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Q: Ok so i have this boyfriend and we get into aguements alot. He tells me that im stupid and retarted. sometimes he even calles me a stupid bitch, dumb ass bitch, or jus plain bitch. he says that im tha problem and that im always getting him mad. Im only 15 and my friends and familly say leave him but some say dnt if ur happy. Im tired of heareing that hole "theres more fish in tha sea" cuz thers really not im in love with him not anyone else. I dont know wat to do anymore im in love with him and want to spend tha rest of my life with him but not like this..
Please someone help me wat do i do????

-shawttii

OK. i know you think that its all your fault and you make him mad. but maybe he is just abusing you verbally but it will soon turn in physically. and no women deserves that. i know you think that he is the only one for you but hun he isnt you should be happy without be abused! And if you do say whatever i love him i am just gonna deal with all this then you marry him and have children and he starts physically abusing you do you want your children to see that?

hope i helped.
Graciee

Q: i cantt think of a new screen namee. i want one with my name in it, my name is gina.
any ideasss?

Ginaaa then you favorite number[s]
CheaItsGina then numbers if you want some
YepItsGina
hope i helped
Graciee

Q: ok well i have swimmers ear and i have had it for about 2 weeks. i havd it for about a week a 3/4 and then my dad was like "well i dont think you have it any morre so i think you should go swimming. so i did, now it hurts so bad and my dad wont let me go to the doctor. he says its just an earche. all he does is make me take some tylenol but it still hurts, what can i do?????

thanks in advance

If you go to WalMart or target or any store really they have drops for your ears and the bottles will say swimmers ear. all you do is lay on one side and put 5 drops in a lay there for however much time it says to then you switch to the other side , and do it again. Swimmers ear is just water that is stuck in your ear so thje drops dry it up. dont use the green achohal because that could give you an infection.
hope i helped.
Graciee

Q: Is there any songs about your friend being mad at you and you miss them but they wont forgive you?
Similar to Never Far Behind, by Aly & Aj.

Thanks!

Try going to Google and type in songs about friends being mad at you. or try youtube and type in the same thing.
Hope i helpedd.
Graciee

Q: how can i get tan really fast. i ussually dont use any protection even tho i know i should. so yeah. i want to be supper tan this summer. anyyone have any tips on how to get tan good. :] (besides the spray on tans or tanning beds i mean like tips on tanning}

I know exactly how you feel. You want to have that deep bronze tan. I use Hawaiian Tropic Dark Tanning Lotion. It works very well. Its in a brown bottle.Its only has a prtection of SPF 4. & its waterproof "for a natural tan of the islands"
Hope i helped
Graciee

Q: hey
umm i have a problem
well like me and my boyfrind brke up in august and it took me a while to get over him and then i met this guy and i really liked him and then he got a girlfrind and then i realixed after that , that i still wasnt over my exx . but now he likes another girl and he saids he only likes me as a friend and when me and my exx were together i was just so happy what should i do to get him backkk or just make this pain go away

Well this happends a lot to girls. If he is with another girl that he cares about it gonna be hard to get him back. Just be yourself around him. Like you were when you too were going out. In my past experiences that works sometimes. Just be yourself like you were when you were going out and maybe he will relize you are the girl for him
Hope i helped
-Graciee-

Q:

tonight on america's funniest home videos.
there was a video with a kid in a gumby costume that fell down when he was walking?
it was so cute/funny
does anyone know a link to that video on youtube or something?

I looked and i dont think the family put it on you tube,sorry.

Q: Do you think it's slutty to make out with someone just when you are bored? Let's say you see a hot guy at a restaurant, you've never met, is it slutty to hook up with him?

Yeah it is at least get to know him. Trust me you dont want that kind of reputation. There are plenty of things you can do when your bored then just walk up to some guy and make out.[deff when you dont know him]
Hope i helped.

