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Im a person who can help mostly anyone, with mostly any problem. Im a people-person & i love to chat. Talking is more like my hobby =) I love to hang out with my friends anytime i can & other than that, i go to school. Try IMing me too. I hope that you'll trust me with your questions, issues, problems, etc. I am also here for emotional support! Thank you![[ ♥ ]]
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I'm as pale as anything. I mean it too. I'm not going to the beach this summer wither, so it's like impossible to get a tan, specially since i live way up north. In the past 2 months I can honestly say I have tried a dozen different fake tanner products. Some leave my skin blotchy, streaky, or orange looking. I need a fake tanner that looks 100% natural, doens't turn you orange, and doesn't have those annoying sparkles in them. My fake tan CANNOT wash off in salt water or fresh water. And I prefer it not to smell too bad : / !! Please help me I'm desperate. I need to find a fake tanner that last and looks 100% natural. I don't care how much it cost! Other tanners I've used.. when I first put rub it in and after a couple of days it looks great. Except when I take a shower.. Then it comes off in certain places making my skin look blotchy. I also would look to have a fake tanning lotion that has a tint in it too, so i can see where I'm applying it. And one last thing, I'm not only looking for a fake tanner for my body, but also for my face! any suggestions?!? I'm sorry for the long detailed story, I just need to find somethign that works along my expectations. Thank you sooooo much!
Fake Tanner -
So, this is a great Q. for me. My mom owns a tanning salon. lol. First, fake tanners are bad for your skin. people say that tanning is bad for you, too, but that`s wrong. you MUST wear tanning lotion, but wear it in a TANNING BED! If you figure out that Tanning Salons are better, which they ARE, try to find a PLANET BEACH. they are top of the line, and not that expensive. hope i helped you.
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ok so i went out with this guy for like 2 days. then he broke up with me and my best friend told me to go ask him out for her. i really regret asking him cuz theyve been going out for 2 months now. i still really like him and he said that if him and my bff broke up he would probably go out with me again. but my best friend said that if i ever go out with him again she would hate me. im afraid that if i go out with him again that he'll break up with me again and break my heart in pieces. i dont know if i should go out with him again.
please help!!
thanks in advance. =)
Hey there. Okay. first, your friend, doesn`t exactly sound like a "good" friend. Once your b/f broke up with you, your friend should have NEVER even asked you to ask him. RUDE times 10. & that loser you call your ex, well he shouldn`t be telling you that he`d go back out with you. WHAT A PLAYER. girl, you need to move on. Find a new guy. A guy that will like you, and you ALONE.
Hope i helped you a bit.
I really want boys to find me attractive.On myspace no boys ever leave me any picture comments, but they leave all of my friends comments even if they arn't really all that attractive. I have the personality, but I just need help finding a look for me. I want boys to notice me, and actually say I'm pretty. I'm thinking about changing my hair color. I'm a brunette right now, so I'm probably going to be a blonde. I'm prep and wear A&f and Hollister because I like the store so please no lectures. I need you guys to help my find a new look. I want to change my hair, (any popular hair styles would be appricated.) I want to wear make up that will bring out my features, like what kind of make up would make my eyes stand out more and appear bigger? I just want boys to actually think I'm SOMEWHAT attractive for once. What kinds of clothes should I wear to make guys think I have a nice body, but not appear slutty and what colors attract attention? So basically I need help to do with my hair, make up (especially eyes and lips) clothes, overall appearence and anything else that attracts guys. Any help would be appreciated!
