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Is it just a myth that you can masturbate too much?
If it isn't, what are the consequences of it?
How much is too much?

I'd appreciate real medical answers instead of just guesses or rumors, but I'll take anything. If it makes a difference, the question is for someone m/21. Websites would be great. Thanks.

nope, its healthy to masterbate. it gets you familular with your body and what exactly you can and cant do, it makes you familular with what you like and what you want a girl to do to you. give her tips, help her out.. :) plus its fun!

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my frend wants a bf and asks me to help her find 1. i dont want to help her. how should i tell her?

tell her straight up that its not up to you to find her a bf. its her own problem! tell her that your too busy and you dont mind hanging out with her and her new guy to see how he is..but you dont want to find one for her.

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Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!

you prolly intimadate them! talk to them..make friends with them. dont act all goody-too shoe around them! have fun with it..and make friends with them. go over and talk to them first :)

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ok like if your popular and every1 thinks ur a snob how do you get people to stop hating you!?!?! thanxxx

dont say 'like' as much. and stop being a snob. hang out with everyone.

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kay well i'm liek realy popular (im not trying to brag) n i have these friends that are like not so popular.. and i still wanna be friends with them but the popular pplz were like u cant be friends with them if u wanna be friends with us. but the pplz that rnt so popular r like really nice and so r the popular pplz.
what do i do
plz help

stop talking like that! stop saying the word 'like' and learn how to type and maybe people will like you better! geeze em!

anyways - other then the fact this is kinda a retarded question, try to hang out with both of them. so called 'popular' people arent always the nicest people, its nice to have friends outside of one group. so try to hang out with both. if the 'populars' dont like it then its their loss. dont loose nice, and close friends just to become popular. its not worth it.

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hey can someone help me think of a good screen name for instant message? i can't think of one. please help! i'm a so if you can think of any with in it also that would help! thx! i rate high!

uh... okay this is for advice? i guess this is kinda advice

what kind of things do you like. you cant just say give me a screen name! haha

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so i just flat out asked my bf what he wanted for his bday..he said "nothing, thanks" so i dont know, are they like girls that play that "dont get me anything" game or what? lemme know what you think. thanks!

get him a watch :) so then he can never be late..
make him food. guys LOVE food.
make him a scrapbook of pictures of you. thats always cute

i made ryan a pillow and on it i had all of our memories on it. they were listed in a felt-tip marker. which was awesome! haha.. but it looked cool and it was from the heart. bring him out to dinner. pamper him, give him a back massage :)

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ok so im 16 and just got my permit..every driving lesson ends in a headache because my mom would get crazy..telling me to do 5 different things..like i pulled into the parking lot of a park and shes like:
"stop right here...put the car in park..then she would see i was blockin a car so she would be like " pull over here..park over there.." it drove me nuts! i understand when she says to stay over more on the road...instructional things for me to learn..but when she spazzes out it gets really nervouss and upset..is there anything i can do? dont say only drive with my dad because i mostly am with my mom..my dad works nights so he sleeps all day...so i only drive with him sometimes...

ZONE HER OUT! parents are clueless! i hated driving with my mom, she was sucha pain in my butt! haha.. but seriously have fun while your driving and since you have your permit just listen to her. just kinda nod your head and dont fight back cause member your in her car! haha.. just take what she says in and just go with it. just keep on thinking ill be driving soon! things will be 1000 times better when your on your own! believe me hunny! haha good luck!

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So when I wear eyeliner it always seems to go into the side of my eye and goop or w/e. help me!

dont wear so much! it does that through the course of the day..or in the middle of the day go reapply and wipe away the extra :)

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Ever heard of Proactiv? Does it work? Where can you get it?

you can get it through your doctor, or you can order it off of tv. it works pretty well, but it dries out your skin and then it cracks and peals.

