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I can help mostly anyone in anything! Just to let you know i wanna be a pchyologist when 'm older so this is just like practice for me=)-

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hey nicole!
well i have this friend and she was my friend since 6th grade but shes like back stabbing me now..........she likes the same guyz bc she knows it will get me mad! and i dont know what to do bc i dont want her to go and tell him something that will make him never speak with me again.....bc at this point me and him are great friends and he said it is bound to change soo im waiting for that moment and i dont want her to mess it all up.......got any advice?

hey hun,tell him "whatever she said or says is a lie!". Or something like that. Theres not a lot you can do. Hope I Helped XoXo ~NiCoLe

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hey nicole.... i have the feelnig my boyfriends is falling out of love with me.... we have been together for about 3 months now and he always tells me that he loves me more then anything and all this but i really have the feeling hes falling out of love by the way he acts sometimes.... what should i do?

Hey Babes, this is a tuff one. My you guys should just be friends. I really don't know what to say.But i'm trying. Maybe he's just getting used to you and think you know it and doesn't show iot as much anymore. Which is a good thing! Well,sorry if I didn't help that much! HoPe I HeLpEd! XoXo ~NiCoLe

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Im grounded b/c i got bad grades! ANY ideas how to keep my grades from going down>

Hey Hun, *Trying taking notes in EVERY class then when you get home review them.* *Do your homework RIGHT when you get home* *Study atleast half an hour a day* *have one of your friends tutor you* Hope I Helped!XoXo ~NiCoLe

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i really like this girl and she likes me. i was thinking maybe if this relationship went any further (which is probably gonna happen) we will kiss sumtime. Ive never kissed a girl and have NO idea what im doing! any advice?

Hey Babes,If your relationship goes farther yes,u probably will end up kissing.The moment will come.So just wait for the right moment.You can kinda feel it.There is no just "1" way to kiss!It just "comes".So just kinda go with the flow!HoPe I HeLpEd!U know where 2 find me!XoXo NiCoLe~

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hi u dont kno me but i could use some advice.Theres this girl at school and she liked me for a while. When i asked her to be my girlfriend she said no and gave me an excuse. She now hangs out with another guy and says she still likes me. Her best friend said that she would get hurt by that guy and come back to me. Im really confused!

Hey babe,
From what u said I think she is using you in a twisted way.When he hurts her she will come to you.As her friend says.You're her sencond wheel.Don't let it happen.Do you like her?If you do flirt with her.Try to "steal" her away.Hope I helped!U know where to find me!XoXo NiCoLe~

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does anyone know any really good shampoo and/or conditioner that works well and is good for oily hair?

Thanks!

Hey Hun,try *Garnier Fructis* *pantene pro-v* *tresemme* *Dove* or *Herbal Esences* (/Spelling\) HoPe I HeLpEd XoXo ~*NiCoLe

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HEY COKE!!! u r so dumb but i gotta love ya!!!!
hahahahaha its KEN! love ya girly!
MACKENZIE!!!!!!!!!!!

I LOVE U TOO KENz!

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hey
My room is purple.do u like it!?

haha..niice 1 Mandi lol lyl

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i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off.

Lightish Brown,Brown,Black! HoPe I HeLpEd!XoXo NiCoLe!

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all my friends say i have a normal type of guy.. he has to play football.. this is true because every guy ive ever liked played football... but still.. all of a sudden im starting to like this kid who is in 2 of my classes.. we talk but if i ever showe dmy friend who he was they wud b liek y him?... hes not one of the "popular ppl" and thoses r the type of ppl i hang out with.. idk wat to do?? ne advice
-NiKkI-

Hey Hun,It doesn't matter if hes popular or not.If you like him it's okay. Who cares what your friends think. Don't worry.And if they were REAL friends they wouldn't care who you liked and they would repect that! HoPe I HeLpEd!XoXo NiCoLe~ PS.If you need anymore advice you know where 2 find me!

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please suggest good rock groups/bands.. punk is ok too.. thats.. aren't that well known.. thx everybody

Hawthorne Heights is my favorite band punk/rock!Hope I helped!XoXo NiCoLe

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i hate my life so much, all my mother cares about is my sister and i hate them both so much. she always gets her way and shes so perfect and were only a year apart. they both drive me crazy. and theres this boy in my school who i really like, im like in love with him and hes in all my classes except 1 so i always see him and he doesnt like me and he saids he has a semi girlfriend in hamden, and i just cant take this anymore. everyone i love doesnt love me. i feel like no one cares and im alone... i really dont care about my mom or sister all i want is him

Hey Hun,I was in a situtation like that before. But I almost killed myself. But I stuck with life. You've only got 1 life.Live it strong! And you CAN get over him!Just try not to think of him.I know how you feel.But life goes on.You never know whats going to happen!it could be something great!So hold on!Andif you need to talk 2 someone i'm always there!IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13 OR ask me on here!Hope I helped! XoXo NiCoLe~

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Okay, my best friend for like life -- we will call her betty -- has alot of boys crushin on her. About all my guy friends like her (I dont have that many) and they are always asking me to ask betty stuff like 'ask her if she likes me?' 'Ask her if she thinks i'm hott' 'Would I ever have a chance with her' stuff like that. It bugs me because I know they arent her type, that she doesnt like them more than a friend, or stuff like that and i dont want to be mean and be like no. so i kinda sugar coat the truth, but anyways, i feel like the only reason they are my friend is so they can get stuff on betty. Do you think that is why they are being my friend? What should I do because i dont like being used.