Q: sooo...my bf has these really cute love sayings.....like "if i had one wish it would be to die one day before you, so i never have to live a day without you." or....."if i had one last breath to take i use it up by telling you i love you"

DOES ANYBODY HAVE ANY GOOD ONES???? HE IS REALLY GOOD.....PLEASE HELP.....I WANT SOME TO TELL HIM.

midnight air,
stars above.
your hand in mine,
we're so in love.
i can't imagine what
the world could be,
without you in my life,
-- [ holding me ]

You have no idea what you do to me,
you can make me feel more emotions in one second
then I would normally feel in one year.

baby you can always kiss
me under the mistletoe

Q: my friend is so desperate. she will take any guy, even the most perverted ones! She is one of my really good freinds and I just don't know what to do. Even outsiders tell me she acts and looks desperate. WHat should I do? Should I talk to her? Or leave it alone? Please help! Thanks

You need to talk to her before its to late. She could get involved in a guy that doesnt like her just useing her he prob will rape her. Talk to her and if she treats like crap after words you dont need her also tell her you are just trying to be a good friend.
Hope i helped

Sarah

Q: Okay, this might be an awkward question but how do you give good oral sex? What are some tips? When do you think it is not slutty to give head?

I have never done that before. So i have no clue but look it up on the internet. They will have better info then i would.
:]

Q: Can you get aids from giving oral sex? I know this might seem stupid, but I'm not sure.

There is some possibilitys especially if the guy is infected. He should go to a doctor and get checked out before you decide to do anything.
Hope i helped.
Sarah

Q: Hey. I know this might be kind of awkward, but is it normal for girls to shave their pubes? Usually I hear people talking about it, but lately it seems that people leave it there. Is it unhealthy to shave it off? I'm a little confused. By the way, what do guys prefer? (if you know) Thanks.

No dont shave because it will grow back thicker.Its not unhealthy but like i said it grows back like 10 times thicker. and it depends on the guy and he should love you ffor you not whats on your body.

Hope i helped.

-Sarah

Q: Anyone know how you put pictures on certain sections of your myspace? like for example how do you put a picture of yourself in your "About Me" section?

www.whateverlife.com

Has eveything you need to know about myspace:]

Q: yeahhh i deffinatly have the biggest love handles in the WORLDDDDD!!! how do i get them a little smallerrr???

I know how you feel.Its good to have a lot of guy FRIENDS and also a boyfriend. Having a lot of guy friends is awesome beause they will always be there for you.Its okay to go out with a good guy friend but make sure if something happens between you two everything will be ok and go back to what it was before you broke up. But if you like one guy thats good but if your talking to another and you start to like him go though a list like hmm could i see myself with him or naww he is too imature for me. Stuff like that.
I hope i helped
let me know if you need more
-Sarah

Q: i was wondering if you just drink a little alcohol but not enough to get you drunk, then some weed.. would that get you really messed up?

Um yeah because now you are going to be addicted to weed. That is not a very good track for you to be on. So hopefully that was your 1st time and you can stop it now before it gets serious.
Hope I Helped
-Sarah
[let me know if you need anything else]

Q: is it really for your cherry to pop? because i tried to do it myself, like i tried to finger myself to pop it but i dont think it worked...?

Um sweety you need to look into some stuff before you ask something like that because obv. you dont know anything.
Sorry to say :[

Q: i am 13 years old and in seventh grade (female)
all the girls in my grade wear eyeliner except for me. My mom won't let me. (i asked her one time over the summer) what can i say to her or do so that she will let me wear it?

Well i mean have you ever tried putting it on i am in the 8 grade and cannot put it on. I mean who cares if your friends wear it? Its good to be differant mascara is way easy to put on you could wear that. There really isnt anything to say to her because if she said 3 reasons way your only one would be bacause everyone else does and what you would prob get back is if everyone jumped off a bridge would you?? So try the mascara and you dont have to put it on the bottom lashes and its pretty hard unless your used to it.
Hope i helped maybe next year you can wear eyeliner.:]
Hope i helped
-Sarah

Q:

ok well theres this guy at my school and were pretty good friends and stuff.. and me and my friend are almost positive he likes me and were trying to get it out of him but he wont tell us. idk but guys at my school are stubborn and everything. are we being nosy or is he hiding something??
tHaNkS

Well if he likes you like you say he does then he should come to you. You are kinda being nosy and that turns some guys off. So just let him come to you by the way it sounds if your positive then im sure he likes you and really wants you to be with him.Stay in touch with him make sure you act normal around him BE URSELF because if you go out and you start acting like your real self he might be like whats going on.
Hope i helped
-Sarah