i really like my boyfriend of 3 months but i get uncomfortably wet when i make out with him and grind with him...i know its a good thing but i dont like getting that wet...it feels almost as if i peed my pants...
does anyone know how to stop it or anything? thanks.
the other person is exactly right. there really isn't anything you can do to stop it. its a natural thing you can't control. but you could always wear a pantyliner if it makes you feel more comfortable. maybe you won't feel as wet. good luck :D
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here is a little about me and my situation
*18 female
*virgin
*been on birth control for about two years now
*i've had horrible discharge, it's clear but i have so much of it
*i've been to the doctor, asked her about it and there is nothing i can do
*i have to wear a tampon everyday AND a pantyliner because it's so bad
*i know using a tampon everyday is horrible but there is no other option, otherwise it will get all over the place
*i wear thongs all the time, don't know if you needed to know that but just a fact.
my question is, before i have sex i don't want to have a pantyliner on that just isn't sexy and if i don't wear a tampon my underwear will get all gross! i don't want to be like, i have to go to the bathroom because what if it just happens you know! even if it wasn't about sex and he was going to finger me or something i just hate having so much discharge and having that gross feeling in my underwear. and i don't want the guy to be like ok gross your underwear is all wet and nasty? does this happen to anyone else? also i don't know if wearing the tampon causes this but i have this weird smell from my vagina. i wash it with water everyday. it's not like HORRIBLE but i don't know if its normal? what are some suggestions for before i am "sexually active" i just don't know what to do....
well, the smell is normal i can tell you that much. this is a difficult situation, i would still tell him you have to go to the bathroom. thats the only thing i could think of. i usually go to the bathroom before i mess around with my bf anyway. its not that big of a deal, what else can you do though? good luck :D
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f/15;whe i masterbate like try 'fingering
my self it doenst feel good at all it's like weird, but when i do it to my clit it feels good.
is there any way I can finger my self and it feel good too?
find your g-spot
Question: Where is my G-Spot?
Answer: The G-Spot is an area on the front wall of your vagina that when stimulated, can cause women to orgasm and sometimes ejaculate. For some women, stimulating the G-Spot creates a more intense orgasm than clitorial stimulation. Not all women can have an orgasm through G-Spot stimulation.
also you could do both at the same time.
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On my car radio it says the name of the song and artist playing. i heard a really good song but it was ending when i looked and all i saw was "education". thats either the song or artist. It was like a really upbeat rock/ alternative song. Anyone know?
it could be any of these:
we don't need no education by pink floyd
education by the kinks
education by modest mouse
or education by pearl jam
look them up on youtube and see if its any of them.
good luck.
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if someone were to get you a customized guitar pick for christmas would you like that? if so whats the best thickness?
like i went to a customized guitar pick website and it asked that.
if you even care to know i was thinking of getting my boyfriend one who plays guitar that says "i love you" or something like that ha i just thought itd be cute. thanks for the help!
i think that's a really cute idea. i would like it. and it does depend on your preference. if you can look at the picks he has now you might be able to tell what they are. if not i would just go with medium. anyway the thick ones are really thick and you can't bend them, the medium you can bend, and the light and super light ones are like paper. good luck.
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Ok so this all started a couple weeks back, a popular girl in my school thinks she looks better than me and thinks i am a dork. Soo i need to re-transform myself to be better than her. I'm not into verbally bashing people but this girl is a byotch!!! I really need a cute outfit by 7:15 am tommorow using my own wardrobe. And i need to know how to act so i can stand up to her and make up is like my worst enemy so i dont know how to use it. The weird thing is i own a lot of it. I dont own any long sleeve shirts but i do have a lot of jeans and camis and short sleeves!!! Thanks i need this badly!! Help please!!!
i agree with the other person who answered. it sounds stupid to 'kill her with kindness' but it so works. if you just keep being nice to her, she'll have to like you and then she'll be pissed off because she likes you. DRESS FOR YOURSELF. not for her. dress to give yourself confidence. try on a few outfits, and whichever you think you look best in, wear it with confidence. but don't waste your time on someone who thinks your lame. if she's a bitch, thats her problem.
