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so i had sex with my boyfriend and stuff .. anyways .. a day or two after we did ithe got really sick .. and then he got rushed into the ER .. they said it was either std .. or UTI .. and i was the first person hed done it with .. and .. but i'm checked.. then he told me that like .. he could've gotten it from like .. lumberjack days .. idk something with a dumpster .. he didn't exactly tell me the whole story.. but ..the doctor said that it was probably something to do with the dumpster .. because of all the germs and stuff .. but now, he doesn't wanna hang out with me. He says he still loves me and likes me and stuff .. but he's not gunna do anything with me anymore. He thinks i'm diseased .. what should i do!? (link)
personally if hes avoiding you den he doesnt relle care for you as much as he claims he does..you need to jus dump him if he cant c da truth. yu dont need a man like tht in your life. hope i helped :)


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my parents want let me ride around w/ my friends that are like 16 17 18...and it makes me mad...i mean when i go to my friends house i ride around w/ them...and my mom doesn't know...and then i feel like a dork when my friends call and ask if i can go and i have to be like *my mom want let me ride w/ ppl* and it jst pisses me off! ahh!

idk...wat can i do to get my mom to let me ride w/ my friends?? (link)
okay, i've been in this position before..many timez..i get where yur parents are coming from because they prolly think tht yur friendz are immature and they just relle care about yew and they dont want anything to happen to you. But yu've got to get yur mom to trust you/your friendz. have your friendz over alot and after time your mom will realize that they arent just a bunch of kids who dont care..and den she'll let you go. while yur doing this dont tell your friendz the reason why. just meet them there and get dropped off or just make up somethyn. hope i helped :)


ok there is this person i REALLY like and we have known each other for like 2 yrs now.well last summer this person asked me if i would ever go out wit them but i said no b/c at that time i didnt really think much of being more then friends.but now i cant stand be be away from them i think about them all the time and they do kno how i feel but like they are on and off one week they will like me then the next they dont but when we are alone its like we are together but they always end up havin a gf how do they really feel about me idk cuz they are so on and off i cant tell but then they are always like yeah i like u when we break up then me and u will get together well it still doesnt happen (link)
okay. well it seemz to me like this sumone doesnt knoe wut he/she wantz. If they did relle love you then it wouldnt be on or off. OIt wuld be non-stop. Juss ask him/her out and if they saii no .. den move on..i knoee tht seemz hard to do claiming how much yu like him/her but itz wat yu gotta do. Itz better to move on den staii wondering , hurt, and confused. Hope i helped and good luck!^_^


I love this guy he loves me and we have been dating for a while but latley hes been selling drugs for his prohbation officer and up to now i've always gave him money if he needed it, and he knows that, he told me he would stop all of this afterhe was done with prohbation,i am there for him 100% but only because i love him, but at times i just want to tell ask him if he knows what he is doing. He has looked for a job all over the city and no one will take him because he has a bad record. I cant just up and leave him because of this because me and him has been really good friends for almost three years and we've been dating for like a year or so. Please tell me what i should do (link)
okay..if yu claim diz guy loves you as much as yu sai he does..den if yu simply tell him how yu feel he wuld stop and change his wayz. If not den girl yu gotta do wut yu gotta do..And datz leave him. Bc yu dont need a man like tht in yur life.Hope i helped ^_^


okay, this saturday im going to a party. `nd at tha party there's gonna b drugs. i want to go cuz my crush is going to be dea and so is everyone else but then i don't bc i dont want to get pressured to do anything i dont want to do. What shuld i do? signed, confused (link)
okayy..well..personally thiz soundz like tha wrong crowd to be wid but i know how yew feel cuz i've been dea before. If yu relle want to go so yu dont feel left out .. den go. But only go if yu're confident and brave enuff to say "nO". If yu have problemz saying no to peer pressure and yu know yur gonna get pressured den don't go and make up sumthyn. Dont worry dea will be other partiez. Go whenever yur readi. Or if yu even want bring a friend wid yu dat will sai no 2 .. that wai when yu sai no yu dont seem like tha weird wun. Hope i helped and hope yu make da right decision.




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