17 years old, I've pretty much gone through anything and everything you could possibly think of so don't be afraid to ask me anything! Totally judge free :)
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Age: 17
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AHHHH im kinda freaked out because i think that i might be pregnant.
idk tho.
ok so ive been moody and i think i might be spotting.
im not exactly sure what "spotting" is supposed to look like but like ive been have like dark blood and it looks like its been mixed with discharge because its lumpy.
this is around the time when im supposed to get my period and its never this light when i get it.
so im REALLY scared that pregnancy could be a possibility.
do you guys think that my symptoms could be pregnancy?? (link)
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Probley. How long ago did you have sex?
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whens the earliest to get a pregnancy test? at home. (link)
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5 days before your missed period.
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whatever happened to those brush up things?
i remember i used to use them all the time!
i loved them! haha do they still sell them??
i want some. hahah
if so where would they be? (link)
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Well idk if where you live so idk if you'll know these places but you probley will.
Costco
CVS
Walgreens
Giant
Safeway
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ok so i always go through a lot of different mascaras and eyelash curlers because i always end up having problems with them.
somtimes my eyelashes stick to the curler and then it takes off the mascara or pulls the eyelashes out.
OR it wont curl them.
does anyone know of any eyelash curlers that work really well and how you use them because i dont think im doing it right.
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U should get a mascara with a curved brush and also get an eyelash comb. Put one layeron if there not curly enough for you then curl them them put on another coat of mascara and comb threw them with the brush. Good luck :)
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i need to choreograph my own PROP dance for my dance class at school. actually its a project and everyone has to do it. my problm is i dont know what song or prop to use (im dancing alone while the others have their own groups so MINE HAS TO BE GOOOOD!!!!! and catchy)
any songs in mind?
any props?
whats a good catchy song to dance to?
whats a prop i could use to be creative to while dancing with it?
thanks a lot i would like a lot of recommendations and suggestions for these! THANKS !! (link)
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When I grow up. Pussycat dolls(hat(
Feedback. Janet jackson(cane)
Umbrella.rhiana (umbrella) haha
Toy soilder. britney spears(?)
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Okay so im 18f and hes 23m
Hes my old bosses son andive liked hm for quite some time. Im going to the works xmas party with a friend who still works there and i know hes gonna be there.
I realy want to let him know i want him. What are some things i can do or say to make him know this and turn him on. But it has to be something that i could do in a croud and not have the other people know.
THANKS! (link)
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Hahahaa well that's complicated. Ummmm you could casually rub his arm with yours when he looks at you smile innocently that would get a point across.play with his hair. People r gonna guess u like him but so what? Worse case they'll tell him and even if he doesn't like u back hell be flatterd. Hahaha good luck :)
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i know this is going to sound wierd but yah...how can i make my boyfriend have the best orgasm of his life like whats some good tips?
please help (link)
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Doesn't sound weird. One major thing. Be on top. Hand cuffs and blind folds and lick everywhere. Hahahahahaah have fun
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Im 17 and I know that every teenager has their ups and downs, but I'm getting desperate. My life isnt too shocking yet it's not so great either - My familiesbeen broken recently, and I'm in a mentally abusive (Note: Not physical) relationship But I wont go into too much detail. Either way - for a long time now I've been feeling like i'm bouncing off walls - I feel depressed most of the time and I've gotten into bad and strange habits - I walk for hours at night with just a vest on so I can stop thinking - I know this isnt natural, and even though things could be alot worse (I don't pretend to be amazingly bad off or anything) I feel as if i cant be happy anymore - Ill be hyper but not happy, and when I'm depressed - its BAD, but, I wont go into details. - What should I Do? Seek a doctor? Pull myself together? Sorry for taking your time but help would be greatly appreciated, even if its just shaking me and telling me to pull myself together. (link)
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No your deff right. Umm if I was in your poistion I would take a break from the boyfriend r girlfriend just for like a week or two and see if anything changes. If not get back together then visit a family doctor and see what he says to do. :)
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Is it wrong to do sexual things with someone you are dating, but aren't going out with? Is that slutty? We've been dating for about a month and a half now. He is the only guy I'm seeing and I'm the only girl he's seeing.
