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Q: Well obviously I wear pads when I sleep. I wear the ultra long ones. But I put it so it comes about to the top of the lips, & it goes back to about the middle of my butt. But for like the first two nights of my period I always get blood on my underwear in the back. If I move it back any further, I'd get blood on the front of my underwear. My mom told me to double up pads, but I feel like I'm wearing a diaper. Any other ideas?

i double them up the 1st two days even if its just to bed who cares your going to fall asleep anyway

Q: ok, so my sister is going to graduate this june and she's really excited for it and have been waiting ever since, so i want to give her something special. Do you have any ideas what a 14 yr old girl would want?

p.s. she's not such a girly girl thanks~

you should get a big frame and put pictures of you two as kids and pictures of her and her friends and maybe add a personal poem or letter to her and put that in there. my best friend did that for her sisters sweet 16 and i love looking at them when i walk in the room, she has like 2 of them hanging up, ps i'm 14/f so i'd thnk she would like that

Q: is there any tamil people here as this girl whos 12 and im 13 shes having her puberty ceremony on 15 july my period hasnt even started the girl is a show off so u know its kind of embarassing what do i do stressed thx in advance!

don't worry about it, it's awful and you worry all day about it showing not to mention cramps. just be lucky it hasn't started!

Q: lately,
i've been feeling extremely weak & tired.
it isn't mono.
i'm not anemica.
and it's nothing in my blood.
because my doctors tested me for all of these.

it isn't allergies or anythign either.
what could it be?

ps
my mom says i look paler if this helps...

i had this, i just slept a lot after school and just kept eating right and drinking lots of water and i'm fine

bio

Hey Hey Everyone,
I'm Ashlee,
Most people call me Ashlee
But i personally like Ash better
I'm 14 years old
And this coming school year
I will be a Freshman in Highschool
I have anxiety&&depression
I was diagnosed with anxiety when i was like 7
The depression was so scary and i never want to
fell like that again.

If you Ever have anything you need to talk about anxiety or depression please please please feel free to ask me anything, i know what your going through.

My friends are amazing
I couldn't live without their support
I must say my life is really good
And i am not perfect one bit

my hair is never perfect
i drop tons of stuff
i get embaressed a lot
my makeup gets messed up
i am not very good in math
i actually suck in math
my friends and i fight
my mom and i don't get along at times
my room is normally a mess
and i don't get my homework done till that day before class.

i'll go out of my way to answer your questions and to help you anyway i can even if it means asking someone or looking it up on the internet. i try to make my answers personal and i may put my own experiences in the answer.