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what is sXe (link)
it means "Straight Edge" a lot of these people will also mark x's on their hands...they exclude themselves from Drinking, Drugs, Smoking and usually having Sex...but most of them do it just to "Break Edge" meaning they do those things so they can say they broke edge...a lot of these kids at my school are and I swear sometimes the way they talk about it its like a cult or something...even though I know it's not


well we had to do this square dance at my school and they had to pick partners will i got stuck with someone i didnt like then we had to make a square i was by my crush then we had to hold hands and i was about to let go but then he grab it again and keep grabing it was so cool and then he stared to come closer to me talk to me make me laugh and everything does that mean he likes me? (link)
okay...so hate to break it to you but it does not mean he likes you...he's a flirt...lots of guys are...but unless he shows some real interest elsewhere...not during square dancing like after school and stuff...maybe then...but if he knows you like him he'll flirt with you to see your reactions to see if its true or not...he could just be toying with your emotions...guys are pretty darn good at that


Hey im 13 and a boy i really want to have sex
so much and alot of kids at school have hade sex already and i want to.wut do i do?
also with this how can i make sure nobody sees us if we do have sex?
where can i have sex?
helm plz im a beginer plz help (link)
Ok..so I'm not gonna tell you you're too young...even though you are...but you're clearly not ready for sex...your asking way to many questions...sex will feel right...wait until you're in love...you'll regret it if you don't (trust me...I've been there). You just want to do it because everyone else is and thats not helping you or the girl you want to have sex with...you want it for the wrong reasons...your going through puberty and your horny...you want sex...I get it...but wait until your ready...you'll know because you wont have to question it...if you have any questions at all...you're NOT ready...trust me...you'll just know!


how do singers get record deals! ...and are able to collaborate with songwriters and producers??

(especially girls like cassie who can't even sing!! lol)

I know I can sing well, I've been singing since I was a kid & I've had vocal lessons and I've wanted to be a singer since forever.

Sending in demos to record label companies probably won't work since they must get a gazillion daily that they throw away before listening to anyways...so does anyone know? (besides american idol shows - because if you don't make it to top 5 on that show, you'll forever be known as the 'american idol loser' for the rest of your life!!)

I know some urls of big hit-making producers on myspace and I was thinking about sending them some messages but that might not work.

And I know a lot of producers who are willing to work w/ me but most of the people they deal with are unsigned...so it's not very tempting to accept on those offers.

I do a pop/hip-hop/r&b style.

thanks for the help everyone!!! (link)
unfortunately in the music industry it's all about finding something different...there are millions of girls with your style...its not unique and it's been heard before...I suggest finding your own unique style and sending that in to the rec. execs. And you said Cassie wasn't good...well she thought she was and apparently so did the rec. companies...you might think your good...but they have the final call...I've taken voice lessons since I was a kid too and I've been singing for audiences since I was 5...I know I'm good...but good enough for them...idk...and the same goes for you...it's always worth a try..but first do something to make your sound and style stand out...because right now...it's everyones style


Im sick of having the same song as everybody else on myspace. I need a new song that you can dance to. That people dont usually hear on the radio or something. Any good ideas would be appreciated :]. Thanks. (link)
From Paris To Berlin by: Infernal...they don't even play it on the radio in the states...I cant not dance when I listen to it


I put out a bulletin on myspace saying, "i deserved that part."

so they all hate me, litterally. They are being commpletly unreasonable about it.

How should i react to them?! (link)
as a theater kid myself...they weren't necessarily jealous...but you did come off as cocky...we theater kids don't like cocky people...if you were in their position would you like it? I don't think you would...we might pride ourselves on our work...but becoming a braggart will get you nowhere in theater...it just hurts you in the long run...it's okay to be excited...not cocky...that bulletin was cocky and overly proud...say it...but don't let the theater kids hear you...they'll exile you which is apparently what you did...there isn't much you can do to fix it either...you just have to let it run its course


hi im turning 17 soon......not at school how do i build my confidence up to become an actor and can you still be an actor if you are not in school do you have to be a good spelling preson or brainy any think like that.......how hard is it to be an actor. (link)
well first off...it's pretty damn hard to become an actor...most start out on stage...do a lot of stage work in your community...get some real experience under your belt..and until your getting leads your not ready...make sure you get a few of them too before you really push it...they also don't make much starting out...there are millions competing for your job just so you know...in case it doesn't work out I'd look at some serious back-ups...some that maybe not the entire world wants lol...I wouldn't say that you have to be really smart...a good speller maybe...considering it's an English field if you think about it...If you are still really pushing for it...please realize you will not become Brad Pitt overnight...in fact you'll probably get shot down a ton before making anything for yourself...but really first just get some experience under your belt...make sure you can handle it