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Im only 15 years old but i need a job this summer. Do you know any jobs that will hire at 15 other than publix

resturants will hire you as a buser.
go get a workers permit. then go around town :)

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hey everyone, do u guys know any good websites where u can make buddy icons? (( i already know about iconator.com)) thanks a bunch!
~*jemmy*~:D

buddy4u.com go to the forums
iconator.com
iconhell.com

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OK.. well usually my period is.. well i dont really know how to put it.. thinck i guess. and dark. But this month it seems a lot thinner and lighter. Is this normal? Or should I see a doctor or something?

well, ususally it varies between month to month. stress causes it to fluctuate as well. but if its really bad or anything, then consult a doctor. otherwise.. its normal :)

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I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!

american eagle
hollister
aeropostale
pac-sun
macys
sears
rave
501
alloy
delias :) hope this helps.

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ok theres this boy Nick, and i really really love him and he broke up with me today, and now he likes my best friend who hates him...i really want him back. how do i get him back?

well..obviously he didnt 'love' you. im sure you'll get over it in a few days. hes not worth it if hes gunna dump you and try to go for your best friend. that sounds like an asswhole thing to do. there are plenty of guys out there. look for the one that will give you the time of day and love you back, not your best friend.

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I am 14/m and extremly confused right now...There are two girls that I am very close with, they are practically twins (not by looks- intrests, thoughts, etc.) I have strong feelings for both of them. They both are extremly pretty, funny, smart, the works. The problem is I think one ,~Tara~, is starting to flirt with me while the other,*Laura*, has for almost a week.

Should I confront them about this? Or should I wait it out, or what?

Thanks to anyone who can help...

Signed,

Confused

Personally.. are they twins.. like sisters? if they are. dont go for either of them because of jeliousy and fights may occur. but i think you should wait it out and see how you feel about each of them. give it a few days and get to know both of them. look beyond their looks and how funny or smart they are. see if you like what they like..if you have common intrests. if you enjoy spending time with them.,

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Okay, I'm just a bit curious. Everybody thinks cutting is so freakishly horrible and everything. Well in all honesty, I don't see the harm in it unless you're making cuts deep enough for stitches or something. Otherwise, you may have a mark or a scar - but no real damage done..? When I get extremely upset - it usually helps calm me down, in a BIG way. What is all the hype about..?

When you cut.. think about this. What if someone came into the room and scared you - and you accidently cut a vein and bled really badly? - what if the knife you used had something on it and it got into your body and poisioned you.. and you got an infection? what if someone accidently bumped you and you cut deep and ended up killing yourself.

think about the little things other then the big things that may happen. i use to cut and my boyfriend gave me tons of sanarious of what could happen..and it really made me think about it and i stopped shortly after. is cutting really that big of a thing in your life that your willing to kill yourself and hurt people that care about you? talk to your parents about getting help.

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what are some cute baby girl names?

Kaylie, Kendall, Maria, Danielle, Kia, Kae, Andrea, Bailey, Briana, Candice, Stacie, Kaitlin, Rebecca, Madison, Jasmin, Monica, Cassandra, Kimmi, Monnie, Rachel, Katie, Cayle, Jessica, Sarah, Jessie, Vanessa, Hannah, Missy, Melissa, Amy, Shawna, Britney, Michaela, Meghan, Olivia, Erika, Celina, Kayla, Sammy, Summer, Christie, kyleigh - very random ones :)

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ok this probally going to sound really gross or whatever but..when i shave my arm pits theres still like black dots...and my arm pits usally get really red...what should i do to get rid of the black dots and redness

well if there are black dots that means you didnt completly shave off the tips of the hairs. you may want to switch razor blades..and when you do shave your arm pits go in all diffrent directions. the hair grows in all diffrent directions so shave that way! :) its the only way to get rid of it. and as for the redness, get deodrant with lotion. it will help with this. :)

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why is it that guy find girl on girl action so attractive??
ill rate if ur advice is good

because for most guys it is there ultimate fantasy. for most guys they find about 75% of the girls they see hot or attractive. they would bang pretty much all of them, just for some action.. and they wouldnt mind seeing most of them naked. for the simple fact that two girls are doing things to eachother...and he gets to sit back and watch is very attractive to a guy. seeing two "hot" girls do things to eachother turns guys on even more then just when a girl does things to him. no clue why..guys are weird..just go with it and be like hunny..i am not doing anything with my hot best friend. :P

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