And also if you're dating, are you considered to be in a relationship, or are you defined as single?
Thank you =) (link)
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Haha I'm in the same position as you. Its not wrong or bad if he's not seeing anyone eles. But if he does then I would back off a little because you don't wanna start unwanted drama. Ask him if he see's you guys as being in a realtionship any time soon.
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i've been going out with my friend karla for a while but ever since she got a bf weve been kind of distant, since i dont like him, and i think he's her favorite.
but i just got a bf, and he's like the perfect guy for me since he's bi too so he's a girly guy and well its just a perfect situation to be in, cept for one thing, my gf is pissed at me. she's says its b/c he's bi and thats why she doesnt like him but i doubt thats it, but i cant really tink of ne reason as to why she doesnt like him.
she's also ignoreing me, and being a real b*tch,
and i just dont know what to do....
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Oh my this is simpley easy. Probley cause I'm like the girliest girl! So anyways the reason she's pised is because she still likes you she's trying to hide her feeling by being pissed. I think shed probley be that way even if you were dating a girl. Either that or she could be homophobic. That's a tiny possibility though. But you seem happy with your boy friend so don't let her attitude affect the fun you have with him.
Hope I helped :)
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what are some good ways to turn my boyfriend on or tease him? he does it to me all the time and im trying to figure out how to do it back (link)
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Grab him by his shirt and pull him close and whisper thing in his ear. Lets say *naughty* things. Haha works trust me.
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after i shave my legs there are still little black dots where the hair used to be.why is this happening and how do i stop it? (link)
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Umm one result might be from having a crappy razor. Like a two bladded one. Yu should by the venus razor with 5 blades. It works so great I only have to shave once every 4 days. Try it.
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Okay I'm 15 and a girl,there's this guy in my class,he sits next to on my right;he used to sit in back of me witch was great! Because I sortah have a crush on him.>//< I mean he's cute so yeah,I'm naturally handicapped when it comes to talking to guys.>//> I don't talk to him much,he sometimes says hi or tries to make conversation but I just smile slightly and nod then look away quickly like a weirdo freak.U~U
I don't mean to,but...I blush when ever I have to talk or even look at him...T-T
He has a girlfriend and I know her,we're cool with each other,I don't talk to her much anymore do to a schedule change but yeah.I just want to know if there's anyway I can stop blushing and making myself not look retarded and stupid infront of him... (link)
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Haha I know how you feel. I'm 14 and you probley don't want to hear this but there no way to stop blushing. And besides blushing is a good thing. If he see's you blush then he'll know you like him without you telling him. Maybe he likes you back? So if him and his GF breakup he'll come for you. If not every guy like to know that girls like him. You blushing will bump his ego. :) blush it up!
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18 female..
