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My name is Rayelle I'm 13 and in the 8th grade. This is my story. My best friend has gone out with this guy, Dylan, about 10 times and it only lasts about a week or two, but this time she was going out with him and she started to like this other guy Jon and told Jon that she would go out with him, so basically she cheated on Dylan 4 about 3 days and then dumped Dylan. I was going out with Cody at the time, and the next day there was a football game at the HS and I met up with Cody, and Mak (my other friend). Dylan was there and Tucker too. At the game I hung out with Dylan. We talked and stuff about Alivia and everything that happened. After the game was over I walked with Tucker and Dylan to Dylan's house. When we got there we hung outside for a while then Tucker left and Dylan and me just sat and talked and really made a connection and stuff. When I had to go home Dylan walked me to main street and then said "we should go out, because im really lonely." I was almost in shock. I said "ok, I was going to dump Cody anyway, he's a perv." and I gave him a hug and kiss on the cheek and walked home to dump Cody. When I got home Alivia called me and I ended up telling her that I was going out with Dylan. She was pissed! "But you dumped him", I said. She’s like "But I talked to Dylan and stuff and I really like him still." All I was thinking at the time was, OMG! Shut up! Get over it, it’s your fault you dumped him. Dylan and I only went out for 2 weeks and then he dumped me and I asked him why he did and he said he didn’t know (LIE!). The same night he asked out Alivia again and of course she said yes to get back at me. They have been going out for a week now, but Dylan has told 3 ppl that he doesn't like Alivia really anymore and I think he likes me! And I really really like Dylan still and want him back. What do I do? What do I say? (link)
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i think you can just wait and see what happens with this dylan guy and your friend, Alivia.
Maybe you can move on and maybe your friend will too. You can also try hooking your friend up..
BTW: Do you happen to attend CPJH?
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k...... so, 1 of my friends asked this guy out 4 me, and he said, "i dont know" so then, a week later, my other friend asked him, and he said, "i dont know, maybe"
so, i looked maybe up in the dictionary, and it said possibly. i looked up possibly, and it said presicely, yes or no.
i asked his sister the next day, and she said that she thought it meant yes...... and i dont know what 2 do about this........
i wrote him a note that said, ""will you go out with me? circle, yes or no."" im giving it 2 him in 2 days.. is that a bad idea??? --HELP ME PLZ!!!!!-- (link)
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i wouldn't give him the note.
I would ask him face to face and if he says I don't know, he may be letting you down nicely.
If he says maybe, he's just thinking on his decision.
So next time just ask him, "Do you like me, Honestly yes or no? I don't want to be wasting my time."
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how long will it take for a hickey to go away? (link)
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afew days to afew weeks, depending on it.
If you don't like it, cover it up with makeup unitl it goes away.
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To make a long story short: I've been going back and forth with this guy who REALLY likes me because I can't seem to decide if I like him. I told him I didn't - but then the second he started getting over me I felt heartbroken, cried, was crazy jealous over any girl he talked to, and then kissed him to make him like me again.
It sounds manipulative, like I don't like him but don't want him to get over me.. but I think I do like him. Quite a lot actually.
Now he asked me to decide wether I want to be with him, because he needs to know..
Is there a good excuse that would allow us to be in a secret relationship, so we could sneak around (which is something I really enjoy haha) and keep it on the down low?
It can't involve parents because I'm in college far away from them. He thinks the reason I can't decide if I want to be with him is because he'd be my first boyfriend (which is true, I've never had one before).
Help?
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Since you want to be honest,
just say he is your first boyfriend, and you don't really know how your feeling. You could make a dumb excuse if you want, but I wouldn't.
This is also called a hard-to-get situation.
I think you just don't know how you feel and you might need some time to figure out what's going on.
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ok so theres a dance coming up and my boyfriend goes to a different school but i wanna bring him and its 10$ to get it...ill pay for myself but would it be wrong to have him pay for himself because im taking him...idk just confused on how it all works
any advice?
thankss (link)
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Usually the guy pays for himself, but I am no one to talk for any guys so if I were you I would bring an extra ten dollars just in case. You could also just ask, unless that would be akward (:
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(this WILL be long)
i'm 15 f. turning 16 in december.
katie just turned 14 [but shes in my grade]
Okay, last night my friend was having problems with her boyfriend.. he refused to drive her home or anywhere so i asked my boyfriend to go and get katie.
after helping her and listening to her bash on and on about her boyfriend, my mom comes upstairs and asks what we want for dinner. we dont want anything because im not hungry and katie had food at her house.
after katie and dave talked and worked everything out (via text message & phone calls) he said that he'll pick her up to talk it out more and in a more mature way talking face to face. okay..
