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hey..im in 10th grade and i havent had a serious boyfriend since 8th grade. I hate being single. I want to meet someone great, and it doesnt look lke thats ever going to happen, especially in my school. It just gets kind of depressing, especially around this time of year. What if I dont have another bf until after high school!? I cant wait that long..what can i do? if anything?
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well hun, you cant just go scoping out for a boyfriend, i think that one day while you are out doing something not even thinking about boys you are just going to see that one guy and say thats him i want to get to know him.. and its just gunna happen so quickly.. see you dont wanna sound desperate cause the last thing a guy wants to know is that your so desperate for a bofriend! i am single right now too and yeah i get down since its holiday time and i see people holding hands being all cuddly but i just think thats definatly going to be me soon! and also friends are definatly there to support you! x3

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Sry so long!!! well theres this guy that ive had a thing with for a like 3 months or so and its been off and on. Well the other night i was drunk with 2 of my friends. And this guy came over and he was sober. One of my friends was pretty much passed out and she has a bf too...well this guy decided to take advantage of her and make out with her and i think maybe even more...not so sure though...after he made out with her he would come over to me and start taking advantage of me...well i didnt know that he was doing that until my other friend the only one who didnt do anything with this guy told me the next morning what went on. I want to end this thing with this guy because of what happened, but i still like him and i cant help it. what should i do?

well first you need to tell someone about this... that is just not right what that guy did to you and your friend.. and so its also not your fault.. he came onto you and you were drunk! so i think you should still like that guy and dont be guilty for it at all, you didnt do anything bad in my opinion! x3

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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it?

i know exatly how you feel, i feel upset when i get break ups.. its just natural but you should try maybe havin a sleepover with some of your girlfriends and just have fun.. try to forget about what happened and do girly stuff, watch movies and laugh! i know when i have breakups even if i have one friend over it helps and we laugh and i forget all about what had happened! and when you see him, dont avoid him because your not together anymore just you know act normal and friendly! hope i helpeddd x3

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hey..well okay here it is..

..last saturday i slept with my friends boyfriend while she was on a trip..she found out..hates me now and so do a bunch of other people and they wanna beat me up i guess..im going to a dance tonight at my old school cuz i switched schools at the beginning of the year and im really nervous..do you think theyd try something there??..or should i go and just have fun?!..i know i shouldnt care what other people say but when people talk about me it bugs me..so please hellllp:-/

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well you shouldnt have slept with ur friends boyfriend in the first place.. but you cant go back in change time so its all good.. but i dont think that you shouldnt be scared i mean dont try to hang out with them a whole lot because then you might start something, but just go and have fun and dont worry about them! x3

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There is this boy i like and he's very funny and nice, but doesn't have as many good qualities in the look department. if i tell my friends i like him, then they will laugh and make fun of me,...what do i do?

well to me in my opinion looks dont really matter... thats just the cherry on top! if your friends laugh at you then they arnt really your true friends, they shouldnt laugh at u because he doesnt have the best looks! x3

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im so paranoid and self consicous about me and my boyfriend. i kno he loves me and we are verrry close to eachother and weve been together for a while but even if he says something like ill call you at 7 and he calls at 8...i get sooo upset for that hour i wait..ill be like oh hes late he doesnt love me or watever i dont know i always do this...whats wrong with me? i KNOW he loves me but i get soo hurt and think bad things if he doesnt call when he said he would or something!! its so weird...help

nothing is wrong with you beleive me, i had that thing once.. i was always paranoid that the next day when i wake up and go to school he is just going to break up with me i hated it.. i also felt that way because we went out like 4 times for a week each... so it was different because i always though you know when a week was over that he was just going to break up with me and i hated it because i liked him so much.. and i still do but you just have to let it all go.. you cant be all worried everynight because thats going to lead to fights and not be good, if he calls a little late dont be worried he probably has a busy night, when that guy used to call me he called me everynight and if he didnt call me one night i got so nervous for the next day to come but it was all good i finally let it go and said that i just gotta live life! good luuckkk! x3

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How Do You Know If You Found The Right Person You Want To Spend The Rest of Your LIfe With ????????

you know by the feelings for them... when you are around them you feel like you never want to be with anyone else, they make you feel like you are the only person in the world that matters and you feel you never want to let them go.. you definatly will know when you find that it will just all of the sudden hit you, because if you find the wrong person you will find flaunts about you and that person together but if that person is right for you everything just seems to good to be true! x3

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my friend likes a guy that likes me and i don't like him. she will gladly step aside so that i can have him but i don't want him. he's perfect for HER. now she's saying she sucks because no one likes her and she's not pretty etc. but she IS pretty!! she is so awesome. what do i do to hint to the guy that my FRIEND is for him, not me? moreover, i want to remain friends with my friend.

heyy! well first make sure you definatly tell your friend how pretty she is and that she definatly deserves him in every way.. also tell her that you dont like him to let her know that she does have a chance, than somehow tell the guy that you dont like him like that, dont be to straight forward but just tell him that your friend likes him and maybe he should give her a try, because she is gorgeous, funny, nice and an all around great person! good luck! x3

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ookay, well i like this guy and we've been "talking" for about 3 months now.
i know he likes me back but prolly not
as much as i like him. he knows every-
thing about me and we talk ALL the tym
but the one thing he dont know is how `
much i REALLY like him, i need help .
i dont kno how to tell him how much he
really means to me =] . plz help !! =]

hey hun, well these things happen so much, you get really close to a guy and then you realize you think that you might like him, but in your case you know for sure that you like him, i know how this feels because i have had it happen to me before.. just go ahead and tell him, dont be too straight forward though, dont just say i like you.. and thats it, slowly tell him your feelings for him, tell him how much he means to you, what a great friend he is, and that you have fallen for him.. i wish you the best of luck! x3

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ok i have this friend...and she went out with this guy. she broke up with him but i dont know if she still likes him at all...but now i like him....i feel like im doing something wrong by liking her ex...am i doing something wrong?

no your definatly not doing anything wrong, you cant help who you like.. you should tell her you like him, but dont come on to her saying you think your going to go out with him, just say hey you know i think i might have some feelings for you ex-boyfriend, but she isnt going out with him so its ok to say you like him! =]

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