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yesterday, my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time. we were both virgins. we used a condom, and it did not break. i dont even think my cherry was popped all the way. but when he took his cock out, he had a little cum on it. it touched the tip of my vagina. were not sure if it even went in, we just know it was right there. he did not fully "bust a nut", he just 'came' a little. is there ANY way i could get pregnant? were so scared. i think half of this is because we are both virgins and we dont know a lot about sex, but it wouldnt hurt just to make sure.
theres a chance you could be pregnant. if you get cum or pre-cum on you. you can get pregnant. you really just have to wait and see. don't stress over it because then you may miss your period because your stressed out. but wait for your period and take a pregnancy test if needed. good luck -sara 19
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What constitutes a reason for living?
being alive is a reason for living. your lucky enough to be alive, so why waste the precious gift of life. you could potentially do so much with your life.
also even if you don't think so, someone cares about you, and if you aren't around, they will be heartbroken.
other reasons, love, curiosity, random chance, changing one itsy-bitsy piece of the world for the better
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i messed around with this guy. not sex, but some other stuff while i was drunk. now my throat is really hurting and im feeling a bit sick. and im worried something happened..like idk..but im on the pill and have had hpv shots. but im worried theres a possibility of being pregnant? like from fingering and that stuff. i know im paranoid. i heard your good as long as you have your period, but my pills make me have it once every 4 months, so there'd be no way to know. should i just stop taking them for a week to make sure my period comes? or is it even possible for that to happen from fingering, handy, and some stuff? =/ thanks
there is a SUPER slim change you can get pregnant from the fingering if the guy had semen on his fingers. other than that, you can't really get preggers. anyway you could still have something like mono. here are the symptoms: a general lack of energy or malaise, a loss of appetite, and chills. These initial symptoms can last from one to three days before the more intense symptoms of the illness begin. The more common intense symptoms include: a severe sore throat, fever, and swollen glands (lymph nodes) in the neck area.
It is typically the severe sore throat that prompts people to contact their doctor.
hope this helped :/ -sara 19
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ok i am a 14/f. everyday at least twice i am thinking about sex. i want to have it but im scared i watch people on redtube.com have sex and i like it. i do not know how to stop this and i need help my parents or sister do not know about this. my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years does not know this and i want to tell him but i dont no how any advice??
first of all. EVERYONE thinks about sex. don't feel weird. however, just because your thinking about sex doesn't mean you should have sex. and you can't be addicted to sex without having sex. but you could be addicted to thinking about sex. your only addicted if it is affecting your daily life in a bad way. you should NOT have sex at 14. a lot of the time, its a lot different than you think. it has so many consequences other than std's and pregnancy. Its an emotional rollercoaster and its a lot to handle. if you tell your bf you want to have sex. chances are he'll want to have sex. and if you aren't sure than i wouldn't tell him. you can always masturbate. the majority of people do. something like 80% of girls. it can help relieve sexual tension. if you don't know how you can google it. if you think your REALLY ready. USE A CONDOM. i cannot stress this enough. you definitely don't want to become pregnant at fourteen. its not a hard thing to do if you aren't using protection. you can get pregnant, the first time, any time. you can get pregnant on your period. you can get pregnant underwater, in trees, anywhere. be safe. THINK IT THROUGH. please. trust me. sex is serious. good luck.
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Is it possible to become addicted to Masturbating?
yes its possible to be addicted to anything, an addiction is something that effects your daily life in a negative way. Addiction is the state of being enslaved to a habit or practice or to something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming, such as narcotics, to such an extent that its cessation causes severe trauma.
