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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!

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anyone know some hair prodcuts that's about $4 or less that does a lot in one like frizz and straight, silky? List the product, how muhc it costs, and what it does.

I'm trying to find a product that does a lot so I don't have to buy different products for different stuff and waste money.

Oh! and can you suggest a hair creme? Because that's what I prefer to use because it isn't greasy and when I run my hair through it, it desn't like feel weird.

I know that you said it has to be under four dollars, but you're not going to find a great hair product for that price. Even though it's pricey, the Frizz-Ease system exactly matches your criteria. I know from experience because I use it and it's done an amazing job on my hair. They have it for all different hair types too. The only problem is that it's a little pricey, but if you save up a lot of money then that shouldn't be a problem. It's definately worth it.

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okay, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months. we hit it off really well & we have a very very healthy relationship. we are both strong christians, and have morals, but the farthest we've gotten is french kissing. Now we have friends of ours that we double date with alot. They've gotten way farther than us. like they haven't gone all the way, but he's like fingered her & she says that they've done things that she regrets. but idk. i don't really have an issue with going any farther with my boyfriend. but is it wrong to do anything? because i just feel like a goody goody.

HELP!

If you're both Christians and have good morals, then that means that you shouldn't go any farther, unless you both agree on it. This may sound cliche, but what your friends do shouldn't affect what you do. Just because you feel like a goody goody doesn't mean other people see you as that. Others probably see you as a responsible girl who knows her limits.

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i havnt gotten my period in like 6 months im soo sure im not pregnant cuz i took the test like 3 times and i dont feel like i am and stuff whats wrong with me??

If you took the test three times then you're not pregnant. If you want take it again to be sure. But anyways, periods are supposed to be regular but no one's perfect so sometimes they're irregular. Go to your doctor and discuss it with him or her. They'll know correctly how to treat it.

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okay so..this is probably going to be long. sorry!. but anyways umm one day at school i was walking and then this guy was walking with his friend (btw were all in the same grade(11th) as far as i know) so i was walking by them and the guy pushed his friend into me..?( i dont know why) and then again today i was walking to my bus and this other friend of the guy just came up to me and like hugged me, his friend was like im cold then he hugged me.( came out of nowhere, theyre really random) i dont know why i dont even know the guy and his friends. it seems to me that theyre like picking on me =[ and i dont know why. i hate being picked on this has never happened to me or are they just kidding around? but why would they joke around i dont even know their names and who they are. do they seem like theyre picking on me or because one of the guys friend like me or the guy likes me? but i mean i dont know why they would like(crush on me) me im average looking im not pretty and tall. im just average an average looking girl, average height, im quiet, not TOO quiet, people say that im really nice =] i dont know why theyre doing this they dont know me. please help cause i dont know what random thing theyre going to do next. i dont wanna be embarassed i mean i dont wanna tell my parents or my counselor about this cuz it will cause drama and i hate being in dramas. please please help me!! theyre so immature cause were in 11th grade. do you think theyre picking on me?? i know theyre not teasing me cuz theyre not calling me names.

Just ignore it. It's just stupid guys being stupid guys. I don't know them so I can't say if they like you or not, haha sorry. If you ignore it then they'll stop doing it. It also sounds like you're making it a bigger deal than it actually is. You don't need to tell anyone, because this stuff happens all the time. Don't worry, they're not picking on you.

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what is a cunt??

It means vagina. If you ever need any definitions for any other slang words, try using www.urbandictionary.com.

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ok so i have 3 screen names (2 are my old ones that i dont really use anymore) but anyway they all freeze up when i come online and i click on the button to look at their info and it says Please Wait... then i'll try to IM someone and it won't let me (ill just click the send button or hit enter and the talk window doesnt open up and also when i sign online it only shows like half the people that are online. the problem is for all 3 of my screen names and they all have the same buddy list. but my sisters screen name has a different buddy list and it doesnt happen to her (we use the same computer) does anyone know what might be wrong and how to fix it? thanks so much.

I'm not sure what exactly is wrong but I had the same problem. All I did was download one of the older verisons of AIM at www.oldversion.com. You might have to try a few before you find one that works, but trus me, it's worth it.

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im going to give my boyfriend a lap dance for his b-day, but im not really sure what to do. i dont wanna look like a fool either. any ideas? thanks

Lap dances are about the tease, exciting him by letting him look, but not touch. With that in mind, there are a lot of good sites on the search, so go with those!!

only search advicenators.com

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15/F, 110 lbs., 5'4"

i feel really fat. my body is shaped really awkwardly. i think i'm going to stop eating for a while. i try to work out and eat healthy but nothing works...help...

Just to let you know, you're not fat. You can't help that you're "awkwardly shaped" so I don't think that you should be trying to fix that. Your weight and height sound perfect, so you shouldn't be worried aobut that. You'd actually be undweight if you weighed any less.

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What exactly is a orgasm?

The peak pleasure of sex. Its like an explosion in the inside of your body, and you can get numb sweaty loose your breathe twitchy or whatever. It just feels good.

