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Q: I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?
I think that if said he really loves you and would do anything to get you back then he isn't lying, because there isn't any reason why you would say that without meaning it. And as you said that you love him to maybe you should go back out with him, but maybe you should talk to him about what you have been hearing and then just give him another chance.

Q: My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that.
I understand that you are just not ready so you could tell him that straight out. Just say do you think we could wait I'm not ready to do that stuff really, or you could tell him that you have your period but really that excuse only works for a bout a month. Not trying to pressure you or anything but getting fingered really isn't all too bad. It actually could bring you to closer. The first time that happened to me was woah a long time ago, now im 17, but I was kinda scared and kept making excuses why i couldn't then finally i gave up and really it isn't as bad as you think.-Hope I helped!

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Q: okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5!
Babe don't flip out! It's cool, yeah stupid people made that thing up and it means absolutly nothing! I know plenty of girls who have theyre cartilage pierced on the right side, they aren't lesbians they just got there ear pierced woo! I hate when ignorant people make up little rumors and stuff about that! Most likely no one will say anything to you don't worry! Hope I helped!

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Q: My friend died her hair BLACK see i think it looks good but she doesn't..so does neone know how to get hair dye outta hair like..everyday home uses and stuff..like someone told us dishsoap..that didnt work to well but if neone knows then ples give me advice to help my friend thanx
If it is one of those like couple month hair dyes then it should fade. Even if it is permanent then it should fade too but if she can't stand it at all then she should redye it something close to her natural hair color. I wouldn't recomend dying it a lot to experiment because excess dying could deffinly damage your hair.-Hope I helped!

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Q: hey guys whats a good music download thing? besides winmx because it doesnt work for me! i get no results. does anyone know any good ones? will i get in trouble if i use kazaa? and doesn't kazaa give you loads of viruses? please help, thanks!
Hey! I use this thing called Morpheus and I used to use Kazaa but I decided to try something new! You can go to Morpheus.com and it works theres not any viruses that I know of yet and I've had it for a while so you should check that out ;-)-Hope I helped!

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Q: how long does it take to get your braces off? thanx
Hey! Wow I found a good question to answer lol. That's because i got mine off on the 8th :-D. Well I had braces on my top and bottom teeth but the orthodontist took the tool and like twisted the bracket and then got the ring thing on the back molars off and that took like less then 5 mins then i had to get the glue off my teeth and that took 5 mins at the most and then you probably will get fitted for a retainer or w/e but the total time i was in there wuz like 30-45 mins thats all :)

Q: hi my name is monique and im 15 years old okay there is this boy at my school named Orlando and i really like him alot!!!! and i dont know if he likes me but people think he does heres why because he says hi to me different than the way he says it to other girls he always smiles at me and in my english class sometimes he stares and on friday he gave me a hug after 2nd period english and after school ha gave me a really long hug it was like 5 seconds long and i think that is pretty long for just a bye see ya on monday hug!!!! well my friend angie likes him too i asked her how much and she said a little bit alot and i like him alot but i think she liked him before me but i like him more if he does like me and askes me out what should i do say no because of my friend or say yea? please help!!!!!!
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Well, i deffinitly think he likes you too! I know what it feels like to be in the same position you are right now. I think you should have a talk with you friend Angie, I was in that situation before and me and my friend liked the same guy and when we were talking i wasn't like ok well if he asks me out what would you do cuz that would be kinda of mean, you could be like if Orlanda likes either one of us and he asks one of us out then would it do anything to our friendship and if she said it would make her mad then if he did ask you out then you should respect your friends feelings cuz chicks come b4 dicks its true, girlz that are ur friends will last forever most likely if they are a true friend but u and ur bf could always break up-Hope i helped

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Hey guyz!! I'm Ryah-which is short for Mahryah but all my friends call me Ryah so you people can! :) lol Well I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high school and I live in Maryland! I love to help people and I try as best as I can and I'm not rude and ignorant like some people on this site! So if anyone wants any help and don't want to post it for the public then send me a message and I'll try and help you! Love yahs!

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