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I know being shy 't been sis for little kids and I havhy on the first day of school since gr. 4 but it it kinda a big year for me!! I was put in school a year late so I'm 13 going into gr 7. I know that I'm not the only one but I am scared of this is anyone has advice please let me know!!!! (link)
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there's no need to be shy but the first day is always a bit nervy( nervouse:) Its been a long summer and even as a sophore in high school im nervy. Just think about what you can do this year so that its even more fun ( yeah right) to go back next yer:) lol! Join theatre or if you get nervy on stage join chorus and make new friends:) Hope i helped and good luck in seventh grade:)
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ok, well i'm 13 and i like this guy a lot.
and i think he likes me too, which i guess is a plus. but there's a couple of problems.
before i go any farther, let me say that we're not dating.
problem number 1)i'm pretty shy.
2)we talk all the time on the computer and through text messaging, but we hardly ever talk in person. the last time we did talk in person was in early august :\
3)when i try to talk to him person adn what not, we don't talk much. it's basically one word answers.
4)i'm starting to like another guy 2 years older than me, even though i know i have no chance. BUT i still like both of them.
i don't know what to do. i need some real help.
thanks so much in advance. :D (link)
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this guy sounds like my past crush, we texted instead of talking, and it was horrid. don't get involved with him and try for the other guy:O)
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13/f, I love to sing, but I decided to some videos of my singing on youtube. Bad idea. There's this guy who been harassing(sp) me. He says that I'm the worst singer on Youtube. How can that be? Youtube is world-wide. I don't think that everyone in the world thinks that I suck. But, now I want to sing anymore. I love to sing in all. But I have no more self-esteem left in my body. It's all been chopped off one by one. I sound like a drama queen, i know, but I'm serious. I have no self esteem left. What should I do? Should I stop singing, or just ignore that one guy and continue singing now knowing if I suck or not? Please someone help me. (link)
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the guys an idiot and there's scum like that all over. Your thirteen, young and have all sorts of chances. don't let an idiot ruin it for you.
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so my boyfriend travis and i have been dating for almost 7 months and basically im an idiot. i've cheated on him before but admitted to it then a couple of weeks later and well today we were talking on the phone and i lied to him saying my friend and i were going by to go get piercings and really we were going by another guy friend of ours house to go swimmming and so when my friend called me, i told travis to hold on and then was switchiing over to my friend and i guess i had linked the two calls instead on accident and so when my friend and i were talking he basically heard the whole story of how i might cheat and i was gonna hide the towels for swimming in my bag and everything. he then finally after a while told me that he was gonna go put the towels in his purse and i got the clue and i got scared and hung up.and ive been calling and texting him ever since and now idk what to do... i really messed up.
he's one of those typical nice guys.we havent said i love you yet and but we're pretty close.what do you think i should do? i know he's by his friends house (who by the way,hates me) because i passed by and saw his car.? :( (link)
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You really should break up if your cheating on him like that. Obviously there's a problem where maybe your not satisfied by what Travis can give you or you don't want a closed relationship. Don't hurt him anymore just let him go or neither of you will get any satisfaction in a relationship. If he comes back to you after you break up maybe it was ment to be. Hope I helped:)
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My eyes are green and brown.
Like, and outer ring of green, and an inner ring of brown.
Um...what colors of eyeliner, mascara, and eyeshadow would work for me? (link)
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Brown eyeliner, or gold for funky colors. You could pull off darker pinks, light nuetrals like beige, copper and greens as well. You should try a black masscara, and if applyed right would super bring out your eyes upon the lower lashes. Hope i helped:)
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I have two questions.
What is the best product to nourish dry hair?
What is the best product to prevent your hair from frying when you use a flat iron?