P.S. 14/f (so is my friend)

Hey Sweetie
I don't really know what you are going through but i will try to help ya out.Next time they ask you to ask her something just be like "You ask her" (in like a flirty/joking around way).HoPe I HeLpEd XoXo NiCoLe~

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K, I'm a 14 year old girl and I am having problems with my friend and a boy. Over Christmas break, me and this boy, we shall call him Joe, started flirting and stuff and we went out for four days but then I broke up with him because it wasnt really a good time for me to have a boyfriend (alot stuff went down in my family during those 4 days) so my friend, we will call her sue, talked to him and they started liking each other and are currently going out. Well I thought I was over Joe until Sue told me that they basically hit every base in one day, then I started relizing that I liked him still and wasnt over him. I really want to hate him so bad for getting over me so easily when he claimed I was his true love. I also want to tell him how I feel, but I know if I do he will tell Sue and then Sue will hate me and I dont want to ruin my friendship with her over a boy. (Oh, Sue asked me if she could go out with him and i said yeah i didnt care because I thought I was over him, big mistake i know.) And so now I dont know what to do

Hey Hun,something like that happend 2 me before.=/ I know it hurts 2 see them together.But what I did was thought about it from her side. How happy they are together.But if she is a true friend it won't bug her that you talk to her. Because you need to tell her.What I did was I told her online. But thats just what i did.Hope I helped XoXo NiCoLe~

-AlWaYz ThErE 4 *U*

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hey nicole! i like this guy at school and well he has a girlfriend. he seems like he likes me but i dont know if he does. i am afraid to ask him because i dont have the nerve. i want to find out if he likes me. what do i do?
signed
lost in love

Hey Hun,Have 1 of your friends ask him! Have her be like "Hey, do you like (your name)?" if he says no the have her be like "oh, just wondering" and if he says yes have her be like"really? she likes you 2!!"HoPe I HeLpEd XoXo NiCoLe~

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my friend janet told me that she cant stand living with her mom any more and that she wants to leave her house as soon as possible..cuz her mom doesnt believe any of the things she tells her(its a long story)...does anybody know any numbers she can call that are related to this sort of situation? thanx a lot!

Hey Hun, i'm proud of u for being a GREAT friend but she can call the Runaway Hotline 800-231-6946 National Runaway Hotline 800-621-4000!! Hope i Helped! XoXo NiCoLe~

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nicole! i know you and you know me but i prefere not to tell you who i am! i have a question regaurding sex! i am 12 yrs old and i will 13 next month. i have done some stuff already but i think i am too young (well i kno i am). i want my friends to kno that i have stopped doing some stuff because when i did this sexual stuff parents found out and i lost friends. i want to stop and i haven't done anything for a while it is just that i get really tempted to and a lot of people ask me to do stuff. and it's liek when i date someone i have to so something sexually it is just a huge urge. my best guy friend is also 12 adn he does drugs and has sex with his 13 year old girlfriend. so basiclly i am asking how i can help this "urge" and how i can help my fiend cuz i am scared he is gonna hurt himself. weather it be from an STD or oding on drug! HELP!
~signed a very lost person~

Hey Hun, you are too young and you shouldn't have done ANY of that stuff you have done before. But to help you stop just don't tihkn about it! Theres nothing I can do OR say that can change that. All I can say is just fight those "urges" and try not to think about it. Maybe don't date anyone for awhile.---And your friend. You need to tell him WHAT he is doing to himself AND her. And tell him what his future is going to be like! God Bless Hope I helped and you know where to find me! XoXo NiCoLe~

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ok Nicole....me and my boyfriend(lets call him pete)are really close and he always tells me how much he loves me and stuff and awhile back like 6 7 months ago we had some problems like with him cheatimg on me and likeing other gurls...well i told him one day i thought this one kid was hott and then he thought i liked him and i dont think liking and thinking some1 is hot is the same thing...and he wanted to beat him up and stuff...well he likes alot of gurlz now and when i ask pete about it he always tell me i dont like them u know i love you and somehow i dont believe him like in a way i do but then i dont... well he was over my house one day and he was talking to this gurl that he "likes" as many ppl have told me and he made the font really small and kept covering up the convo so i couldnt see it on AIM...and i just dont think i can trust him but i love him so much!!!what should i do?????

Signed a confused gurl!

Hey Sweetie, i don't have a lot of experience on this,but i will try to help you out. Furst 1 think you need to talk to the girl that he as so said "likes" and see whats going on. Second, tell him you just think that guy is hott and you don't like him like that! And you need to sit him down have a serious conversation,tell him how you feel and get your facts straight. I think thats about all i can say. Sorry but i HoPe I HeLpEd! XoXo NiCoLe~

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Hey Nicole!
I am 1 of your friends. My locker is like on the top an like 3 away. I want to know if you think i am fat. Be Serious! Also I need to know how to manage my weight. I excerise, diet and try everything I can. I am fat and I want to know if god made me this way or if i start this. I really need your help!

Hey Hun, I can't tell you if God made you this way. But you shouldn't be worrying about your weight yet. But if you really want to I have some suggestions *Look at the Nutrious Facts on the label and if it more than 11 grams of sugar don't eat it* *Cut back on the snacks* *Try healthier foods* And if you need me again you will know where 2 find me! Hope I helped! XoXo Nicole~

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Ok well im in middle school and theres this kid hes in a few of my classes and i think i like him but im not too sure about it..well we flirt all the time..only my 3 best friends know i like him and i dunno if hell like me or not cuase a while back we used to hate eachother but now were cool and i dunno what to do should i tell him or what...im a little confused cause i seriously don tthink he likes me but then agian i dunno..help please...

Hey Hun, I've been in that postition before. I would ask one of his friends (or 1 of your friends) to be like "Hey do you like -Your Name-?" And if he says no then they will be like "Oh okay just wondering" and if says yes they will be like "Really? She likes you too!" If you need me you can IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13 or just ask me here! HoPe I HeLpEd! ~*NiCoLe*~

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