework if she's off, my case manager isn't off that block but she comes down to visit me. I don't know how to help you. You answered the question yourself. Just talk to your case manager & teacher at the same time, & see if you can get your problem resolved. Best of Luck. [ ♥ ]

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ok well im still in highschool and i graduate in 2010 but im trying to get ahead of the game and get things figured out now and not have to worry so much about it when the time comes. Because ive never planned ahead and its left me with a bad life so far well not bad but not amazing so im trying this and hoping it works....
anyway im hoping to go to a college in Iowa cuz thats where i live where i can learn to become a pediatric nurse.

i need to know all the steps i will have to go through to get there.
&
and maybe mention a college in IOWA that has what iwould like to major in and become

i would also like to get the highest amount of schooling to make things better for me in the long run if you could help me out a bit..

Thanks :D

I know you can email, or call the college you want to go to go & request info about it, what you need to get in & everything. I'm only a freshmen in highschool and I did that this past weekend and got info in the mail and on email already. And for the highest amount of school- try turtoing, or staying with a teacher. [ ♥ ]

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what is up with everyone HAVING to have sex like what is wrong with just waiting until ur married i cant stand it like all my friends think its cool 2 do it like every weekend i sent u a request on myspace btw

I complety agree with you. This wasn't advice really but I agree 100%. The only thing I have to say is don't crack under - pressure . Give your husband a gift when you get married. :] [ ♥ ]

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There is my best friend and we are together for ever until one day she got s boyfriend and I am stuck there always left behind because he is really cute too. But what should I do get a boyfriend too or just watch them two be relly happy and I am there all by myself :( ????????

You should try to look for more friends, but don't leave her. Play hard to get with the boys , let them get you , not you get them. I'm sure you have more then one friend , just hang out with other people. [ ♥ ]

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i was the one with the guy who i like and likes me but people think hes gay well like ugh idontknow what tto do ive always liked him adns tuff and idk i wanna but i know it will affect me when people go and make fun of me. i heard people talking about him in my french class saying hes gay and shit and ugh i couldnt handle itt. like the things he does he acts gay and stuff, but its funny but like people think its gay thats why they think he's gay. i need help i really like him and think we could last for a while but not if people are makin fun of us...... :/

So , once again give him a try. Who cares what other people think. Don't let other people control your life , or his . Who cares if he's gay/ or even Bi for that matter. If you can't handle people saying stuff about him then don't because you'll be put through hell if that many people say things about him. [ ♥ ]

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you got ne good sites for aim pros ?

The only site I have book - marked for aim profiles is


http://www.xanga.com/tropicalescape_prosx

but go to www.xanga.com & go to blogerns ; & type in aim profiles & the Heather on that site isn't me. [ ♥ ]

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okkkk . i'm like 5/2 . and i weigh like 140 i know i aint skinny but w/e shoudl i get a binki or one piece ?

You aren't fat . You probably have a lot of muscle and big bones. If your stomach hangs over a bikni I would go for a once piece . Or what about a Tankini . It's a two piece , but a long top . and sometimes comes with shorts , or even a bikini bottom . I like those personally . & If you want your stomach tan just pull it up when you tan. Search Jcpenny , Dillards, or Macys or Tankini ! [ ♥ ]

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So.......theres this guy that i like and like he told me that he likes me back and stuff but like i dont know if i should go out with him b/c everyone makes fun of him and shit like actaully all gay and ppl thinks hes gay and stuff but like theres something that i like about him that makes me wanna go out wit him but i dont want to get made fun of by ppl cuase i get all embarrassed and stuff and i cant take dat pressure.................HELP!!!!!

Just one question. How can he be gay if he likes you ? Screw the other people, it's your life, your choice . Don't listen to what people have to say , everyone has something to say different about you , most probably aren't to good. Have fun with your life and go out with this guy. He CAN'T be gay if he wants to go out with you. If you can't handle what people say then don't , but just ingore it . If he's cute, maybe they are jealous of him? Give the guy a chance, once again he can't be gay if he likes a girl. & forget what other people have to say. Everyone gets embarrassed but if you get that embarrassed about that then don't. My best advice would be just go for it. If it gets to out of hand, break up with him. But then again , your probably only in middle school/high school and it isn't really a true realationship. Don't let it affect you . You won't marry him, you won't even remember him in a few years. Life goes on, but give the dude a chance to prove something. [ ♥ ]

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I was just wondering if I consistently eat 1500-2300 calories a day, but do not eat after 4 pm--then go to work for eight hours, then sleep, will it slow my metabolism? It is a physical labor job--medium intensity. I have been losing a bit of weight while doing that, but I was wondering if my body will adjust and slow the metabolism down. I have a naturally fast one so I do not want it to slow down. thanks for your help

Your metabolism shouldn't slow down. You seem like you do to much to make it do that, if at your job you didn't get a good enough workout, go home and run / workout . Or even cut down on the calories. If you have a natural fast one it won't slow down until your way older. [50+] normally. [ ♥ ]

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so i have to construct a scene from a book. i choose to pick faking 19. im going to do a boardwalk scene(like at the beach with a ferris wheel and cute little shops). im just not quite sure how to do that? like should it be in a shoe box? im not sure any advice would be great.
thanks!