Personal experience would be appreciated! Thanks :] (link)
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theres this stuff called miracle mist that comes in a red bottle. It helps prevent heat damage and stops straightners from frying your hair. Also use a ceramic straightner that will not burn the hair so much:) Hope I helped:)
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There is this guy from my workplace that I know has a bit of a crush on me. I sort of like him back too. I had heard from several people that he had a drinking problem but so far it had just been rumours. Well last tuesday on my day off I went to the bottle depot and I ran into him. Initially he said hi, but then he got really quiet as we sorted bottles next to each other. All I had were empty diet pop cans, but he had boxes and boxes of empty beer cans. I sensed he was embarrassed because he was so quiet, and normally he's really talkative so I quietly collected my money and left. I just saw him yesterday at work after this happened, and his head jerked a bit when he saw me and then he looked away. He used to act sort of macho and cool around me, now it's as if someone has burst his bubble. I feel bad because we were finally getting comfortable around each other. Do you think he's embarrassed? And how should I act around him now? (link)
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He does sound a little embarresed but you should talk to him, make it seem as though nothing changed and maybe ask him to hang out with you and show him your still friends and, if you want it, show him you still may have a bit of a thing for him. :) Hope i helped:)
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a friend of mine dated this guy for a little more then a week like 4 months ago. me and her had been friends for a year and a half maybe and we had both just met this guy not to long ago. i had no interest in dating him, i just enjoyed being around him though. my friend (girl) rushed into a relationship with him and ended up breaking up with him over a disagreement.
since they had broken up he never talks to me anymore and it would be to awkward for me too. is it alright that i still want to be friends with another friends ex? or should i just give up on being friends with him? (link)
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You should totally try to be friends with him! Even if your friend doesn't like him. But make sure to get her over it, if she isn't already, so you guys don't get in a fight. But you should make friends and expand a cirlce. It may be awkward but what is ife if you don't try things? Hope i helped and good wishes to you:)
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hey. i'm 14/f. well, i usually go to my cousins house during the summer to hang out with them. and this summer i did. but last saturday my uncle had a heart attack, so i'm staying home this week and some of next week. but i get soooo bored. there is never anything to watch on tv, and i've done everything i usually do on the computer ( check email, get on advicenators, play a few games which gets boring). so what is there that i can do??? i like scrapbooking and stuff, but i don't really have anything to do that with. please give me any good ideas!!! thanks! (link)
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Ahh the what to do question. Almost as popular as What do you want for dinner tonight, but here's a few tips: Brush up on some writing skills. Seriously if you start writing stories or poems then next year at school you can submit them to school papers and stuff and get some cool credit from teachers and students. Also try drawing or something art-like that will get creativity going:) Hope i helped and good wishes to you!
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what is flixster??? (link)
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its for movies You order them offline at flixter. Or did you here this from a friend discribing something?
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hey! i'm 14/f. i loveeeeee clothes! i like stores like, american eagle, aeropostale, the buckle, charlotte russe, vanity, rue 21, wet seal. just stuff like that. well, i just wanna know, what stuff is coming in style for fall?? like, colors, new trends. and anything else!!! thanks! (link)
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those little decorative scarfs, not wool or anything just that glittery fake yarn, are really coming back huge! Also skinny jeans with high boots with heels are making a huge splash in fashion. Also you can never go wrong with jeans and red and brown tops:) Hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!!
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How can you pop your own cherry? (link)
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I think a vibrater would do the trick:P lol since the cherry is the hymen(?) you need to tear to pop it. Therefore any penatration would work.
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what makes a kiss great? and what makes a kiss bad? please be your personal opinions thanks =) (link)
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Bad Kissing: to me if the kiss is way to sloppy and it seems like a girl or guy is sucking my face or if a girl wears too much lipgloss and it gets gooey and gross:P Also its bad when someone tries to bite your lip to be sexy but it ends up hurting.
