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I'm the best at everything I do. Especially my girlfriend, she is better than all of you.
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Age: 16
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I really need help maybe from someone whose done scavenger hunts or something along the lines of that. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while and friends for a year and we are finally officially boyfriend and girlfriend. I really want to suprise him with something super cool possibly a scavenger hunt. Only problem is he lives about 20 minutes away but we go to the same school. I don't know where to do it or how to make it really special. Since we have school that day maybe after school around my town. I really need help if anyone has good ideas whether its a scavenger hunt or something else cute. HELP please, thanks! (link)
Scavenger hunt sounds really time consuming for little benefit. I'd say just go to movie and dinner. OR, might be hard, but you cook dinner or something? Or just watch a movie both of you would like. I'm not a fan of the scavenger hunt.


Hey I was looking for some cheap manikins. http://store.storesupply.com/webapp/commerce/servlet/CategoryDisplay?merchant_rn=631&cgrfnbr=225219
I like the female ones they have on that website but they're really expensive. Does anyone know where to find one's like that only cheaper? Please don't say Ebay. Thanks. (link)
I'd say go to a major retail store and ask them if you can have theirs when they retire them.


hey ! well i'm saving for once again ANOTHER hair cut. and i need help on what to get (i also might add highlights/lowlights) ok,well i dont have a very noticeable bone structure. and also i have light moderatly fair italian skin,uhm,long eye lashes and REAlly big eyes. black eyebrows. and my hair is light brown and in the middle of my chest. i really want something cute and i dont care if its hard to manage.i have side bangs. what would be good? should i get lowlights? because my hair is lighter than my eyebrows? mucho gracias! (link)
I always liked layered hair. Like the haircut that the girl in the movie "The Animal" has. Sexy as helll.


So i did stuff with my ex boyfriend who has a girlfriend then i told her cuz i felt bad about it but i still really like this guy but anyways she wont let him talk to me anymore now..how can i get him to talk..ive tried emailin he wont write back he doesnt see them cuz she deleted them first or he just doesnt write back he knows my voice on the fone so he hangs up wen he knows its me and hes always with her wen i see him ..i really need to get some answers from him, but i cant get him to talk..any idea? (link)
You need to be more responsible about who you do stuff with, know their status. But if I were in your situation I would try to befriend his girlfriend, IF your goal is to talk to him, NOT to date him again. If you're trying to get back with him then try to make it in person.


14/f
I dont want any stuff like "omg you're wayy to young" "wait a year" because i dont wanna hear it.

So heres the deal, me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. tonight we tried having sex for the first time, notice the word tried. We arent allowed to in the first place so it was a little hard. He brought a condom. So we made out did foreplay, that kind of stuff, foreplay was rushed, we had a limited amount of time. He put the condom on and his penis started like geting unerected. So we were sitting there trying to get it into me. Didnt work. So he takes the condom off and I give him head again. He puts the condom on. And his penis get unerected. Well, this happened 3 times all together and by then I was pissed. So his penis wouldnt go in, I wasnt wet enough, and it kept getting unerected.

So my questions are...
Is this normal?
Has this happened to anyone before?
Why do you think it did that?


Please help me
Sorry it was so long
thank you :) (link)
Yes this is normal. There are a few different reasons but it's probably because he's nervous especially if it's his first time. Plus with the added amount of pressure of keeping it hard after he messed up the first time will just add to it. That's my guess, he just needs to try to relax, or steal gramp's viagra. :-/


I'm a girl by the way.

How can I separate my relationships from me being horny? My last relationship ended because of my sexual desires. Even though the guy tempted me.

I'm a virgin, I just meant making out, etc too much.
How can I stop being so horny? (link)
Masturbation. Works wonders. I do it too much. :( Then again I'm a 16 year old guy.


ive been with my boyfriend almost 7 months and i have him very much. but is it bad that if im out like at the mall or something and some hott guy starts talking to me like he has some interest in me i almost dont want to tell them i have a boyfriend because i dont wanna stop the flirting and make him lose interest? by the way when i do this i have no interest in hanging out or dating them, i just love that feeling of being pursued haha but i feel kind of guilty about it. (link)
How dedicated are you to him? I have a girlfriend and I'm the type that gets really jealous. I know I shouldn't but just knowing that she's talking to other guys gets me jealous. :-/ I would hate it especially if I had been going out with the girl for seven months.


Ok, Superbowl sunday is tomorrow and my boyfriend is going to be at my house. I know for a fact that there will be some making out and such going on. I was just wondering, what are some ways to "spice it up?" Like, he said he wanted me to sit in his lap one day. [Not talking about when we make out, just in general.] I thought that, that might be a fun way to start it out. Like, straddle him then start making out then start playing with his hair possibly? I just need help on how to start these things. I don't wanna make it super obvious and just jump on him. I want to just gradually move into it.

P.s. Parents will be in the house. (link)
I'm a guy and I love it when my girlfriend hops on my lap. Gives a great view of the goods ;), and you can make out and do whatever.


PS, your parents probably wouldn't like to see that. :(


I cant even go to www.myspace.com..it says somthing about it benig in available.. or.. yea..somthing in that field. My sisters compuiter, my computer, and the laptop all are doing the same thing... anyone else encountering this? (link)
Did you do something stupid on myspace? You might have gotten IP blocked.




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