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Okay, long story..

3 of my friends dont like eachother.
they all talk crap about eachother, and it puts alot of pressure on me...i tell them not to, but they dont listen! everyone always ends up fighting with me saying i blew them off for the other friend...when i didnt...or that im talking crap too...but i dont!! im just stressed about it!!:-/ its like none of them want me to be friends with allll of them!! :-( they are my BESTfriends...and i guess i'm just confused!

o mi gosh.. haha.. again.. same thyng happened with me.. sept there were only teo friends.. but.. i thynk you shuud judt keep on tellin them to stop.. be lyk.. " ok.. theyre mai friend.. and you shuudnt talk mess bout them.. specially to me.. cuz i dont wanna hear it... " hehe.. or sumthyn lyk that.. then.. if that dont wurk.. then tell all 3 of em to wurk it out thrmselves.. i guess..
XoX- AnDiE -XoX

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hello im a 14/f goin on 15 in like 6 months ..ne ways i like this guy well call him Jimmy and my friend well call her Julie ...ne ways shes in his buisness class and said that he likes me and i was realli happy cuz i realli like this guy but then i herd that Julie was flirting with Jimmy but i didnt beleive it when i herd it cuz we were supposed to be best friends but then i saw then coming down the stairs and i saw Julie have her arm around Jimmy even when she saw me she kept her Arm around him . i guess she was flirting with him and i was so mad at her i didnt talk to her for weeks and she knoes im mad at her but the thing is is she has a bf should i tell her bf ? cuz if i dont then shell continue flirting with Jimmy and other guys but if i do then he could dump her and i could loose a realli good friend

UmM.. i think you shouldnt tell her boyfrind because she is just flirting and some people do that by nature.. and that would make herr be mad at you too when all you have to do is just GiT uR mAn bAk! l0l.. dont git into her business to help you.. you kno? just instead of tattletailin on her.. you shuud WuRk It furr ur gy..

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Ok well there's this guy i've been with for 5 months.. and he ended things in march.. and then he started going out with a girl i really hated over alot of stuff so i got mad at him.. and so we didn't talk for a while~ But then we started talking again- but not about those kinda problems.. but recently he told me " wuts it guna take for me to get u back- and for you to like me " and i said i dont know- and he said you need to break up with keith tho - ( i was going out with a guy at the time ) and so i did! stupid me! lol.. BUt then the next day he completly ingores me ( not keith ) and then i tried talking to him about why he told me he liked me when i think he doesnt and he just wanted me to not have a boyfriend.. I really like him alot- even love him but then he told me that " look im tired of this stuff.. look when im ready we'll go out " What should i do? wait for the guy i really like.. or move on but still be friends with him??!!!??! * PLEASE HELP * THANX!

wow.. i think.. boyfriend #1 is a faaggg... if he told you he likes you.. then he lyk.. changes his mynd.. then you shuud lae off him.. but you shuudnt try to hook bak up with keith cuz you dumpt him to hook up with boyfriend #1.. so i thynk you shuud l0ok for sumone new or.. stay single for a while.. ::.:: SiNgLe iS bEsT ::.::

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I am a 13 year old girl, and my friend invited me to a party. She just said it was a plain old party, so I went. Some people that I'd seen before, but didn't know exactly were there, just playing like you're supposed to at a party. My friend, and a few other people that I knew, were all making out in another room. I left immediatly.

Now my friend is having another party. I don't know what to expect. I asked who she was inviting, and she told me, and I know everyone who she invited. She told me that, again, it would be a fun, plain old regular party. Can I trust her on this, or should I just not risk the chance of being stuck at a make-out party again?

i dont think you shuud go anywhere that makes you feel uncomfortable.. idk.. thynk about it.. and if you dont git a good feelin.. then i would say.. dont go..

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confused gurl,

next year me and my bestest friend are splitin up i am so scared that we will forget about each other i dont want that 2 happen.

HELP- =(

Me ToO! tha same thyng is happenin to me.. and i kno it sux mucho grande.. but if you lyk.. try to see each other lyk.. on tha weekends.. or if you live far away from each other.. then lyk.. on spring break or sumthyn.. then yall shuud be able to chill or wutevre and wont 4git bout each other..

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i started goin out with this guy- and it was only 2 days.. and on the 3rd day i broke up with him for somebody else.. but he had told me he loved me n' all this stuff and when i broke up with him i told him he seemed too attached.. do you think he seemed to attached already or he was just saying that?

UmM.. maybe he was just sayin that.. but maybe.. if you guys had been "talkyn" for a while.. then maybe he really did feel that he loves you.. but.. l0l.. its funny cuz that happened to me.. and i told him he was too attatched... and then he completely stopped talkyn to me.. and later i asked him why.. and he was lyk.. " i didnt want to seem too attatched... " and i dont thynk that has anything to do with you.. l0l.. idk why i putt it in hrr.. l0l.. but naa... u just need to 4git about him or wutevrer.. hehe.. sorry if that didnt help..

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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!!