Hi there. Before you get your hair changed, make sure you are doing this for YOU! Guys are so difficult! Before i deleted my myspace, hardly any guys commented my pics. but did on all my friends. i thought that i wasn`t pretty, too. But that wasn`t right. I too wear Hollister, Abercrombie, AE, and A&F. So the question is, because i wear THE clothes, guys should like me. . .right? Not exactly. Today this world is so clique-ey. It`s retarted. But the guys are probablt all hanging out and throwing your name in, every now and then. but if not, think about it. once you grow up, the guys are going to go after the girls who MIGHT HAVE worn THE clothes, but also the girls who never tried to stand out. At least not in a bad way. Talk to some guys around school. say hey, or casually flirt with them. You can`t go wrong that way. But this is what i would do. I totally understand if this advice is soo not you. we`re all different. but i hope this is okay. -- IM me sometime, or e-mail me. you & i seem to have a lot in common. =)
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There is this really nice guy who likes me and wants to go to the movies with me (he thinks I like him because I used to), but I don't really like him in that way, so how do I tell him I don't want to go to the movies and that I just want to be firends???
Thanks!!
hey - okay, if i were in your situation, which i actually have been - this is what i`d do. go to the movies with him, have a nice time, but DO NOT let him get too close. Afterwards, you can tell him you had a great night, and that the two of you are going to be GREAT friends. If he looks confused or asks what you`re talking about, politely tell him you want to be friends first. If he totally slams you, then you have the right to tell everyone you know that there was never a relationship. - when i was in this situation i actually found myself falling for him. . .again. so you never know.
i hope this helps!
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Well I have this friend, she's a year younger (7th grade) and we're like best friends. Well I told her who I liked the other day and she said she 'likes' him to. we both like another person ( her other is different than mine) but I don't think she really does. We agreed not to let this come 'between us', but then the next morning, she asks him out he didn't answer her yet, but I'm really upset because I reaally like him.
what should i do besides talking to her because i already tried that?
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Ok. if you tried talkiing already, then i can really only think of one other solution that will actually help. If yu really like this guy, and yu feel upset, then maybe yu should wait and see what happens. If he says "yes" then i think yu shud wait and see what happens. I kno yu'll be upset, but its better to have one person upset, than 2! So wait it out. Then if nothing happens, such as breaking up, or arguments, maybe yu could try finding someone else. I kno yu may think that he is "the one", but, trust me, there are probably 30 other guys that yu didn't even kno existed.. After a while, if thats a "real" friend, she should notice how upset yu were. - From there on yu need to use yur own judgement. I hope this helps! Good luck! & trust me, there are atleast 1 million people who are going thru the same thing, or who have experienced it too.. including me.
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Basically, I would say that around school I am pretty popular with all of my girlfriends and i hav eno trouble being myself and having fun. HOWEVER, once i get around boys I quiten up so much more and i get all nervous like a little girl! I don't know what's wrong with me because I used to be fine but some of my girl friends can be a little too loud and overpowering...HELP! x x x
Hey --
THIS question right here, i believe, will help both, you, and MYSELF. Lately i have had that same problem. You and i seem to be just identical. I am so used to being myself, and i am popular with my friends... but when it comes to those boys... you just dont kno what to do.
Well, luckily, lately i have been improving VERY much. All i did was keep myself around boys, instead of trying to avoid them. I would say "hey" or something, and all they wouled do is smile back and say "hey". Right now, i have ALOY of guy friends and i am almost the same as when i am with my "girl" friends. I am even being liked by some of the guys!!
I really hope that this helped you out!
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i really like this guy who is 13 and in 7th grade. i am 14 and in 8th grade. he is a typical jock - extremely good looking, plays football and runs track, dumb as a rock, and hangs out with all the "popular" girls (aka 8th grade cheerleaders). i play soccer and basketball, am pretty and make good grades. we are total opposites, but i am just like drawn to him. i have one class with him and we talk sometimes and he tries to flirt with me occasionally. i catch him watching me from across the room and sometimes he even coughs to get my attention and then when i look up, he will look down really fast. we go to a really small private school so we see each other a lot during the day. he will get in front of me in the lunch line or stand watching me while i am hanging out with my friends. he will point towards me sometimes and his friends (they are mostly 8th grade football players) will look up, but when i look up, they all look away. the other day in class, he asked me to come sit by him and talked to me a lot, in a flirty way. i am really crazy about him. do these things mean that he likes me too? i have only had one boyfriend. this guy doesn't think anything about putting his arm around a girl (not girlfriend, just friend) and that is like a big deal to me. i have never even held hands with a guy before. i have liked him for about seven months, but he doesn't know. i am too nervous to ask him out. what should i do? my parents think he is really immature and always needs attention, but he is really sweet. they have totally misjudged him. i need some good advice asap! i will rate all 5's!! thanks in advance :) !!!
