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Q: When are you supposed to give a guy head? Like during makeing-out, just go down or what?
And when he has a boner,is that when u do it or before he has one you do it?
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Okay well personally I think you should talk to the guy about it before and see what he wants and stuff, [not the same day youre going to do it though] and you should start out by making out with him and get him hard, then work your way down and do the job ;]
-Mel
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Q: omg.
you are BEAUTIFUL.
how do you get your eyeliner so perfect?
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Haha well thank you, i dont know i just buy the nice sticks of eyeliner and get the tip really fine and apply it .. plus i have a sister that is a total makeup freak [ obsessed with applying makeup and stuff ] so i watch how she does hers and catch on. :]
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Q: Ok so i'm in 8th grade and my boyfriend and i have been going out about 2 weeks, he is really sweet and nice and i always feel completely comfortable around him but when it comes to holding his hand and stuff i kinda get nervous and freak out and start rambling on about random stuff. How do i kiss him and hold his hand but not be like freaking out? How can i still stay flirtatious and cute?
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You just gotta losen up, noone can really tell you "how" to kiss him and hold him without freaking out.. Just relax when youre with him and realize there's nothing to be nervous about.
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Q: when i wear bikinis you can see the hair !
and i shave it but there is always little hairs you know and red bumps and it looks soooo gross !
i just bought veet bikini cream and i tried it and it doesnt work.
any suggestions as to what to do
p.s i really dont wanna go get it waxed
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Hmm well try shaving it smoothly everyday for awhile so it gets used to being shaved there, so the red bumps will go away. and if that doesnt work then ...either buy a new bathing suit that covers it all up there, or try a new cream product for it.
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Q:
nipples is bigger than the other.
is that normal or should i like, get it looked at?
i`m kinda scared;
my left one is bigger.
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Its most likely normal, just process of growing up and developing. If youre completely worried about it though then it won't hurt to get it checked out. :]
-Mel.
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Q: Can someone still finger you even if you havent had your period yet?
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Oh deffinetly, there's no reason why you wouldn't be able to get sexual even if you havent started your period yet.
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Q: Alright so i like this kid and we have been friends for a pretty long time but just this week he broke up with his gf should i ask him out or give him time plus i dont know if he likes me and i like him alot..? Plzzz help
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Honestly I would wait a little while to give him time to figure out what he wants and then start to make a move and hint around you like him.. and eventually tell him how you feel about him. :]
-Mel
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Q: I'm 14/f, and want to tone my thighs/abs for the summer. Since I don't exercise that much, I thought maybe I could start walking.
Does walking burn a lot of calories? I'm not lazy, but I don't want to waste all that time walking if it wont work, when I could be doing something else instead. How long should I walk for each day to make a difference? Thanks ;D
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100 calories per mile. walking is a great way to lose weight and tone up
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Q: do most guys expect girls to be COMPLETELY shaven on their privates? i've always shaved down there, do girls usually shave everything off? or just the bikini line? i hope i haven't been doing something really weird all this time..!
and do guys shave too down there? or what?
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Honestly everyone is different. some girls dont shave at all, some do all the way, some just the bikini line; whatever you prefer or what your guy prefers.
and guys are like girls, whatever theyre comfortable with.
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Q: when my boyfriend fingered me for the first couple of times, he was kind of rough. to the point where it wasn't pleasurable.. i tried to deal with it, but eventually gave him the hint to take it down a notch. my problem is this: after all those times he was kinda rough with me, it seems like the skin/blood vessels on my bigger lips are unproportional or out of whack. it doesn't hurt but it definitely looks a lot different than before. i feel kind of like "down there" is now ugly looking cause it's been roughed around too much or something.. is this possible? will it ever be back to normal? (it's been like this for 5-6 months)
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Just straight up tell him whats been going on and that he is too rough. if he cant deal with it then hes not worth it.
maybe you should get checked out "down there" and see if everythings all normal. dont worry too much.
