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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.
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well i still realy like my x bf i dumped him cuz i am dumb and i regret it. but ne way while i was going out with him i gave my friend his sn for this reason and told her not to talk to him..well i found out today that after we broke up (she still knows i like him alot) she IMd him and was flirting with him alot..this just bugs me becuz she knows i wouldnt do that to her and how much i like him. so i didnt find this out till today it happened like a week or something ago but that day he ran into my friend at the mall and they talked and then that night he called me and i am just really confused..i guess its jealousy but idk anyone have anyone to say anything about this if u actually kno what i a,m talking about..? thx if u do
if you think your friend likes your x-bf too, talk to her about it. dont give up tho, bc alot of ppl have the same problems. just ask her straight out if she likes him too. if she doesnt, cool, if she does,that is a prob. talk to her then submit me a question and i'll answer it...hope i can help
hey i feel like my friends are using me but i dont no my on friend was using me to get to his guy but they went out for like a day and he hates her no and he was using me to get to her which she hates him now and i hang out with him all the time but i dont no if i should ask him if he was because my friends sister told me that she was talking to him online and then she goes are you using er to get to my sister and he goes yeah but then her sister is inda crazy and does that stuff to get ppl mad so i dont no if she was doing that to me to make me mad and then my other friend lives out in the country and i live in towm and so does he b/f and i feel like when she comz ova she is using me to get to her b/f and when i hang out with them i feel reallly retart i no that this aint a ? but i am confused but can you help me in ne way?
thanx
you should not communicate between them, let them talk between their selves and let them work it out. this happens all the time between friends. so....if you truly think they are using you,dont let them. let them hang out alone for a while...maybe they will fix things up and then you wont feel so awkward all the time. hope i could help,
i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!
you should talk to her about it,try to make it equal between all of you. if u really, really hate her, tell her you feel left out and if she isn't going to treat u the same as your other friend, that you dont want to be around her when you can have better friends that treat you good.
hope i could help...