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Hey! My name is Emily and I am 14, I signed up because I came across the site and my friend suggested I sign up because I am like the adviser of our group and people come to me with thier problems. I like helping people and try to give the best advice I can where possible. I am best at relationships ect but will give any other challenges ago!! And my pic sucks but I tried putting one of me but it kept saying file size too big, I got annoyed and settled for my msn pic!

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well i have this friend, and like most people ive made new best friends. and whenever i talk to them and not him, he "feels left out" i told him that there are a lot of other people that hang around with us, who you can talk to. but he says "he feels left out" of the conversation im in. i mean, i cant stop talking to them just so he's happy. nor can i run around making sure he doesn't feel left out, or make him be involved in the conversation's. if he feels that way, he should involve him self right? well i told him that, and he just isn't having it.

thank you, please give advice, need it badly

p.s then when he feels like that, he goes and tells everyone so that i look bad.

Your friend might feel left out but you cant abandon your new friend for him. You have tried talking to him which is good because you are talking about what you feel he is just not taking it well...maybe he is having trouble adjusting to the situation or maybe he finds it difficult to make new friends as well. I suggest trying to bring him into conversations if he is struggling ask him what he thinks and try to get him to open up, if he does he will feel he is part of the group. Also try getting him to meet new people, introduce him to maybe your new friends next door neighbour for example. This might sound like setting up a couple but simply giving him the push and oppurtunity to make new friends should help.

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Do belly (navel) rings look bad on overweight people? I want to get a belly ring but I am overweight so I am not sure how good it will look. What do you think? Thanks

If its what you want go for it! I have my belly button pierced and love it and I am larger. I would say go for it if you dont like it you could always take it out and the scar would be small and can be covered easily.

hope you figure out what you want to do
xordinarygirlx

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my bestfriend sandra has a big problem and my friends and i dont nkow what to do well shes turning 14 she has small boobs she wants them to grow but she dosnt want plasctic surgery everyn 1 teases her tells her omg go get a breasty surgery she wanst them to grow really bad what can she do to grow them because i feel really upset whn she crys :(:(

People all develop at different rates so at 14 its nothing to be worried about. I am 14 and have been in a similar situation to you, I am a little more developed than my other friends who are picked on for being flat chested. Its all a matter of development rate and it will happen for her eventually.

I would suggest talking to her about it, and if the teasing continues get bad tell a teacher or her parents. She needs to know she is normal and if some adults know the people who are teasing her they can be educated on how its not a big issue.

I would show her some pictures of flatter chested celebrities and tell her how amazing they look as well as letting her know not all boys like large boobs, as I have seen in polls in girls magazines.

Best thing to do is be there for her through all the teasing and let her know she is being a strong and good person with her plastic surgery opinions! Hope this helped xordinarygirlx

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I have been with this girl for 4 months now. We have everything in common. We loved eachother very much. We did everything together. We were soulmates. However, She has seen a pornsite on my computer and has broken down and left me saying we are only seperated. I am not addicted. I normal male like all others whose curiosity got the better of him. I have told her That I got rid of the net. That I promise never to do it again that i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i cried when she left. It has been almost two weeks now. How can I win her back. How can i get her to give us a second chance. I lover her and she was all I had. Please help me. I can't go on without her.

Your girlfriend may have been upset at the fact you seemed so close and yet you used porn still, although this is normal she most probably feels you are not satisfied with her. Make some romantic gestures, explain its what guys do and it doesnt stop you loving her. If your love is strong enough you will pull through, tell her you wont look at it again if shes not comfortable with it but you didnt think. Explain what you did in your question you are not addicted to it...I hope this helps

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