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In the beginning of the Gauntlet [before the show actually comes on] there is a theme song, and I love it! Does anybody know what the song is called and who sings it? Thanks to the max

"15 Minutes" - Wired All Wrong

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Me and this guy Tim have been hooking up basically every weekend for about a month. I was really starting to fall for him when I made a huge mistake - I hooked up with another guy while I was drunk. Me and Tim were hookup buddies and contrary to what I thought, he wasn't getting with anyone else. My friend told Tim and now he won't talk to me and he wants nothing to do with me. I wasn't sure or not if he liked me before this happened, but now I'm sure. I feel so bad about it. I was going to tell him too but my friend didn't give me the chance. I really liked this guy and what I did was completly stupid. I had sex with Tim about 3 days before this happened and I was his first (he wasn't mine though) and that makes me feel that much worse. I know he feels really played right now and wants nothing to do with me. I told him I was sorry many times and that hanging out with him is the most amazing thing ever. I told his friend I would even stop drinking if he just forgave me. I know he needs space and everything but I'm just not sure what I should do. I really want to wait and see if he will accept my apology but I don't know when that will be. He could never forgive me. So do I a) wait for him, dont hookup with anyone or b)give up because I screwed up too bad? I'm 16/f and so is he btw.

OK here is what you should do both a and b

WAIT before you go some advice listen to me:

don't hook up with anyone else because that will definetly make things worse. but if he doesn't forgive you that just means he doesn't care that much about you as you do and can't trust you even though you were drunk.

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I'm 15 year old guy in 10th grade and there's this girl in my geometry class, and I started liking her at the start of this semester. I would sometimes talk to her, but it wasn't like we were real good friends.
A friend of mine who is also in the class found out I liked her. He sat across from me and would point at me and her and ask, "Do you like her?"
Then the other day, she asked me to sit by her, instead of on the other side of the room. We sat there the whole hour talking and just doing random funny things and telling jokes.
Does she know I like her, and does she like me?

Well it's hard to tell has she done anthing else like flirt with you. But because she wanted to sit next to you it could mean because she does like you.

Ok then she does like you yet she is a little shy about it. Go up to her and ask her out. if you too are shy then send her a note to meet you somewhere on a date and have fun start to get to know eachother more then you already do. Good luck hope you get that date.

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me and my boyfriend, plus my best friend and her boyfriend all want to go somewhere super fun for spring break. somewhere with a beach and lots of fun things to do. any ideas?

WOW there are alot of places you can go. Like:
Florida
Myrtle beach
Seaside height
even where there is a beach
poconos
jersey
gergia
just think you guys will come up with something

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im unsatisfied with my life right now. i recently had a breakup with a pretty long relationship. he moved on fast. i want to move on. ive been thinking a lot and finding myself despirately wanting another relationship thats even more amazing. i keep thinking about it. i know it doesnt just come that easily. i feel like i wont be happy until i have a great relationship like my last. then again, every opportunity i have had since the breakup, i denied it. i cant fall for anyone else other than my ex. it just doesnt feel right and ive been wanting a relationship that feels perfect. i dont like my friends. i dont like where i live every guy in my school is gross/asshole. how can i be happy again? how can i distract myself from this thought? how can i find someone new if i dont like the people who i know?

ps. i dont like (

To answer your questions:
1.how can i be happy again? ]
The only way to be happy again is if you let yourself be happy. stop thinking about your ex

2.how can i distract myself from this thought?
Find a guy who YOU like and if you don't find one right away that's fine trust me. Here is one thing you can do. Go to your room and get rid of everything that reminds you of him.

3.how can i find someone new if i dont like the people who i know?
You have to give everyone a chance as my mom use to tell em you can't judge a book by it's cover. What that means is even if the guy doesn't seen hot enough or nice enough or sweet enough chances are that he is just nervous because he really like you.

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My boyfriends sister whom is 12 is going to a JH dance and she wants me to do her hair and probablly make up. but i need help becsaue i am like girl retared and can't do hair.
So her dress is black with dark purple sparkles. She has brownish-blonde wavy hair ot the sholder, so how sould i do her hair and pictures and how to do it would be VERY HELPFUL!!!
also she has like green/blue eyes so how should i do the makeup. becasue i have brown eyes so i don't know what would look good on her. don't forget she is 12 and i don't wanna over makeuped. so please help..thanks..