A shoe box with colored sceen would look really neat. Not much help for you from me, sorry but your idea was what I would say if you wouldn't have gave an idea. Try the shoebox , but come up with other projects to make to. Best of luck. [ ♥ ]

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i have a monore and i love it but i wanna change it . ne ideas or websites to change it and find a cute onee ? thxs babe !!

I only found a few; but a tatto shop would have tons I'm sure. Or even at the mall.
Here's what I found ;

http://www.painfulpleasures.com/xcart/customer/home.php?cat=41

http://www.body-jewelry-shop.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc

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i keep getting chalie horses . they hurt so bad from after soccer practice . what can i do to helpp ?

I know when you get them you aren't suppose to walk, crawl until it goes down a little bit.

I searched more on Google.

Muscle spasms can be caused by calcium or potassium deficiency, but there are lots of other possible causes. A couple of common ones are not getting enough fluids, or overworking the muscle. If it's a frequent problem, you should probably see your doctor to investigate the reason, as it can also be a sign of nerve problems.

To stop a spasm, try pointing your toes away from your head as far as possible, then pull them in toward you. You can also try massaging the muscle. Using a long, stroking pattern of massage works especially well. Heat pads work good too. [ ♥ ]

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wutss urr favv songg ?

What genre ?
I love all music and most songs.
Your question wasn't really advice though ? [ ♥ ]

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Does anyone know where i can get bags that are cute, but also CHEAP!? I really want to get some bags that are like hobo bags (like slouchy)...i love the kooba bags...

Thankss!!

Try Ebay - most of them are all good purses ; they all have info about them ; and they are cheaper . For search type in hobo bags . [ ♥ ]

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I have been frequently urinating about 8-10 times a day. If I drink anything I need the toilet straight away.
I don't think I could be pregnant because, although I have been trying to become pregnant, I had a normal length, on time period.
It's definitely not anything like cystitis, because I know what that's like and it's different to that.
It doesn't hurt when I urinate either.
Any help would be appreciated.

The girl above me is right. If you are thirsty a lot also , You could have Type one diabetes [Like mee . :] Go see your doctor . [ ♥ ]

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im not mad at her .
im just done with her
she cant accept it ?
im sick of getting treated like this
and being back stabbed .
im not mad ; i'm done.
she doesnt get it.
how CAN she understand me ?

Sounds complicated . Talk to her somehow and let her know you aren't mad; your just done . Tell her your sick of getting treated like this and being back stabbed and your done with second chances. Tell her your done ; don't wait for a response ; walk away. Be the stronger person and don't start drama . But their is always extra room for second/third chances if they were a close friend. Best of luck , Hope I helped! [ ♥ ]

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i have rele stright hair like urs and its about medium length and im sick of ponytail buns and wearing it down stright . n e ideas for diff. hair styles ?

Google is going to work the best - but to make your search go faster I'm giving you a few websites.

http://www.hair-styles.org/medium-length-hairstyles-01.html

http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/medium_hairstyles.html

http://www.bosshairstyles.com/medium-hairstyles-01.htm

http://www.beautyriot.com/category.php?id=63

http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/medium/

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do you kno a quote i cud put on my msn screen name. my friend died and its the anniversary soon
thanx

I'm giving you a few sites. :]

http://thinkexist.com/quotations/death/

http://thinkexist.com/quotations/death_and_dying/

http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_death.html


http://www.deardeath.com/death_quotes.htm


http://www.notable-quotes.com/d/death_quotes.html

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what is masterbating ?

Lol.
Read this.
By the way ; google works better then people answering thiss ..
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm

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hi i talked to you about the boy cj and how he has a girlfriend and is a senior....do you remember??
Well anyways like today he was smiling at me..I mean he just really has me confused. His girlfriend i dont think was at school today either. It has me wondering though..I am thinking that maybe he does like me, but he cant decide who he likes more. So what do you think??
And I have people telling me that i should go for him, dispite his girlfriend, but i dont know about that. What should I do. They are telling me that it dont matter and i could get him. But i dont know what should i do??

I remember. :] . Are you sure he isn't trying to mess with your feelings? Ingore the girl for right now. Why don't you ask him why are you always looking/smiling at me , do you like me? I personaly think he likes you and that you should just ask him, and go for him , their isn't anything wrong with trying. :] Good luck babe! [ ♥ ]

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