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I stayed over my friends house one weekend and her brother is my bestfriends boyfriend. That night me and him stayed up and hung out and played around (like hittin eachother with stuff and pushin eachother of the bed) and he said 'You know what? Dont tell Cjay(my bestfriend) this but I think I'm starting to like you. I didn't like him before he said that and I started to like him.And they are the type of couple that break up everynight and get back together sooner or later, and this was a night they broke up.Then we stayed up all night watching movies and playing around and holding hands and stuff, nothing bad. But Cjay found out and she told me to stay away from her for however long. Her b.f told me that he ment that he liked me, and not to worry b/c he'll fix everything. I don't want my best friend to hate me, but I like her b.f....Idk wat to do....
It sounds like you may have been the catalyst that led to their recent separation. In which case, you need to ascertain what were the causes of the constant breakups between your (ex) best friend and her boyfriend. If it's a flaw in her personality that had caused the drama between them, then you really ought to consider having a chat with her and making your case. T
ry to convince her why it would never work out between the two of them. In fact, if you really want to be devious about it and are willing to do whatever it takes to get the guy, you might want to fill her pretty little head with the idea that there's nothing wrong with HER and it's all HIS fault. Ergo, she should break up with him because she deserves better. Lead her to that conclusion, let the situation cool down, and then date the guy.
If the boyfriend is at fault most of the time, then you need to ask yourself if you *really* want to be with somebody who isn't mature enough to make up his mind whether or not he wants to be in a relationship. He might be a complete idiot who can't make up his mind if his life depended on it. Hell, most guys are like that and it only gets worse with age.
I am 15/f, and re-entering a relationship with this guy I care a lot about. Long story short, I messed up big time and we broke it off for a few weeks. Now he is giving me a second chance, even though he is very hesitant about it. I want to show him I care, and do a few little cute things for him, only I have absolutely no ideas. My creativity is failing me, but I need to make it up to him. Anyone out there have some ideas?
Take him out to lunch or dinner, buy him a small token representing your undying love, etc. Just don't offer yourself as a sex toy. For one thing, you'll regret it later on if he breaks up with you anyway. He might also be nasty about it and tell everybody in school that you're willing to whore yourself out for affection. At the age of 15 you'll probably want to avoid getting an undeserved reputation as the school bicycle (you know, "every has had a ride" haha...and so on and so forth.)
Well i met this kid and he goes to my school and i really like him but he has a girlfriend but he always tells me im hot and we have great conversations together and hes really sweet too. He says he loves being single and everything and he said also that he likes her but he just doesnt know and it kinda seems he likes me but im not sure. help me please!
Getting involved with somebody who is already occupied with another is often a very, very (VERY) bad idea. For one thing, if the object of your desire shows no compunction about cheating on his current girlfriend, what makes you think he won't do the same thing to you when you're both a couple?