I have a cousin who is 12 and I did her makeup to here is what I did I gave her natural skintone make up and a light eyeshadow. For her hair straighten it out and if she has bangs put them back with a clip and make sure you use hairspray to make sure her hair will hold.

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i like dis boy name Cory and he just said on valentine day "Stephanie can u b my counselor," i said, he said "cause im in love with you" i was just sitin there blush n. then my friend imani said "dats wat we were just takin about she said before you came in dat she liked you a littlte bit"


Now dat he know i like him he always lookin at me and talkin to me an always hugn me and stuff and he said on that same day "Stephanie do you wana go wit me?"
I froze i didnt know wat to say!!!
Now i need advice to knoew wat to do
can sum1 plzzzzzz help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like Indi said becuz you froze up you got off on a bad foot but you can fix it, so don't worry about it. Go up to him but don't make it to obvious that you were nervous and froze up just think straight when you talk to him. And tell him how you really feel.

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14/f. this past year ive gained a little weight, but most of it goes into my face lol which is weird. im a very skinny girl, but if i gain weight, my face (cheeks) like get fuller and stuff. if i work out and lose weight will my face go back down to original size? and is there any way to not make my face get so fat? lol thanks!

look it's common my body does the same thing here is what I do:

1. I don't eat a lot. I only eat three HEALTHY meals a day. (trust me it is very filling).

2. I go to the gym once every week for two hours. (I only go once a week because you don't want to over do it).

And trust me after maybe two weeks or less you will definetly notice a difference.

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I'm gonna try and give as many details as possible. And no he's not a player. Not a flirt-with-everyone type of guy either.

So here are some facts.
-We both go to a french school, so if you see your friends, you do the air cheek kissing thing. Usually you do it in the morning when you first see them, and then after school, when saying bye. Me and him do it whenever we see each other.
-Today I was walking next to him when we went to our lockers and we were laughing and flirting a bit. I was on the left and he was on the right, but my lockers were to the right so I started pushing him that way, but he just grabbed me and was hugging me really tightly for a bit.
-He always comes over to talk if he sees me around
-We have English together and we always mess around together.
-We flirt..quite a lot.
-I always catch him looking at me during lessons or at breaks or whatever.
-My friend, who I sit next to in English tends to be absent a lot, so I'm left on my own. He sometimes leaves his friends and comes to sit next to me, or he won't let me pass, and makes me sit next to him.

Yeah, I'm French, but more English based. and He's German.
We speak English together...he can speak it decently...but it's incredibly sexy when he talks it :D

So do you think he's interested in me or just casual flirting?

Also, I'd appreciate answers in English, because I haven't read properly in French for 4 years now.

Heck yeah he is interested in you! It shows all the signs of flirting. He is totally into you!

Now the only question is who will make the first move? Him or you..........?

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well like okay. im going out with this guy and me and him are relly god friendsss. and now everything is like awkward between us and i hgave secong thoughts about thiss. i relly need help.

but pleaseee dont tell me to break up with him.

i want everything back to normal and i just dont know anymoreeee. =/

helpppppp ?

Ok first thing is to breath don't worry it's natural because you two have been friends for a while. Second of all talk to him because most likely he feels the same way. Third of all if you don't feel like talking to him then think why are things feeling werid btween the two of you. The same thing happend to be a couple of months ago but it turned out I was just scared about what lied ahead for me and him. Things are great now and we really like eachother. Good luck and I hope what has happend for me happend sto you.

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ok there is this guy named S and he wanted to get to know me. so we talk sometimes. he really likes me.we are going to the movies with his friends and my friends.he is nice and funny. But i have had a crush on his best friend for years. i really want to get to know his friend. but the only way i will talk to his friend is by him. I really want to get to know his friend and maybe go out with him. i don't want to break S's heart but i want to go out with his friend. that would be kind of mean. how do i tell S that i like him as a friend and get to know his friend? also do you think it will be mean to go out with his best friend?

Ok first of all yes it would be mean to go out with S's best friend IF YOU DON'T TELL S. If you just tell S the truth he will most likely understand. Just be honest with S because he will understand. Good luck!

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