for the longest time i've like this boy but he had a girlfriend. well i couldn't let myself like anyone else and i knew he was well worth the wait. i hoped they would eventually break up but two and a half years later and they're still going out. now i know he wants to get with me but it's like he wants to still be with his girlfriend, but then also have me too and i don't want to be involved with that AT ALL and i made that clear to him. two weekends ago they went on a break. i was so happy, i thought this was finally my chance. i did have my doubts though, and even though i didn't want to get my hopes up i did anyways and as always, i'm hurt and alone. i talked to him last weekend, we were going to hang out but we didn't and i haven't talked to him since. well i was talking to my cousin tonight and she was like yeah, i think they're going back out or whatever you want to say. and i tried SO HARD to act like i didn't care. i was just like well yeah, i knew that was going to happen but whatever, i'm over it and she was like i'm sorry but i just think it's dumb because i know he doesn't want to be with her, i know he is just staying with her because their families are close (this is true). i'm just so done with this, i wan't to be over him SO bad. i can't put myself through this anymore but i'm so heartbroken. he's the only guy i have trusted, we're like best friends. i still want to be friends with him, i do love the boy but it's just so hard for me you know? i can't take this hurting anymore :( i hang out with my friends, but all i can think of is him. i hang out with other guys, but to me, they're just friends i could NEVER see myself dating any of them which makes me want him even more. i just have so much hate for him, he's put me through so much and i feel like i want to make him jealous. i want to make him realize that he could of had something good with me, but didn't want to take the chance but i don't want to piss him off to the point where he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. how can i talk to him about this? i just want to be like, well have fun with her, i'm going to hang out with the boys or something like that. i'm having so many mixed emotions. i feel like without him, i'm nothing. i can't concentrate in school because i'm always thinking about him. i can't have fun on the weekends because i know he is with her. i can't sleep at night because of him. i can't let him go, as much as i want to. i've tried not talking to him, it honestly hurt even more. i don't have luck with guys. i've never went out with a guy before because i have trust issues and he was the only one i trusted. i don't know what to say to him, i wan't him to know that i am hurt. i wan't him to know he lost the chance with me and that i'm finally moving on..i wan't him to know i can be happy without him. i feel so alone right now, you guys don't even know. i feel like he ripped out my heart and stomped on it right in front of me. (link)
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I know you probley won't believe me but I know how you feel. And I'm so glad you asked this. I'm 14 and this guy told me he liked me so much and that I was so special and then he went and dated this other girl the next day. And I hated him so badly because well he used me pretty much. Anyways I totally vented at him over it when she wasn't around and it was good. What I told him was (you can use this if you want)
Look just hear me out. You messed around with feelings which was unfair and now I'm stuck here feeling like crap over it. You told me lies and dated that girl. I still like you a lot but I don't want to date you. I think were better off friends, permantly.
That's what I said and weird thing was he understood. And now he's on girl number 3 and were still super tight. Like you I trusted and trust him so much thas why I felt used but a guy like that that your describing wouldn't trash a trust thing luke that. Hope this helps.
*and besides a girl only needs three men in her life. Her daddy, ben and jerry. Hahaha :)
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15 female.
hello people! (:
well i put this in the wrong category.
but yeahhh, anyways;
today i was hanging out with some friends, and we started talking to this boy we know who had a whole bunch of pills (bars) and he asked us if we wanted to buy one. well me and my friend never done it before, but we were like yeah and got one pill, we were gonna do half and half but i was kinda scared, so i didnt. and she took a forth.
so my question is what does it do to you like for real? and how long does it last till you feel normal?
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Well I'm not sure what you meant by bars but I get the pills. I'm about your age, (hints the name) and my friend is into the pill stuff. Like I mean we were best friends but she started doing them and she went down hill. I was around her when she did it. It was different every time. Sometimes she'd be sloppy others she'd have extreme anger. But everytime she was unrealiable. I felt like I was babysitting. Anyways the pills last till you fall asleep and wakeup the next morning. Also there not worth it. Glad you didn't do it. Espically when we are this young. Don't mess up your life now. :)
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can someone give me a list of healthy snacks (ACTUALLY healthy, like natural foods not packaged quick bars or anything) i get hungry in between lunch and dinner and im sick of just eating a banana or just eating a salad its boring and usually isnt satisfying.. (link)
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Okay hopefully you like peanut butter because most my snacks include it. So take a spoon full or more however much you please and grab your fave fruit. Mines apple and dip it. Or smooth some over celeary. Another idea is a banana sandwhich. It sounds gross but banana and peanut butter or honey on a sandwhich tastes soooo good. Or you can make your own smothie. Pick 3 or more favorite fruits. Like strawberries, bananas, and blueberries. Then put them in a measuring cup say they fill 1 cup then blend it with half a cup of milk. Yumie and healthy!
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