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Can you give me good ideas to do instead of sex? Like foreplay sort of.. I don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend for a long time, and until then I want to fool around. I just don’t want to have intercourse. So, any ideas would be great!
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no problem smart thinking play like strip poker tease the hell out him lol make him cant wait tickile him in not so approprite ways dry hump and you know make up little games and things that will not only get you going but him as well fingering handjobs blowjobs and eating out but you dont have to do it until your ready you can watch porn toghether watch eachother masterbate there are plenty of things you can do without having sex and hey it can all be fun i hope i helpd thanx for your question love to here from you again
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I am a male, 19 years old. I dont know when i started mastuebating but now i am a mastuerbation freak. I mastuerbate everyday sometimes even 4-5 times. Is mastuerbation bad and how should i stop myself from doing so?? (link)
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buddy there is nothing wrong with masterbating im a 18 yr old female and i masterbate like its my religion hey whenever the mood strikes i do whatever i need to do its a good way to releive stress you know THERE ANIT NO SHAME IN MY GAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
its completely natural and i love learning new postions
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Hey. I'm 14, and I masturbate once every couple of days. Is this bad? Does this have any effect on my health? (link)
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hell no its not bad i masterbate every day almost and hey whenever it floats my baot masterbate as much as you want its completely normal
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hi, i was wondering, how big/wide does the guy have o be to pleasure the girl (like for it to feel good for her/moaning etc.) (link)
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honey sometimes size dont matter as long as you know how to work it some guys are huge and i had pple tell me that they didnt feel anything it sux but they guys who are not packing i had a few friends say hey it doesnt matter he was great so you see sometimes size doesnt matter it depends how you work it i hope i helped
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Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes?? (link)
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yes its true no matter what anybody has told you some gurls like sex just as much as guys do and some think about it alot if not just as much it normal and some gurls are nymph sex freaks in fact i think most are and some gurls will lie and say no to all the questions you just asked because there embarressed but some wont hell im honest i'll say it i think about sex all the time and hey im 17 and still a virgin im not afraid to answer everybody thinks about sex infact sometimes i think im just as bad as a guy but hey there anit no shame in my game lol i hope i helped
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What, exactly, does friends with benefits mean? (link)
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friends with benefits is basically having 4play and fucking but your not dating or seeing eachother there for they or you can see other people without cheating
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ok, so one of my best male friends and i like each other.
1. he's my oldest friend's ex and she said i can't go out with him under any circumstances, which is totally unfair because she hooks up with his friends in front him and dumped him and completely broke his heart.
2. he doesn't want a relationship.
what do i do? he's absolutely PERFECT. i don't want anyone else. (link)
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honey what are you doing besides your best friend he doesnt want a relationship your setting your self up for heart ache i know you cant help who we fall in love and its usally the people we cant have that we winde up wanting so much more i know its easier said than done but try to forget him the choice is yours you know you live and you learn in all my experenic guys who dont want a relationship usually doesnt end the way we want it to
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Any tips for giving head?
I think I got it down, but once the guy cums..
Is it bad.. to keep pleasuring them?
[I've heard stories.. that it hurts the guy?]
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sometimes it hurts but if the guy doesnt complain than whats the problem you know and i think its kidda a good kind of hurt if your really that worried about than stop when they cum and if they have a problem with it screw them your the ones on your knees, lol
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13/f ok. i like this boy, lets call him T.i mean i REALLY like him. well school just let out=,(, and i wanted to add him on myspace. but would it be too awkward to add him if hes the only guy with only 5 other girls? i really want to add him, but i dunno what to do. please help. (link)
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who cares if you like him add him you wont get anywhere if you dont at least hint to him come on so i say fuck it and add him whats the worst that can happen he wont accept and if he doesnt screw him you kno what i mean
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I was with my boyfriend, and we were just in the mood, right? And he kind of stuck his dick in me, but pulled right out. It was between 2-5 seconds. The thing is he says he didn't cum, but we don't really know. But would you really know if the sperm got out?
