Hey im a pretty nice person who needs alot of help im a little messy with my life so it could be polished a bit but i love to help people and im pretty good with advice so im told so yea..
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Age: 15
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well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM" (link)
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I dont no if i will be much of a help but i cant relate extremely or closely i find that im always wishing i was more interesting or talkative and i find that am always putting myself down...for other people it looks so easy when they try to hangout with someone but when you try they all look at you like your a freak from some other planet..almost like your invisible and noone cares. I also find myslef at home all the time its like i have nofriends that like me...and i always ask what is wrong with me? but i think you should just try to talk more be compltely yourself and dont hide in the corner like me and be unnoticed because then you reall feel invisible so try to be out there and fun and mainly just talk more thats how you can be more outgoing, dont be afriad to show them how you are and if they cant deal with it i think its time to find new friends...trust me i think i need new friends too except for the fact i live in a small town and i have nowhere else to go:S if that a case with you then just throw a movie night at your house or plana huge group activity that everyone will want to do then they might want to hang with you more often
-Tawny
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I'm 14/f and latly I've been wanting a boyfrined soooooo freaking much, I just want someone to make me laugh, hold me, like me for me, protect me, just a guy to be there for me. It's not like my whole school has a boyfriend or girlfriend there only like err...4 mabye 6 couples that have been dating for a while. Also I'll be attracted to this guy and I can't stop thinking about them then like one day I'm like ew wtf was i thinking liking him. I just don't get why I like a guy one momment and then the next not so much and I want a boyfriend soo bad and it seems like my friends are quite as obsesed as I am with guys and wanting a boyfriend so is this normal? Is there any way I can um.. like try to not have my emotions so strong, not wanting a guy soooo much??
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Haha Okay well i went through the same thing i actually was pressured into a relationship from my friends becasue i wanted a bf so bad, but let me tell you that its the wrong way to go. i kept telling myself i like this guy because i wanted a bf so bad so i think you should think about this guy before you actually no if you like him or not, uhm id say that its easy to get out these emotions by flirting alot then you may decide its funner to hang witha variety of guys then just one!
-Tawny
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i gotta cutting problem im 15 and a gurl and a few of my friends are getting mad at me for it. ITs so hard not to cut though like when im cuttin i dont even care cuz im so mad and its gotton really bad. Like im afraid that one of these times im gonna get so madd im gonna end up killing myself cuz its like i just dont care but the next day i really regret doin it. I'v tried everything i could think of to stop but nothing works. SO my question is does anybody know ways to stop cutting (link)
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The reason you Cut yourself may be a way for you to express your anger and you welcome the pain because you no its really there you want to feel it ...i think you should try to take out your anger in a different way..try writing poetry it works for me and sometimes i look back at them and i understand my feelings a little better.. also try to stay in a posotive mood like do something that makes you happy i hope i helped =)
-Tawny
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