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Is there any way of getting my braces off faster? (link)
Well , They will come off sooner if you have a clean mouth meaning , Floss and brush alot . After every meal floss and brush . I know it's alot but it is porven to help . I personally don't care how long I have the darn things on so I don't floss alot:P
There is really nothing to make them come off faster , Just take care of them and do waht they tell you .
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does anyone have parakeets? if so, how did they have babies? i dont know if my birds are too old and if not, what i can do to help them? they dont seem interested. or i dont know. i cant tell. (link)
Wow , Hun we need to think of responsitblity here . Before getting a pet we should do some research on the pet BEFORE getting it so we don't get into things like this .
Anyways , I have lived with birds in that past , No they were not mine , But they seemed to not want to mother there babies either .
First,You need a female to lay the eggs and the male to fertilize them. If you have to females they can still lay eggs but they will not hatch,Unless you have a male. Also, I highly doubt anyone on here is a HUGE bird experct, Go to a local pet store or vet they will give you the proper information. Also,You might want to take the eggs away if you don't want alot of birds, Also alot of them die easily .ANND space is a factor to , The size of the cage.
Hope I helped .
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Okay. My life is like apple pie. I get straight A's in school, am fit, am reasonably pretty (not sounding conceited), have a lot of really nice friends, my teachers seem to love me, I can speak French, and dress well. Everyone says to me how likely I will be to succeed, and that I could do whatever I want. But, I always feel like something's missing. I have no idea what it could be, but there is definitely something that could make me happy and I don't have it. Any help please? (link)
Well , I am personally not a strong beliver in "love" but I don't know .
But what you haven't menchained is something you like to do , Something to look forward to . Maybe a hobby or something ?
I think you are the only one that can decided what is missing . It may take a while don't rush things .
Okay , So that wasn't my best advice but it's late , And I am sick .
Anyways ,
Hope I helped .


This guy I like messaged me with a "hey, whats up?" So I messaged him back and he hasent responded in two days. He has been online and when we see each other at school he smiles and says hi...And ideas why he wont message me back tho?

f-16 (link)
Well , Your competting with the internet here:P
Seeing as though so many things on the computer can go wrong , Message's not beeing sent and such .
My friends computer is down right now and for some reason she was signed in on msn and it wasnt her , But she didn't reply .
It's probarly just some computer problems .
Maybe , Talk to him in real life instead of the internet .
A) You never really know who you are tallking to on the internet , Hacker's and jokes are often played on people to be mean .
B) It's just all around nicer to talk to him in real life :P
Thanks ,
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If a guy wears a lot of rubberbands around his wrist, what does that mean? (link)
Well , Most of us proberly have know clue why :P
The best thing to do , If you know him well enough just ask him . Or maybe bring up a topic leading to it .
Hope I helped
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me and my best guy friend are both 14
i really like him, more than i've ever
liked a guy before,i've liked him since
like last december over the summer though
he came out to me and told me he was gay
i still like him though, and i really need
to get over him, what do i do?
& @ age 14 do you really think he could
be gay??

oh and i cant ask my friends, cos im the
only one that knows hes gay (link)
Hun , No need to worry .
A) Most kids at your age have sexual feelings for the same gender and have to experiment before choosing . I highly doubt he has experimnted yet , Just wait and see .
B) Wait a while agian at your age most people change who they like every month .
C) I have NEVER been in this poistion and I know nothing of this subject , Just using from information what has been given . You know him best , For all we know he's a typical teen . You make the descion , You know him best .
PS ; Now more than you know that he's gay :P
Hope I helped .
Age .


do ur boobs hurt when u have breast cancer becouse my nipples hurt!... (link)
That I am aware of yes . But usually not till it's to late , If Im not correct ?
Though , From your typing skills it seems like you are younger . This is normal at your age your breasts are growing . Also , Some people claim before having there period there breasts begin to hurt .
If you are really worrid you have breast cancer talk to an adult about it but it is very rarely found in kids . Most people will just tell you the same as most , You are growing . It is horomones .


Does anyone know of either any good books like Candy and i mean like the books are alike or are just really good i dont want any books like harry potter or series of unfortunate events or something like that i want a book like Candy
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Maybe give a slight description about the book, It would help to know what it's about ;)


I'm seventeen years old and a senior in high school. I absolutely hate it. I'm a somewhat intelligent kid, but I have a 1.8 GPA and it's because I'm not equipped to handle all the social stress and the environment of high school. I've honestly reached my breaking point. I can't go to school anymore without sobbing uncontrollably either the night before or the morning before. My family has been having a lot of problems lately and I don't want to bother them with mine; I always intended on having a talk with them about possibly homeschooling me but I put it off because they were depressed or in a bad mood. Unfortunately, my mom caught me attempting to skip school the other day, and understandably, I got in a load of trouble. I honestly didn't mind, but I just wanted them to listen to me and consider homeschool. They're completely against it. I know I only have a year left of high school but I can't take it anymore and I honestly believe homeschooling would remove so much stress from my life. I've offered to get a job and take on more responsibilities, but because of my past not-so-stellar grades, they refuse to listen. How can I possibly convince them that homeschool really WOULD make me motivate myself to do well?