Is there any chance I might be pregnant?
Please reply FAST. (link)
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yes there is a chance although it was only that little bit of time weather he came or not he could of still pre-cumed and no matter what anybody tells you YOU CAN GET PREGENT ON PRE-CUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but since it really wasnt that long i dout you are but there is always a chance either get a preg test or wait it out and hope for the best! good luck and remeber even though you guys are playing around it's always safer to wear a condom
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Me and this girl used to be BEST friends. Everyone knew we were inseperable. But many things happen that i not going to bore you with and we stoped being friends. Now everytime im around her im just in a bad mood she just annoys me so much and i try not to let her get to me but i cant help it. I cant just ignore her because she is in my group of friends and were always together. What sould i do i cant stand being near her all the time? (link)
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think what you cant stand to be near her all of a sudden you guys use to be iseperable so you know her pretty well im guessing and if she gets on your nerves im pretty sure shes getting on others nerves tell that bitch to shut up i know i have the problem im know for being honest and when someone annoys me i let them know and if she doesnt stop tell your friends you chill with them later or i know this sound immature but fuck it play her and her own game annoy her mimik her im pretty sure she'll shut up real quick when she knows that your not playing her games and or taking her shit dont let her get under ur skin good luck i hope i helped my inbox is always open
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yes, yes I know that this question has been repeat..say..a million times! (not really)..and i suppose my question isn't different from any of the others..well maybe, except that it's my question:)
..i've really liked this guy for over a year. we've exchanged a few words but we really don't talk much but i feel like there's a connection between us when we do see eachother (which is a daily basis)..he always looks at me. ALWAYS. and smiles when he's alone. but when i see him, he's always hugging other girls around me:( everytime i see him, i notice him look at me, but then he looks away when i see him..
guys, any chance he's flirting with me?..what are other signs that i can see if he's flirting with me? (link)
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first of all you feel a connection and you see him on a daily basis so whats stopping you from saying hi once in awhile or trying to spark up a convo how do you expect the fire to light without the flame? you know you already feel that there could be the start of a fire with the sparks so why not try to make it a full blown fire talk to him and find out whats there and whats not and hey you wont get anywhere beging shy and those gurls are probley his friends you know how guys are but fuck them you shouldnt be afraid at a little compitition you know so honey get your game on flirt and make his fire burn lol i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if you need anymore help
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my boyfriend and i had anal sex and i kind of pooped a little....it was on the condom and he was like "you pooped". i was so embarrased but does that happen often. (link)
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of course i was reading an article on it and i seen it on the sex talk show both actually with talk sex with dr.drew and with sue both seprate shows but anyway its 100%normal many many many people have done it "pooped"while having anal sex it completely natural and if he cant except it than fuck him he wont get anywhere beging immature so dont worry
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how many times does a teenage boy think about sex in a day. im a boy, but its not like im going to count, but im sure some sad psychologist has, so im wandering, what are the guys findnings? jus curious (link)
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teenage boy im not sure but its normal anyway i was reading an article about it and a guy decided to keep a diary about how many times he thinks about sex in 24hrs and he recorded 265 times in a day which a women did the same thing and recorded about 165 times a day hey im 17f and still a virgin and think about sex enough not to count lol but i hope i answered your question
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i have a dance next week and my dress is kind of backless. the problem is, i have a little bit of acne on my upper back. that really won't look too good with my dress. how can i treat it quick? i mean, i shower every day and wash my back but it's not doing much. i have retin a micro for my face, should i try that? i solutions fast (link)
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why not i would try it on your back i used my oil free blackhead shit and bascially all the mask and acne stuff on my face but i also use it on my chest because sometimes i get acne on my chest so hell yea go head and try it and if it doesnt work wear the dress anyway nobodys perfect and im sure your not the only one to ever have acne on your back and if pple dont like it fuck them i hope i helped
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So my bf fingered me and have me oral...