Good kiss: A good kiss is when they are gentle and firm at the same time and have good breath. Also when a person cups the side of your face to hold you there and looks into your eyes for 5 seconds before and after it makes it perfect:) Good wishes and kisses to you dear:)
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OK so there is this kid in my class that i like and everybody knows about it but now that summer vacation is here I dont really like him anymore.
when school starts I am scared i might like him again. (link)
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This sounds like something i went through;) Trusat me its a tiny crush that you'll forget about in the summer and when you go back to school you'll wonder what in the world you were thinking. I hope I helped and good luck to you:)
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some of my friends that i hang out with alot know ad they dont mind i mean i would never date one of my friends ya know that would be weird. I just dont know what to do (link)
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Just ask them for help and that way they can keep their eyes open as you search as well if you choose to search for a gf. I still go with keep your possibilities open so you don't get hurt. that may mean asking your bf for a break for a week or two and looking or it may mean you should break up. Go with what you feel is best and what you really want.
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how can I find a gf? How do I know wheter or not the girl is like that ya know.
I sometimes just wanna give up and just stay with my bf but my attractions to girls doesnt change (link)
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Well since you may be bi they aren't going to change even if your with your bf. Your going to be attracted to the same sex. But open up to your friends if they are close enough and maybe joke about it to lighten up the air between you guys if it gets uncomfortable. You can often find girls by asking your friends and often when you find a girl whose bi you automatically have a gf. Girls don't usually do the same things like with guys and leave after a one night stand cuz they know what it feel like. Try asking your friends, if you open up, to help you find one and here make a joke as well to make it not as odd to them if they are prudish:)
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Hi, ummm i need some help, my boyfriend and i really want to have sex, its just that he has had expeience and i don't. I am absolutely ssure that i want to take this step, its just that well, my parents are quite religous and so i am not tooo sure what actually happens in sex, how do i do it? I need some advice and tips. Can you please tell me what sex is... (link)
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Sex is when two people join physically. Often there is fore play which is : Kissing, touching licking, and sucking and then it goes on to the heavy stuff where he penetrates you. When he penatrates you then he breaks the hymen(?) and technically your no longer a virgin and it may hurt your first time if your not wet or lubricated enough. Guys will prepare you with a lubricant and if he doesn't grab some lotion and have him put it on his cock and inside you. You'll get wet from heavy petting( foreplay) unless your sences are dulled. Alsso don't lay there like a dead fish. Kiss him, touch him or even get on top and stradle him if you want him to think you know what your doing even if your a virgin. :) Hope i helped and if you have anymore questions please ask me:) Good wishes to you dear:)
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so r u bi to?
Thank you for your advice too. =] (link)
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yes i am and thats really because Im a person who believes ' If i fall in love with guy i fall in love with a guy If i fall in love with a girl I'm in love with a girl' So i really don't care about someones sex i just care if i like them and want to be with them:)
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Well see I have a bf and weve been together for 8 months.
But theres a problem I like girls.
Well I have a problem telling my friends and things and i havent met a girl who is bi or lesbian ya know. So its hard.
My bf's fine with it and everything but imnot cause im either gonna be bi with a girlfriend or not be bi at all if i dont have one.
Im not gonna wait.
What should i do? (link)
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Well if your bi then in the future you may become attracted so keep your options open so you don't get hurt okay? Also if you stay with a boyfriend then make sure he doesn't convince you to have a threesome with another girl: it'll hurt the relationship very badly:( But I know its extreamly hard finding a bi girl:( I've been looking to and i've come up with nothing. Good luck to you though and Good wishes:)
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My aunt (she's actually my mom's best friend but we are really close) lives down the jersey shore. She said to my mom and I when we were visiting that if I wanted too, since next summer I would be 14 and I could work, I could stay at her house and get a job at the boardwalk. My mom always says she likes to exaggerate and talk because she always says stuff but never actaully does it. BUt this time my mom asked her several times and she sounded sure. I thought this was really generous because she has a 9 year old girl, and a family to take care of, and she is letting me stay at her house for the summer. My question is, do you think she really means it? ANd what are some things I could do while there or before I go to convince her that it was a good idea to let me stay there?
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It sounds like she means it dear:) So as long as she's not a flake Im sure its sure. Also try pcking up around the house, help her with dinner and watch her daughter and play with the girl and that'll show your aunt that it was an extreamly great idea:) Hope I helped:) Good wishes to you:)
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