I'm sorry this was long but thank you to anyone that read it. (link)
I was in your same postion well I was in grade 5, I did cry every night and day. I hated school. The best thing to do is stick with it and contuine, Things will get better. My family had problems then to the had just got divorced it was hard.
But if I could I would proberly get homeschooled, They do programs through the school were they give you alot fo work to do and you have to do it by yht end of semester/year.
I know it's really hard to talk to parents about it and no they don't listen ;)
Maybe do a little more researcxh on it, Most parents think homeschooling is teaching there kid but they do have prgrams.


ugh , ok im not fat , but im not wat i want to be ya know - i weigh 135 & 14 , 5"1 - cheerLeader tooo . but it doesnt help . i wanna tone up my body . i wanne Lose my Love handLes and my pudge in the frontt . heLp :] (link)
Ugh, I really don't think you should be taking other peoples advise on loosing weight on this site. Alot of people do un healthy and suggest unhealthy ways to loose weight, Leading to sickness.
I would suggest talking to a doctor about it, I am 5.6-5.7 and I am 135. But also muscle weighs more than fat, I really doubt you are fat. So many people at your age are taught that if you are not built with a beautiful body, You get know were in life.
Also, be careful with sit ups and stuff. You can easily get hurt by doing stuff you have know clue how to do. Take a fitness class, They will teach you.
Also drink water, Peeing will help get the sugar out of yoru body and its better than fattening juice.
Hope I helped.
Feel free to send me a message if you have more questions .


well basically the title says it all. i am really into this girl she's the most amazing fun person i have ever met i have known her a long time like 5 years and since like a year ago i have allways had this thing for her shes fancied me alot before and i loved her at one point but nothing happend kus she had a BF. so anyway about 5-6 days ago we went back to school (6th form) she said that she fancied me and i was starting to like her again before she even said so of course i was really happy but a couple of days later she told her freind that she doesnt want anything to happen like go out or stuff. but today and last night on msn she said she really wants a bf. is she hinting at me? she knows i like her alot. [btw we were just talkin on msn, and shes trying her hardest to get me come out but ime waay tired from 5 hours skateing is that another sign?] i dont know... i been trying to get over her kus it doesnt feel like anything gonna happen, i also feel a little out of her league, she said once ime perfect boyfreind material yet she doesnt want to go out with me lol aah its so wierd please help me figure this out i really like her but i dont know if i should ask her out... and im really shy about that sorta thing thanks muchy :D (link)
Maybe instead of asking us advicenator, You should be on msn asking her;)
Youve known her for five years, You should know what she's like and how to tell if she likes someone more than random internet people.
Also, Everyone has there own ways of flirting maybe that's her way.
As for my oppionon on it, Don't date her. It could ruin the freindship between you and her. But if you think that it will be okay if yoou gusy do go out and brake then go for it.


Okay so right at the end of the summer i met this kid from another school. He's in my grade but he goes to public school. We got talking and hanging out and he told me he likes me. This past weekend me and my frieds hungout with him and his friend. When they went into a store we found Pot in his friends bookbag. (me and my friends are only freshman and we dont drink or do drugs) . Right before they were about to leave to go home i asked about the pot. The kid i like promised he didnt do it, just his friend. but i dont know who to belive. :( (link)
Well, You jsut met him and you don't know if he is lieing or not.
He could very well be doing drugs, But lets not assume.
You could try approaching him and telling him the danger's of doing drugs.
Also, If he is doing drusg and you continue to hang out with him there could be alot of peer presure there. If it turns out he does do drugs, i suggest not being in contact with him anymore.Yes, Harsh. But I don't recommend getting into that kind of stuff.
Annd, Look for symptons of drugs on him. Or maybe ask his friend? He coudl lie though.
I hope I helped.
If you have any more question's feel free to message me.


Hey I need help convincing my parents to get me a snake! I want one soo bad, and I'd do pretty much anything for it. So how can I persuade them? Have any of you done it before, and have any pointers?
That would be great!
Thankss!! (link)
Well, I think your parents know whats the best pet for your lifestyle. And they don't think it does, And maybe it will never fit your lifestyle. You shouldnt get a pet that's not fitings your agenda.
Also, Before getting a pet do your research.
A)It will prove to your parents you are responsible.
B)You don't know what you may be getting into. Snakes can be dangerous and getting one to look cool is not a good reason to get a pet.
And, Sometimes a pet just deosnt fit the family.
Also, Saying you want a BIGG snake is not enough research, Look up and learn about a certain breed of snake.We don't need anymore irresponisble pet owners out there. We already have enough;)


Is there anyway you can make moles go away ? (link)
Not that I know of, I know you can go to the hospital and get the surgericaly removed. There might be some products to hide them, If there was some to get moles away I doubt it would work.