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i'm 15, having a really hard time at school getting kicked out of all my lessons, argueing with all the teachers and everyone is constantly going on at me.
then at home it's worse me and my mum argue almost every day and we usually get to the point where we hit one another or say really hurtful things, my dad doesn't get involved because he's recently started working away all week and is with him girlfriend over the weekend.
i don't really go out with my friends anymore because i'm never in the mood and with boys it just never works out.
everything just seems to be going wrong at once and i don't know what to do, i try put on a brave face but i just sit and cry when i'm alone.
i thought about suicide but i don't know if thats the answer.
i have 62 pills (paracetamol, ibruprofen and nerofen) all in my closet hidden for when i feel it all gets too much and i can just end it.
i don't have anyone to turn to because i don't want they're pity and hate speaking to people about how i feel.
i just wished i was happy i'm only a young girl but i'm not.
i just want to know what to do? please.
Please think about what your saying. I know your situation is bad at the moment. but you can live for the future. the world isn't over. just because your life is bad now, doesn't mean you will feel like this forever. you have to hold on for the sake of yourself, and for the people who love you. there is someone out there who cares about you more than you understand. I even care and i don't know you. i understand how you feel somewhat. i have thought about killing myself before. but decided that was not the right path. a lot of people think about suicide. don't let yourself be the victim in this situation. you CAN make it through this. live for the future and live for the sake of living. try not to let things like this get to you. you are worth much much more than you think. and as the other person has said. if it gets to the point where its really bad, PLEASE call the suicide hotline or at least a friend. one of my friends recently tried to commit suicide, and it just about broke my heart. i don't know what i would do if he actually had. i'm going to be brutally honest with you. i cry ALL the time. its a bit ridiculous. i understand not wanting to pick yourself up and try AGAIN. but you have to, because things will get better. everyone has something in their life that is extremely painful. some more drastic than others. it could always be worse. 'hold on if you feel like letting go, hold on it gets better than you know, don't stop looking your one step closer, don't stop searching it's not over, hold on'-gc
trust me things could always be worse, and you always have a chance to make it better. maybe its the day you turn eighteen, maybe its the day you get your license, maybe its the day you actually meet someone who understands. just know that you can get through it if you try. and i hope you try hard.
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i feel like everyone in my life is moving on except me and its bringing me down lately, i know i shouldnt but im letting it get to me. i dont see half of the friends i used to even though i try and stay in touch with them. is anyone else going through this and how should i deal with it ??
i went through this situation not to long ago. i felt exactly the same way for awhile. i feel like i could answer your question better if i knew how old you were. for me this time period pertained to the summer before college. i felt useless and lazy and like i never did anything. i still feel like i'm not doing enough, but i feel better because in college, every freshman is scared and feels alone. there are plenty of people just as lost as you are. trust me. just do your best to do what you need to do. life changes. and its not a bad thing. just live it up and have a good time, and do something with your time that you can be proud of. good luck to you.
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I mean, really, why should I have a "good" education anyway?
What will my education get me in the long run?
I was talking to my best friend about dropping out of high school. I know you're legally allowed to drop out when you turn 16 in the United States. I feel that if I drop out of school then I won't be missing too much, but she says that a high school drop-out isn't going to make it in the real world and that high school prepares us for that. High school just seems to be full of drama, cliques, Hollister and Abercrombie whores, popularity contests, sex, and drugs. It's like learning isn't even a concept in high school anymore anyway! What would I be missing out on?
I use to think about going to college but it's so expensive. Is college really worth it anyway? I know people keep saying that it's good to have a decent education, but why in the world is it so good? Nobody has ever explained that to me.
Why is a good education important to have?
Please, someone, explain!
first of all, i do believe education is very important. yes it's true, high school is full of drama and shit, and it sucks. but you will know so little about the world. You need to learn about politics, and i can't imagine why you wouldn't want to learn about something you're interested in.
another reason for being well educated is, you will simply get more respect, from everyone. my boyfriend hasn't graduated from highschool yet, and he's like brilliant, but his family treats him like shit. he's a lot smarter than i am and i'm in college. also if you sound more intelligent, you are more likely to make a good impression on someone. although i can tell you aren't THAT uneducated, becuz U don talkk lik dis. when people do that it just pisses me off, so thanks for not being stupid hahaha. no one likes to be called stupid, and i'm pretty sure if you drop out, more than one person will ask you if you are stupid.
and even though a lot of people have sex and do drugs and are horrible to each other, doesn't mean that has to be a part of your highschool or college experience. there are a ton of people who don't do those things as well. you may be surrounded by people who do those things, but trust me, a lot of people don't. so don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to
plus you need to socialize. you don't want to become a lonely hermit. if you can't keep up with an intelligent conversation, you won't feel intelligent either.