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Q: my boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago but i really like him still. the other night, he said he really liked me too and he wanted to go back out. then his computer froze or something and he signed off. this morning he immed me and said he took back everything he said. since then i've been really depressed & i've been getting headaches and stomaches allllll day. i can't get him off my mind. is there something i could do to move on or get him back? pleae don't suggest finding a new boyfriend because i don't think i'm ready for that.
thanks xo
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Ok basically, you can't make someone have feelings for you. you just cant. make the best out of everything and at least figure out what went wrong. i promise you that youll move on, just take some time and try going out with your friends and having fun often. do stuff that gets your mind off of him.
do NOT give in if he says anything like: "if u have sex then ill like you" or anything like that. it wont work out.
I don't suggest getting a new boyfriend so soon. But I do suggest to try and go have fun with friends and remind yourself that whats meant to be WILL find its way, everything happens for a reason, and there will be other guys; even if it doesnt seem like you could ever be with anyone again. You will.
-Mel
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Q: I gave head for the first time.. it was an overwhelming sweet taste and i got up to spit..
is there a certain way to clean my mouth?
Brush teeth, mouth wash.. ?
The taste is lingering on my tongue and I can't seem to get it off.. every time I try cleaning my tongue.. I gag a little.
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When I gave head the first time it was great. but instead of spitting i just swallowed. i carried a mini bottle of mouthwash in my pocket [find all mini things like shaving cream, lotion, toothpaste, shampoo, mouthwash at like acme, kmart, dollar stores] anyways yeah. that helped. it shouldnt be lingering on your tongue for more than a day though
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Q: ok so i was having sex with my boyfriend and i was already having an amazing orgasm but then we both thought it would be fun to add my back massager into the mix, when he put it on my clit i squirted so hard it was like i peed. was it pee or was it vaginal fluid...it shot out of my body as if i had been tickled too much and pissed my pants but it didnt feel like it came from my urethra. so what was it?
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I've seen this in porn [im not gay haha] but yeah, it was just cum. not many girls can figure out how to do that, its when you have an extremely amazing orgasm
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Q: i have many of friends but lately i have felt really lonely maybe it's cuz i'm stupid but i want to try and do somehting about it any suggestions?
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I get like this often a lot. Try talking to more people. The only thing i can tell you is.. maybe you should look for a boyfriend who'll be with you a lot?
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Q: ok so im going to the movies with this guy that likes me, and chances are that we are going to mke out...........
i've never made out with a guy befre so i need ta know where to lke put my hands nd stuff. and like how to make a move, and how to sit in the theater seats,
thanks much!#
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Ahah I was nervous before. But you really shouldnt be. It doesnt matter what position youre in, i guess whatever is comfortable, start out by little pecks and stuff. I usually put my hands around his neck, or.. anywhere.. it doesnt really matter that much. go with the flow.
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Q: why do some people cant cry even though they are really sad?
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They're so upset to the point where they're practically numb. Crying would do no justice.
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Q: 1.)why do people say" im fine" even though they are hurt and stuff? doesnt it hurt a lot more if you act like nothings hurting you?
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Most don't want people to know, don't want to talk about it, and don't want sympothy. And it feels a little weird saying "no im miserable".
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Q: I need new music, I mean i like my music,
What i need is a site that you put in 3 of your
favorite bands, and it comes up with another band
that you might like.
I just can't remember what the sites called.
Heelpp!
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Q: i heard toothpaste works for acne....
does it actually work?
then does listerine?
what else
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Yes toothpaste helps remove pimples. You have to apply it at night [ or during the day ] and sleep with it on, don't worry about it getting on your pillow or anything cause it will harden and it'll be fine. Scrub it off in the morning.
Any toothpaste works.
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Q: i want really white teeth? are there any tricks or ways i could get whiter teeth besides using whitening strips?
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Hmm the best advice I could give you, if you wont use the strips then.. Brush your teeth often, dont drink coffee, tea, or dark soda's and youll see some improvement.
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: May 6, 2007 Answers: 42 Last Update: August 20, 2007 Visitors: 3237
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