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Ok well one of my friends told me about this site. We were talking and she was like "hey, Kasey you love helping people and your good at giving advice. You should take a look at this site." So I did and...well, you could probably guess the rest. Anyway, I love listening to people and trying to help them. So if you need someone to talk to...I'm here for you.

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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him???

Well, it shouldn't matter what people think. Since you already know that there really is no point telling you. Anyway, no one will look at you weirdly (I don't think thats a word...sorry) or think diffrently of you. "Preppy" girls go out with "Punk" guys all the time. Its totaly cool since you both like eachother I would say "go for it."

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I met this guy about a few months ago that lives around my way. We started dating about three weeks after I met him. I thought he was someone that could just be someone to chill with time to time. Well all of a sudden he acts as if he's all into me. He have been telling me that he loves me and that he wants me to be his wife and that he don't want to ever let me go. I think he's a cool person to chill with, but I do not feel the same way that he do about me. The bad part is, is that I don't know how to tell him because I do not like to break people's hearts but I don't like to pretend either. I know that I have to tell him soon because Christmas is around the corner and I don't want him to get me nothing crazy. I just don't know how to tell him.

Well, if you don't feel the same way you shouldn't stick with it. For one, he'll just end up more hurt then he would if you just break it off now. Just tell him you think he is a great person and that he is totaly cool, but... 1) he just doesn't seem like your type (Ok I know thats old, but it does work...). He's cool to hang out with, but not what you are looking for in a boyfriend... or... 2) That he is moving a bit too quick for you and you arn't looking for anything too serious right now.

I think if its a one sided relationship (him loving you and you not loving him back) it would be better for the both of you to just end it.

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