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Hey waddup? My names April, I'm 19 years young and I live in boring ol' Tennessee where hardly anything ever happens. I'm really young, true but believe me I have been through more things at only 19 than your average 30 year old. I am married with no kids. You can add me on Myspace but just make sure when you send a friend request you mention in a message you know me from here. ( Or else I just won't add you.) I am a really nice person until you screw me over, then I can be a royal bitch. I do have trust issues that I am learning to deal with. I am very open minded and I don't judge people. I think that is a major no no lol. Just don't ask me questions and exspect to hear what YOU want to hear. I don't sugar coat anything for anyone. I will be 100% honest with you. I just want to help, so I really don't care about ratings. So anyways, yea just ask away and I'll get back to you soon =)

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So at the beginning of the school year I got in a fight with this girl. Let's call her Lynn. Then we became best friends! But later I was noticing these weird things. At school she would sit REALLY close to me at lunch. At recess she recently put her arm around me. Whenever I talked to her she would either stare at my boobs or right into my eyes! She's always talking about how much she thinks guys are hot... but ahh is she like bi? we're both 13/f, is she lesbian?? what's up??with her??? and she calls me 30 times every 2 days... i'm scared... because i'm straight!

Yea sounds like she might be bi. See when you were fighting with her (i.e. calling her names, etc.) she may have took that as a hint to you "liking her" since thats the way most guys handle their relationships at first lol. Let her know that you are infact STRAIGHT but you wanna still be friends without all "close" bonding. Be careful of how you break it to her though, she might stil be confused about herself. Hope it helps

-Adorkable

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Hey..my boyfriend and i are pretty serious. we have a 13 month history..took a couple month break but we are good now. we are both 18. just today we saw a WWE wrestling show and of course the beautiful divas were prancing around in basically nothing with theit whole thongs showing. my bf was lovvvving this..took pictures, he got the S.I Swimsuit edition today, likes his porn videos,and tonight after the show asked how i would feel if he went to a strip club! i feel weird about it.he says its normal and i guess it is..i guess its ok..its not like hes cheating..any input?

When my husband and I first got together it was a HUGE deal. I guess this is because you feel that you only want the person you love looking at YOU like that. Which is fine, everyone feels that way at one point or time. Here is the truth though. My husband and I grew out of the "no porn, no looking at other girls/guys" faze and I realized as long as he is not cheating with another woman there is really nothing wrong with it. He is a guy, guys do that kinda stuff lol it's just in their nature. If it really bothers you right now though, just talk with him about it. You just need to remember at the end of that wrestling show, who did he leave with? YOU!! I know it's hard to understand now, believe me it was back in the day for me also, but he's a man, so let him get these things out of his system. Hope it helps sweetie.

-Adorkable

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how do you wear eye liner and mascara? for the eye liner do you like wear it in the inside of your eye lid or like right on top like out lining your top eye?
like this girl:
http://img159.imageshack.us/img159/7803/200mj5.jpg

Different strokes for different folks feel me? Like I wear it on the inside and tracing the outter line. Gives it more of a "dramatic" feel to it.

-Adorkable

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hello! i'm wondering how much it will hurt the 1st time i have sex. i know it's different for different people. i have been fingered before so i didnt know if this would be around the same feeling or if theres actually even a big difference. would having been fingered make it hurt less the 1st time?

Not really, and it really does depend on how "big" the guy is if you know what I am saying. It does hurt the first time, so I won't lie to you. It's just a part of life though. Just please please PLEASE use protection if you decide to have sex.

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what are some cute websites to go to to find cute purses?

(prices between 10-50 please. thank you)

Have you tried Ebay?

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okay, i'm really bad with guys. i don't know why but whenever i talk to them i sound all nervous and stuff. but thats beside the point. does anyone have any good flirting advice? or can any guy tell me what kind of hints to you that a girl likes you. also, guys, what do you like to talk about with girls so i can have a good convo with the guy i like

Number one rule: BE YOURSELF! lol Acting like you are into a certain sport etc. is not going to help you in the long run. guys are really attracted to girls with confidence. Know you are a great person with or without a guy. Be sweet, but confident. It's a HUGE turn on!

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okay to make long story short, I should start off by saying im 16/f

well I am not allow to date or have bf or anything like that but ive been seeing this guy for over month and half... its going pretty awesome. anyways what i was wondering is, how I say I love you? in a such cute/romantic/unique way?

I was thinking of giving him this picture I drew... its a single rose (the one i sketched from the roses he gave me on valentines day) and it has a poem saying

Roses are red
Violets are blue
and i wanted to tell you that
I love you too

but I'd like to know some other ways just in case that doesnt work out or I dont find that (because I had to hide it from my 'rents and I hid it too well and cant find it :( so any ideas???)

Aw thats really cute. I like that. Honestly though, it should be special. You don't need iseads it should just come from your heart. Believe me when the time is right it will come out perfect.

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i need to lose 10 pounds, asappp. like, if i could lose it all in one week, that'd be super. since summers coming, i wanna be only 105. i thought i was, but im not. so i wanna go back to there. i know its unhealthy to lose 10 pounds that quick, but i dc. this is like a once time thing.

SO PLEASEE. help

Ok well you are right, it's really unhealthy to lose that much weight in such a short period of time. BUT if you must, go on a veggie/water diet. Throw in a bunch of walking/jogging and before you know it you will lose weight.

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