When I am with my boyfriend and he does something I really like sometimes I feel like I could throw up. For instance he will kiss my neck and after a while I feel like, not nauseous but... well this will sound gross but whatever is in my stomach feels like it will come up and I have to like take a break from doing that for a minute. Is there anything I can do to stop that? It's weird and I wish it didn't happen!! (link)
Well , I have never heard of this before but Maybe you feel like this because you are not ready for what he is doing,Alot of people feel that when they are uncomfortable.


REALLY LONG!

I'm 16/F
I've liked one of my best guy friends named Ben for a while but I'm not sure if he's considered a "jerk" and a bad guy for me. I'm wondering if I should let it go. I met a while ago and as soon as I saw him, I knew I wanted to find out who he was and talk to him. I noticed how nice and smart he was and he made me laugh more than anyone I know. We flirted for months and I never went a day without talking to him. We always texted each other from the beginning of school until the time I went to sleep and during class, he would only talk to me and ignore his rude friend who always cussed me and my friends out. He was picking me over his best friend. Eventually, he liked me, too, and even admitted "I can't keep myself away from you." But something happened over the summer and our differences got between us and we only talked about 2 times a month. I secretly still like him and I didn't stop the whole summer. On the first day of school I was walking and I looking around for my friends and I saw him. We were looking straight at each other for the first time in months and I choked up and turned away really quickly and hid. Childish, I know. Later on, my best friend told me he texted her asking about me and why I didn't talk to him and whatnot. So when I finally saw him, I jumped on his back like I always did. He just kept walking though because his best friends Luke and Sam kept telling him to and they kept telling Ben not to talk to me and telling me to go away. They were acting like they were 12! But the bad thing was Ben was listening to them and I couldn't understand why. First he complains I don't talk to him and then when i do, he runs away. I can't stand guys who are too influenced by their friends. He should make choices on his own. Should I let it slide or just ditch him forever? I mean, I can't imagine what he says if his friends tell him I'm ugly or whatever. He used to go around showing off that I liked him and acting like I'm his whore but I know he's a good guy. I never liked anyone for this much and I never wasted this much time on a guy. But should I just drop him because he does whatever they say? I just don't know anymore.
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Finally a post with enough information.
It sounds like Ben may be mad because you didnt talk, I think you should talk to him. Don't just assume things.If its a resonible explantion than be nice talk it through. If you get jerk response from him, Ignore him. If he really isnt a jerk he will talk to you about it.
Also, Don't listen to anyone, If they say that he hates you or he likes you, Find out for your selves, Rumnors are spread easily. Its best to talk face to face with him.
Hope I helped, And good luck.


i like this guy but he doesntseem like to like u what do i do (link)
More information would be appreacated.
But, I will say what I think.
Don't chaneg yourslef for him, Don't act cute if thats not how you normallya act. Be yourself.
Also, There's no way of making someone like you, If they liek you they like you, If they don't they don't. You can't force anyone to be liking you.
Talk to him more, And maybe tell him how you feel eventually.


im 16f.

i SECRETLY have a huge crush on this guy for about 4 months now. i invited him on friendster and yahoo messenger. my friends forced me to save his number in my cellphone. we're classmates. they we're really fooling around and they started to text him as if im the one texting. they asked him about our english project because we're groupmates. There was really no conversation, just a read and reply type of thing... as if he's not interested.

some of my close friends in class often catch him starring at me.
he's close to other girls but he just ignores me.
he becomes quiet wen im around or near him.
we just glance at each other from time to time.

what is really going on with him? i dunno if sum1 told him bout my secret or does he just hate me being around? wut do i do?

im not really used to guys ignoring me... i often please them but this guy, the one i like the most is the one i can't stand.

please help.... thanks in advance! (link)
No one can tell if someone likes another person really, Everyone shows it in different ways. Maybe that's his way of showing he likes you.
The best way to tell if he likes you is start talking to him.
Do NOT listen to any rumors you heard about him likeing or hating you, Only beilve it when he says it to your face.


what do guys look for in girls looks physical and mental. be completely honest what makes you think were hot? (link)
Ugh, Very guy has his own likes and dislikes a girl, It all depends.
Some like sporty, Some like girly.
Gah, I would right more but I have tape on my fingers. Making it hard to type.


15/f i have bacne (back acne). what can i do about it? (link)
Well, I am guessing you would treat it like face acne? I am just guessing here, But maybe try getting some acne cream and getting someone to put it on.
If you are really worried go to a doctor, They will give you pills .




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