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15/f. it seems to me like i'm always getting jealous of other people. like i will start to like a guy and any other girl he talks to makes me all depressed and i think that he likes her more than me. and then i get all jealous of that girl. even though we are not dating and everything and just friends, i still get jealous. what can i do to calm myself down and stop getting jealous? sometimes i just get so depressed because i read their away messages or read their myspace comments and other girls are in them and i get so depressed because its not me.

ugh how can i stop this?

Think about how much this guy does this to you. Think about how it makes others jealous when guys flirt with you. Try not reading the comments or away messages!! Just have more confidence in your self and all will be okay, trust me.

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I am 13, and i hvae C36 Boobs...
Al teh kids at school make "jokes" bout them and it really makes me mad..
what should i do? Can i shrink them in any way?

Trust me, all of it will catch up to you in the end. Don't sweat it! Soon everyone will be jealous of you, and all of the guys will think it's a good rather than bad thing. You can't really change this...so just live it up.

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i like or liked this guy. he used to go to my school and i was like totally in love with him for a whole year. he wasn't my boyfriend though. but we talked a lot. and i loved him so much.
anyway then he went to a different/better school. i never heard from him since but i missed him a lot and still loved him. i even saw him twice one time i visited our school but he didn't see me. and the other time i saw him walking on the street.
anyway there is this guy in my school and he is really hot and cute. and he always smiles at me. everytime he sees me he stares at me for a long time. and he is a lot like the other guy who left the school. thats the weird thing. and everytime i see him i get so nervous in my stomach. but only when HE looks at me. when other guys smile at me it means nothing to me
so do you think i like this guy?? and what about the other guy?

Only you can tell if you like either one of the guys...why would you ask us if you like him? Lol, that's just weird. Do you mean do you think the guy likes me? I think that would make mores sense. So try asking the question again.

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I have straight hair, and I would like to know how i could get a little curlier hair or wavier..any sugestions?

Most people have natural waves in their hair, it's just the way you treat it to make it wavy. Try taking a shower then applying frizz-ease hair serum and scrunching waves into your hair. That's what I do. If that doesn't work, you could try buying a 1.5 inch curling iron, and using it with extra hold hair spray. Since the iron is big, then the curls will look more like waves. Good luck, and if you need anymore on this topic feel free to ask again!

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what websites on myspace can i get a cute christmas/winter layout for my myspace?

www.whateverlife.com

Basically any myspace layout website has them so google it too!

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i've liked this guy for two years and i know a lot about him....but my friend is obsessed with him but she doesn't like him....or so i don't think how do i tell her to back off without her being hurt.

Well if she's really your good friend then you should be able to say I really like him and I've liked him longer than you have. And it really gets on my nerves when you obsess over him. She should be able to get the gist...and if she doesn't then she's obviously not your good friend.

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I'm kind of confused about the whole eyebrow plucking thing. I've been plucking my eyebros for several years, in an arch shape.

The advice I've read about this is that you always pluck the bottom of the eyebrow and never the top...but I have lots of random hairs at the top of my eyebrows and they always look messy because of this.

So is the advice about not plucking from the top correct and if so, why should you not pluck from the top?

When ever I get my eyebrows done, they wax them at the top as well, and they're pros so I'm assuming that if you pluck them at the top nothing will happen that's bad. I do it. I've heard that too but I don't get it. Lol.

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Do you guys think I should get side bangs. I mean Claire looks amazing in them, but shes a blond.

This isn't a valid question, but I'll help you out to make it better and maybe you can rewrite it.

1. What do you look like? Maybe you can include a link to a pic of you and then we can judge.
2. Don't include someone we wouldn't know in your question. You can just be like my friend looks good in them but she has blonde hair and I'm a brunette...etc.

But anyways, side bangs are sort of out of style, and I don't really like them as my opinion.

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Hey, well my friend made my myspace layout and I wand to change it but the problem is that I don't know how. Advice pleaseeeeee. Thanks

You just have to delete the code, which is all of those symbols letters numbers etc. It can be in any section so search for it.

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ok my hair is very thin and i want to know how to make my hair thicker but without getting extentions

Try using XXL volume gel or hair serum. It can be found anywhere and comes in all different brands. Not only will it give your hair more body, it will also make your hair wavy!

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Okay so I want to be a fashion designer when Im older and trying to prepare for it now by learning how to draw the designs better and stuff. So I am trying to find a site that has like just printable templates and how to's or just you know simple things I can use to help me learn to draw my fashion designs better, but all I can find is sites to a school or books and I just want something to print or do online you know?? So does anyone know any sites for this? Any help will be greatly appriciated! thankz! =D

I know this is just a heads up, but to be a fashion designer, you not only need to know how to draw designs and design it, but you need to know how to sew. So, once you get a sewing machine or if you already have one, start playing around with it, maybe fixing your own clothes or sewing spare cloth. And then you can think about templates and drawing designs and such. Haha I'm really experienced with this because I deal with it everyday...if you want to know you can ask me personally in a question or IM. Haha okay anyways, good luck with your carrer...I hope you pursue it and have great success when you're older!

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