katie offers for me to sleep over. i say okay, but my moms asleep. ill leave a note. well, right when were about to leave [and get into katies boyfriends car] my mom is coming upstairs. i whisper "shit, katie, hold my bag!" my mom says to katie & I, "what are you guys doing?" i said "i'm sleeping over katies house tonight i dont have any plans (this is like at 10 at night)". my mom was like whos driving? Well, you should always tell the truth because in the end itll just come out bad. "katies boyfriend". my mom went off the walls. she was like "I'm not allowing katie to get in the car with a boy. laura, you're staying home. katie, get your mom on the fucking [sorry for the language] phone!!!" i go "MOM, WHAT THE FUCK, WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?!" i text my boyfriend saying "i'm sorry we cant hang out at katies tonight".
katie maturely gets her mom on the phone on her cell phone. well, my mom goes. HANG UP THE PHONE. i go.. "what the fuck mom you either want to talk to her or you DONT!" katie is like "karen, this is the only way i have to get home, so i need to take this ride. i'm getting in that car, my mom knows about it, please, chill out" my mom starts to argue with her! "katie get your mom on the phone, write down her number right now! i'm not allowing you to get in the car with a guy when i dont have your parents permission." while im just sitting there watching my mom flip a shit at my friend.. i'm getting heated as shit.
my mom calls katies moms cell phone, because her mom was out to dinner with family. "it went to voicemail and it only said please leave a message, now i dont know who the fuck i called". yet again.. im getting more and more heated. and so is katie. katie says "here, ill give you my house number" my mom calls and no one answers because yet again, THEIR OUT TO DINNER!
well, katies boyfriend shows up and he calls "katie, im here come outside please its cold" she says to my mom "well, hes here, dave hold on a second". my mom goes "who the fuck is DAVE?" she goes "my boyfriend" my mom goes "how old is he?" she says "17" i go "MOM SINCE WHEN WAS IT YOUR FUCKING BUISNESS HOW FUCKING OLD HE IS, MOM GROW THE FUCK UP (my boyfriend calls and i ment to press scilent but i accidentally answered) SHUT THE FUCK UP AND SERIOUSLY GO FUCK YOURSELF. I FUCKING HATE YOU MOM YOU'RE EMBARISSING THE SHIT OUT OF ME. HONESTLY, I WANT YOU OUT OF MY FUCKING LIFE RIGHT NOW, THATS THE HONEST TRUTH." well, my mom didnt even answer that. so katie goes "hes waiting outside, i have to go" and she just walks out. well, now becuase of her actions, im grounded. i cant go out for a week. my mom is offically physco and says "whenever you go to a friends house, or whenever they come over here, i HAVE TO TALK TO A PARENT!"
it's like my mom doesn't trust me anymore! what do i do, what do i say to her? i honestly did NOTHING! i dont even know what I! did wrong. last night i was about to kill myself, im not even kidding. it's like my mom cant accept that im growing up and that i WILL make mistakes, [oh btw my boyfriends turning 18 in november.] and she doesnt approve that my boyfriends 2 years older then i am. what ever happened to the saying "age doesnt matter?" do any of you know where im coming from? suhfiauh i need so much help, PLEASE (link)
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i know moms can be crazy sometimes.
actually, alot. haha
well first i learned when i talk shit (sorry) to my parents i get in trouble, even if its something stupid and unimportant. So i stopped talking back to her and all.
But in your case, talk to your mom and explain how unfair this is to you and if you have to be grounded it should be in a different way and you've learned your lesson.
I'm sorry, since I don't know how your mom reacts I can't really give further advice. I hope this helps a litte though.
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I am in love with this costume
http://i36.tinypic.com/23u25x5.jpg
but I found it randomly on some journal blog. I don't know where it's from. Does anyone know where I can get this costume?? I found this one on 3wishes.com
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41N2Q0Q6J2L._AA280_.jpg
but it's not the same :( so does anyone know where I can get the first bunny costume. I will give fives, thanks (link)
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thats really cute!
I saw that in purple and white at
Halloween Express in Totem Lake, WA
but I'm sure they have them world wide.
Costume & Display and Party City should probably have it, too.
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16/f
I have this huge crush on this one guy and I don't know what to do about it. People tell me that they think he likes me, but I don't really know for sure. He doesn't go to my school, but we talk online and stuff almost everyday. How can I hint to him that I like him more than a friend? Would asking him to go a movie be too forward of me? Or should i wait for him to ask me? I'm not sure of what i should do. (link)
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you can hang out with him alot by:
-Going to your local high school football games
-The movies
-You and abunch of friends walk around downtown
Anything simple, really.
Just be a flirt and always be near him,
I'm sure he'll get the hint (:
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does anybody have any really good codes for tiny myspace layouts because you see, my one is raelly big and i want one really small and everything. and pinky. if not, any small layout websites!?
thanks in advance xox:) (link)
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www.mygirlyspace.com
is a good website!
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so everyone knows the "can i have your number" skit from madtv (it's on youtube, too, which is where i originally saw it). i once heard that darrell is a woman? is that true? what is her name? (link)
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Nicole Randall Johnson
(Female)
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