Hey! Well, i may not be a perfect advice-giver, but i certainly will try my best. I definetly think this boy likes you, and i think that he is thinking that he is too nervous to ask you out. BUT, someone has to make a move. If NOTHiNG happens, then yu both could be missing out on two REALLY great people. But i advise that you give it just a little more time, and make sure that he's right for you, and that he yu dont seem too eager. - Guys are hard to read sometimes. But this one seems too much to me, like he likes you. Good luck! And i REALLY hope this helps you!
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We have a school dance this week and i want to sneak my boyfriend in that goes to another school. But i dont know if he wants to go or if i will get into trouble. So should i try to sneak him in and risk going home or not even try?
Thanks
Well having a b/f form another school;; always has its consequences. But this is what i think yu shud do. I think that yu shud tell yur b/f that yu really wanna kno if he wants to seriously go. If he doesnt i have great news! it would be great for yu guys to maybe go to a movie & dinner or sumthin - that way yu still get to have a great time. But if he admits that he wants to go, then I would probably tell him that yu could always go to a movie. If yu leave hints that yu'd really rather do that, then he'll choose the movie if he rally loves yu. Dont be worried. I just wouldnt try to sneak him in. No one wants to get in trouble.. or thrown out!
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I have a little crush on Adam Brody from the OC. Is it normal to get a crush on an actor as long as you don't go nutso (which I don't)?
Yes, of course it is. Just about 1/2 of the pop. in America has or had a crush on a celebrity. It's totally fine! & just to make yu kno thats true, my sister likes Jesse McCartney, along w/ 3 of my friends, & i have a crush on MANY different celebs. So don't worry.
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I realize that this is a question asked millions of times per day and that I normally skip over questions like these. Please don't do that here. There's this guy in one of my classes, and I like him. Since the beginning of the year, he's been emphasising the traits that we have in common. For example, I am an unuually loud and outgoing person. He has become loud and seems really confident. Plus he has style and is so cute. He's funny and makes me smile. Lately, he's been walking 1/2way to my next class with me and today his arm was around me for like a long time. I haven't really had any experience with guys, but I am in high school, and so is he. Do you think that he's being friendly, or that he likes me? Thanks for not disregarding this question, and I will rate well for genuine advice!
Ok, this issue had gone on since the beginning of time! & i am sure that i too, know ppl in this situation. Iym not a phychic here, & i don't kno what EXACTLY he is thinking, but i can sure help yu out.
What he is probably doing, is very vell, FLiRTiNG! -- If he is dropping hints like that, & he had his arms around yu, i would definetly say he is in to yu! So, my advice to yu, is to maybe be straight out with him. Maybe write hom a note explaining that yu would to to hang out with him after school. Then wherever yu may go, maybe yu could tell him that yu like him. If he has agreed to go with yu, he definitly is curious. So be mysterious before yu let him kno yu like him. - He may make the first move! I hope this advice helps. & i won't ever skip over a question. - Iym an advice giver, every question is ment to be answered sooner or latur.
i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do?
Ok, trust me, this thing happens all the time. Don't worry. If your friend cares about you at all, then he'll understand you're in love. But, if he is making such a huge deal about it, & he won't just face it, then set him straight. Tell him that if he can't be happy for you, then there is no room in your life for him. I mean come on! A girl finds true love - When this happens, no one wants the relationship to go down the drain. I hope this advice helps!
~Sincerely,
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