My question is, i don't know if i had an organism or not? There wasn't a time that it felt really really good, and if it would feel good it was for like one second then stop
Also I heard that if you rub ur clift it will make a big differences, he said that he couldn't fine/see mine...and i have no idea what i'm really looking for, can someone help?
And how come it didn't feel good, && please don't tell me to feel myself for what feels good and what dosn't (link)
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its true though i know you dont want to hear it but its a known fact that if a woman cant pleasure herself its hard for anybody to make her organsm but all that aside you didnt have an organsm because, you'd know if you had an orgasm face the truth honey he fucking sucked hopefully he can get better and if you meant that he said he couldnt find your clitours than maybe he needs a little lesson hopefully practice makes perfect and if he cant get on his own give him a few pointers theres nothing sexyer than a gurl who is passionate and knows what she wants lol
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
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dont worry theres no age limitt to your first kiss it will happen and i didnt have my first real kiss until i was about 16 and well im 18 now and still havent experienced that omg shatering soul stoper kiss unfortunaly but when my times comes it'll happen so dont worry hope i helped my inbox is always open if you need anymore help
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ok so me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship expect we fight. over stupid stuff. were both really protective of eachother and i dont alow him to go to this kids house b/c hes a real bad influnce but i let him go 2 other ppls houses. r relationships not really bad but what could help to get things back up and running (link)
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in my point of veiw trust you know a relationship cant last if theres not enough trust or freedom if theres not enough trust or freedom you start to fight and keep them on a very short leesh but dont get me wrong speak up when needed but dont be controlling im not saying you are but trust comunicating are very important in a relationship i hope i helped good luck
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ok so me and my b/f had sex like 4 times and he didnt wear a condom.my falt b/c i kinda talked him in to it. the last time we did it after he pulled it out he cummed like 5 secons later. its kinda scaring me that im pregnant but i havent been throwing up or feeling symtoms of it. i also got on the dilermia at kingsisland and i guess would of killed the baby if there was a chance of me being pregnant. im also to young 2 get a test and will not tell my mom so plz help (link)
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well honey are you sure your pregnet if not try to relax do you have any older friends that can buy you a pregnacy test in rite aid or really any drug store and to be honest i dont think you really need to be a certin age to buy one but about not telling your mom if shes the only way you can know for sure maybe its wise that you let her in plus if you are pregent im pretty sure she'll notice in the next months you know sorry i hope i helped and remeber there are ways to prevent this problem so use them and guys dont always pull out fast enough goodluck
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I have a boyfriend that I've been going out for almost 4 months. Yet, I still have feelings for my "first love". We went out for 14-15 months [8th grade into highschool] It ended due to some problems. A big one was not being able to see each other because we are not in the same grade or school. He was still in middle school when I went into high school.. so he had limits to hanging out with me. Now he doesn't. He still likes me..
i really don't know what to do. I do like my boyfriend, not love.. because that is too soon [in my book] He's probably the best one I've had because we are in high school and there's no middle school drama.
Whenever I see my ex.. I get happy and I want to hug him.. never let go. I'm afraid of what may happen. I did kiss him while I was with my boyfriend. I have a feeling it might happen again.
I don't know what I have is infatuation for my ex or for my boyfriend. Maybe I'm blind. How can I solve this problem?
I'm afraid to go back to my ex because we were on and off about 3 times.. but those problems are fixed now.. Is it too late? (link)
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well your stuck between two guys you obviously still care deeply for your first love and you said that the problems have worked out are you sure and its clear to me that you care for ex more than you care for your current b/f but do him and yourself a favor if you feel like you wont get past like with your current b/f than be fair and end it its not right to lead or be lead on and like you said about your ex you really dont see him but do you think that that can be changed and i know you care for him but if it doesnt work out and if all your orignal problems werent really solved do you really want to keep falling for the same mistakes if it doesnt work out this time maybe its time to say goodbye to ex once and for all you know because although you guys arent together he's running your life you know decide can it work out or just say goodbye you live and you learn its hard but nothings ever easiy i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if needed
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