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Ok....I've been talkin to my boyfriend on the phone alot But he ingores me almost all the time!!!!!!...all he does is plays his football/basketball game on his x-box and ingores me!...what should i do dump him or what?!? (link)
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Tell him it bugs you! And if he dosent at least try to stop dump him.
Hope i helped!
GoodAdvice12345
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ok well i know this guy likes me. I know it for a fact. But he is stalling to ask me out. Does anyone know who to get him to ask me out before next friday ( The school halloween dance )?
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Ask him out! Dont wait till he asks you just ask him!
Hope I helped!
GoodAdvice12345
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well there is this guy in my class, matthew, hes a goth. well he seems to always talk to me, and at lunch my group sits near his group, like 6 meters apart. and he sits with his girlfriend but he seems to look at me alot. in class today he went "I love your eyes" and he strokes my hair..and smells my hair...2 of my friends said he likes me...does he like me? (link)
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How can i put this nicely? DUH! Of course he likes you i mean not everyone comes up to you and compliments you on your eyes and plays and smells your hair! But i think that you shouldnt like jump at him because u said he has a gf righ? Ya u did. So i dont think you should like through yourself at him.
Hope I helped!
GoodAdvice12345
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any 1 know where i could get funny ring tnes
in russian or english
by funny its like a dude thats high says "COUZE I GOT HIGH" or somethin like that
u know... words and free... lol
any takers? (link)
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If you have Nextel got to Nextel.com.
Hope i helped
GoodAdvice12345
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ok, i am an 18 year old female and my boyfreind is 22 years old. we live a ways apart (him new york me ohio) because i was forced to move. well, we have been living apart for about a month and a half and we can't take it anymore. but we can't decide wether we should have me move up there with him or have him move down here with me. at first we had sorta planned me going and living with him. but then my mom found out that she might have a tumor on her ovaries, tubes, or liver. She doesnt want me to leave because she needs me and my brother will too. (in situations where there is trouble, my brother looks up to me, if im doing ok he will be fine and he knows that). So my mom asked me to ask him to move here so that we coudl both support her and each other. (my mom likes him) but then i owuld be asking him to uproot his life. from the place he lived for 20 years. from his family and his freinds and everything he knows. so i asked him if he would be WILLING to do so. He told me "Whatever i have to do to be with you". But now i feel like i am being selfish in asking him to do that. did i do the right thing in asking him to move here? please help i will rate all good answers as 5's. any smartass comments dont get rated! (link)
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1st of all i think its really cool that your mom likes him even though he is older that you! I wish my mom was that cool!
2nd of all i think you really need to be there for your mom and brother and i dont think its selfish to ask your bf to move to Ohio bc he seems to not mind (by what you have writen) bc it looks to me like he really loves you and if he dose even if you didnt ask him to move there he probably would have anyways. So I think that its not selfish.
Hope I helped!
GoodAdvice12345
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Ok so I am 16 and I am in love with a 15 year old!!! is that wrong? I mean he really likes me as well as I like him and I cant stop thinking about him, is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 15 year old that is about to turn 16 in 5 months??? (link)
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NO! I mean if you really like him whats the big deal? I mean women marry (not that ur like gonna marry him or anything) younger men all the time. My moms friend is like 50 and she is married to a 40 year old so one year isnt that big of a deal.
Hope i helped!
GoodAdvice12345
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13/f/ny
My ex-best friend Maggie is such a jerk!!
We had a fight and decided not to be friends anymore, because she totally used me to come over to my (big) house, swim in my (inground) pool, and just get away from her own house. i have proof that she did that too - cuz one time i got sick when she was over and she swam and hung out with my little bro & sis all day while i was up in bed throwing up!!!!
Now she is telling everyone rumours about me and being such a brat. she told everyone on our bus who i like. she told him too. she told everyone all the secrets i used to tell her..even the old ones. i want to get back at her..but i don't. i mean, i'm sort of the girl that NEVER does anything mean and people even call me a goody goody or whatever.
i am really fed up with maggie! what should i do to get her to stop making up things about me and telling all my secrets! i could tell all of her secrets to everyone..but to tell you the truth i actually don't know any (it was sort of a one sided relationship..i cared about her but she didnt give a crap about me)
thanx! ~rach~ (link)
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1st of all dont tell her anymore secrets
2nd of all just forget about her she obviously wasnt a very good frined and u sound really nice and u probbably have alot of other good friends. So just forget her!
Hope I helped
GoodAdvice12345
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There are a lot of really ugly girls at my school (( not to be mean to them becasue I think I'm ugly too )) that get really hott boyfriends, and some of them are juniors and seniors. I'm a freshman and I really want someone but I cant get anyone... ever... Can anyone help me? My friend Says I need to be more confident... HELP! (link)
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You do need to be more confident. But it shouldnt matter to the other person if you cute or not it should matter whats on the inside(im sure youve heard this before but its the truth!) Also i know that you want a bf but u have to be patient! It will happen edventually!
Hope i helped!
GoodAdvice12345
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Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!
Thank you! I will rate high for good answers:D (link)
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Well i think if you really love the guy that you should tell him that it bothers you that he says stuff about "hott chicks" and the nude pictures. But if you dont love the guy then dump him. Im sure that you'll find someone else!
Hope this helps!
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does anyone know any fun party songs? maybe 80s 90s er now a days.
thanks! (link)
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The hampster dance is like the coolest song! ha ha! i know its dorky but if your friends are funny and can act like little children then that is a really good party song. If your not into that then look up Songs on the innernet and listen to them and pick your favorites.
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I have a problem because my dad wants to go somewhere and i already made plans. we got in a fight but i dont know what to do. I need some advice!
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Well, your dad is really important to you and you should see if you can change your plans with your friends. Also try to do both if possible, maybe you can hang out with your dad in the morning and then hang out with your friends in the afternoon. if you cant then hang out with your friends another time.
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