Ok so for my school speech/debate class, half my grade relies on this.

since i was in basket ball, i missed debate/speech, 7th period for TWO WEEKS, and now, i have this thematic interpretation due TOMORROW. i cant believe he gave me that little time and hes very stubborn so please dontsay talk to him and tell him or anything.

my theme is greed

does anyone have ANY SCENES FROM ANY MOVIE, BOOK, SONG ETC. THAT HAS TO DO WITH GREED?
OR ANY OTHER THEME?
JUST ANYTHING!

THANK YOU SO MUCH!


OH AND ILL LOVE U FORVER!
THANK YOU SOOO MCUH!
HELP! (link)
as a speech and theater kid here are a few ideas:
"The Crucible"
"The Merchant of Venice"
"The Producers"
"Hamlet"
it's not much but it's something


Please, if you could: list the most optimistic song you know. (link)
I don't know that they lyrics are incredibly happy but the beats make me smile and will lighten your day...they certainly lighten mine

From Paris to Berlin- Infernal
Ballroom Blitz- Sweet
Wig-Wam Bam- Sweet
Here Comes The Sun- The Beatles
Henrietta- The Fratellis
Can You Feel It?- The Apples In Stereo
Grace Kelly- Mika
Catch My Disease- Ben Lee
Accidentally In Love- Counting Crows
Breathless- The Corrs
We Intertwined- The Hush Sound




hay does anyone know of any good party music, like song remixs or night club music basically with a good beat maybe techno remixs or something.. beacause im having a party soon and i dont know what to play help!!!!!! (link)
Tinkerbell gave some good choices...there is also this British Techno band called Infernal...everything is really upbeat and makes you want to dance like never before...I'd consider that definitely


i am absuloutly in love with the song Beating Hearts Baby by Head Automatica. do you know any songs like it? that are happy rock-ish? with such an up-beat beat?
thank you so so much!!!!!
xo (link)
The Fratellis Newest CD "Costello Music" is loaded with them as well as The Hush Sound's newest "Like Vines"


i just wanna know the name's of some really good alternative rock bands. NO screamo, heavy metal. just alternative rock. i already have fall out boy, panic! at the disco, and cute is what we aim for songs, so you don't have to mention them. thank you (link)
I would suggest Modest Mouse, The Killers, The Bravery, Taking Back Sunday, Motion City Soundtrack, Brand New, The Used, Matchbook Romance, The Alkaline Trio, The Starting Line, Punchline, Dashboard Confessional, Bayside, The Academy Is, The Hush Sound, Hellogoodbye, The Apples In Stereo, Armor For Sleep, The Back Pack, The Fire Apes, Bloc Party, Cartel, The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, The Cinematics, The Matches, Dirty Pretty Things, The Fratellis, The Futureheads, Guster, Hard-FI, Hot Hot Heat, Jack's Mannequin, Kaiser Chiefs, The Lashes, The Lucksmiths, Muse, Meg & Dia, NUDE, Paramore, Plain White T's, The Posies, The Postal Service, The Raconteurs, Relient K, Screaming Trees, Socratic, The Summer Obsession, The Subways, We Are Scientists, VHS or Beta, The Veronicas, and if you wanna go old school Pixies and The Clash are the best...hope that helped...I gave you a pretty damn good list lol


It goes: Let the sunshine, Let the sunshine in, the suuuuun shine in! Oh let it shine! Let the sunshine, Let the sunshine in, the sunshine in... and it is in a new car commercial too if that helps (link)
It was written for the Broadway musical Hair (also a movie) The most common version is by a band called Fifth Dimension...it will be listed as Aquarius/Let The Sunshine In ...It's two songs together...Aquarius is the song that they sing at the end of The 40 Year Old Virgin and Let The Sunshine In is the song you want...you can also look for the Original Broadway Cast Album or the Revival Album and there is the individual track but it's more show tune-y


okay so i've heard that if you like sit in the sun with lemon juice in your hair it makes it lighter or something. is this true? (link)
yes it works...but it damages your hair like no other...yes sun in works too...but it also damages your hair pretty badly...but it is still a lot healthier than using lemon juice and the sun...it dries all of your hair out and leaves it dry and brittle


Does anybody know the name of the song playing on the Sisterhood of the traveling pants when Lena and Costas are swimming in the sea or ocean or whatever it is? (link)
It's Black Roses Red by: Alana Grace.




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