UmM.. so it maite be a lil hard to tell him "um.. yea.. mai friend was lyin.. i dont lyk yo0u.. " cuz that mite sound mean or wutever.. tha same thyng happened to me.. and thats what i did and it got really weird.. but idk.. thys might be meaner.. but it wouldnt seem that way to him.. lyk.. when your in frount of him.. start talkyn bout tha guy you lyk.. and how nice his butt is.. or wutever.. l0l.. idk.. i think that could help..

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i dress different than everyone else and the popular girls make fun of me! im worried when i start middle school im gonna get stuffed in my locker!
- scared new 6th grader

AwW!! sweetie.. its ok.. in junior high.. or middle skool.. wutever u wanna call it... everyone dresses differently and there arent really "popular" people.. there are a lot more people so you can make a lot of new friends.. l0l.. and people dont really get stuffed in thier lockers.. l0l.. most of them arent ThAt big.. and thats all in movies.. its gunna be ok.. l0l..

::.:: GiVe mE a GoOd RaTiNg ::.::

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mine is kind of like so many boys so little time exept.. me and my ex boyfriend still like each other but ive also been "talking" to this other guy... and ive never cheated either... what do i do?

omigosh.. i had thys SaMe ExAcT tHiNg happen to me.. exept.. i had thys rule where i wouldnt go out with anyone more thn once.. so i knew i wouldnt go out with him again.. and i could styll give the other guy a chance... and it wouldnt be cheating.. i mean.. your not goin out with either of em.. or maybe you shuud doo mai rule.. i mean.. if you already went out with tha guy once.. then you kno how he is.. and yall wouldnt have broken up if everything was all peachy.. riite??

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Hey Andie. What's up? Okay well I've been going out with this guy for awhile. Probably somewhere around 10 months. Well there's this guy, "Chris" (not his real name) that I've liked for awhile. I consider him to be the hottest guy to walk the earth. We've been really good friends since 6th grade, and I am not entering Freshman. Well I've liked ihm since the day I first saw him. And this past weekend I saw him for the first time in over half a year, and I really started liking him again. My boyfriend is out of town for about 5 days. What should I do? I've never cheated. So I'm not sure what to do. Chris has a girlfriend but we were holding hands at a concert we went to. So I'm pretty sure he likes me too. Please help.

well.. it depends.. who do you lyk more? him or ur boyfriend?? cheatings NEVER tha riite choice ir wutever.. cuz if ur man would ever fynd out.. it would prolly be the end of it.. ( trust me.. ive been there ) butif u lyk "chris" more.. then you shuud break up with ur boyfriend and hook up with him.. rate thys one and tell me wut you thynk of tha advise?

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I have just reached that time in my life where I am able to become sexually active and I start making my eggs. I have just had my first period and my mom is no longer with me to help me with what I am going through so I am turning to you. I have 4 brothers so I can not ask them, and my dad is really perverted and has started looking at me in a new light since this happened. So my question is: Can you tell me anything that will make these things go smoother and what I should do to protect myself from my dad?

UmM.. about ur period.. its a grl thang.. and its gunna keep happinin and it sux ReAllY bad! i dont kno that theres much i can tell u bout it.. just that it sux and PmS is worse.. l0l.. and about your dad.. thats not rite at all.. and you need to tell sum one you trust and see what you can do about maye livin with sumone else.. or at least lettin sumone kno whats goin on.. thats pretty much all i can say..

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Ok, there is this lady who teaches 10th grade English and she is SOOOOOO FINE I find her attractive. So one day I stay after for some help with a research paper and the next thing I know my pants are off and she is coming at me...For a second I didnt know what to do and then I realized that if that is what she wanted to do let her do it. BUT the thought of someone finding out just dawned on me...So now I come to you seeker help. What should I do about Miss English?

well... umm.. l0l.. u and ur teacher shuud wait till sfter sk0ol to do.. wutever... and about tha people hoo already saw.. if they did see... theres nothing u or i can do about that.. DeNyAl is not juss a river in egypt ( i got that off tha new guy.. BeSt MoViE eVeR ) but yea..

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Ok, this is kinda stupid but I have no clue what to get... Everyone right now seems to care about their cars way more than they should. So I was wondering if you could help me find they right car for me because I have no idea what to look for, my first car is prolly just going to be something that can get me from Point A to Point B, but hopefully with your advise it will be a cool one. Thanks in advance.

idk bout everone else.. but as first cars.. i lo0ove pick up trucks.. hehe.. even tha paint can be all messed up.. maybe im weird... but i think thats so0o hot.. l0l.. then as your next car.. make it lyk.. a big truck with tha wheels all high and stuff... yeeaaaa...

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i like this guy... but... i dont know... some days... he likes me.. and then the nexy day... he likes mah friend... and i've been putting up with it for a really long time... and ive been really nice... but im a little tired of it... should i stick around a little longer or move on?

UmM.. yea you shuud move on.. if he cant deside between you and your friend.. and hes gunna keep playin wth ur mynd.. then he doesnt deserve yo0u..or your friend.. UgH! wutafag.. i hate guys lyk that...

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i like my best friends boyfriend..... what should i do? im a 14 year old girl

WeLL.. i think you should lay off of him if hes your best friends man.. cuz thats wrong.. to0 many people have dunn that to mee.. and it ruined our friendship..

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