Honestly, if you don't want to end up working at McDonalds for the rest of your life, then i would really suggest finishing school, and possibly attending college. College isn't for everyone, but i think everyone can get something out of college. it is REALLY expensive, but worth it in the long run. plus if you work hard enough you can earn grants and scholarships.
i am so glad that i'm going to college, and you'd find out that its actually a lot of fun. its not like high school. its not structured the same way. it's not how its depicted in movies either. you can take so many different classes. it isn't like you are going to be stuck learning how to be a doctor or run a business, there are so many other things you can go to school for like music, acting, digital design, fashion design, language, political science, psychology, and a lot of other things.
it does seem that a lot of highschool isn't even about learning anymore, but it's up to you to learn something. the teacher isn't going to just insert a disk into your head and you automatically know all you need to know. although that would be a pretty awesome concept.
would you parents REALLY let you drop out at sixteen anyway.
THINK about long and hard before you do anything radical. do you really want to know less than half of the world? or do you want to know more? do you want to be looked down upon? or do you want to make a difference? because you can make a difference. starting with your own life. why just do nothing with your life? why not do something great? do you want to live with your parents forever?
i'd also like to mention that i once felt like, what's the point of college. i'm sick of school and it's not like i have to go. so what, i'll be fine without it, but then i realized how much of an opportunity i had, and i seized it. i don't know what i would have done without it.
without school i'd be a depressed wreck.
think about it. tell me if what i have said has helped at all. i really hope so. i really hope you think about it. good luck with everything :D
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i need songs about being gay
not like disco songs
like real songs,
sad songs preferably
the right to choose by anti-flag is a great song
that's really the only one i could think of but it's not that sad
if your sad about being gay don't be. being gay doesn't mean that your a bad person, nor does it mean you have something wrong with you. nothing like that is black and white. please don't be ashamed if you are. god bless. good luck.
i'm sorry i couldn't help much :(
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Okay, well I give my bf handjobs, and he like fingers me. And then he'll end up cumming or whatever. Do girls cum like shoot out kinda, like guys when they're finished? Are they ever really finished? Because I'm never satisfied completely when my bf does it? I just don't understand.
well its a lot more straightforward with guys. Some girls do cum, but not all of them, and yes some even squirt, but again not all of them. However, just because they don't cum/squirt doesn't mean that they don't finish.
An orgasm is the peak pleasure of sex. Its like an explosion in the inside of your body, but it feels great.
A lot of women don't know enough about their own bodies to even orgasm. you should learn more about your sexuality.
It's also a LOT harder for girls to orgasm than for guys to in most cases.
If you want to experience an orgasm you need to get in touch with your sexuality and learn what turns you on.
The clit is an abbreviation of the word 'Clitoris'. A sensitive little bump at the top of the female genitalia. Very few men realize it exists. It does though, and if stimulated correctly can give you great orgasms
:D hope that i helped
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Does anyone know how to get rid of really dark circles under the eyes? I have natural dark circles under my eyes that are hereditary in my family. It is so frustrating. I have bought lots of makeup but everytime I try to cover up the circles, my the makeup always looks cakey. does anyone know how to get rid of them? i just bought one of those new Garnier anti puff eye rollers, but so far it hasn't helped.
i was watching the tyra banks show one day, and she shows how to get rid of the cakey-ness and the circles. so i found it on youtube for you! yay! :D here's the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpQ8Z_4Ihhs
good luck
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ok so this guy and i were messing around and we ended up having sex. well he didnt have a condom but im on birth control (yaz). but im also on antibiotics which affect the birth control. so one of his friends was coming so we stopped cuz we didnt want anyone to know. so he didnt cum but could i be pregnant because i have been really tired and i've started to feel sick.
i just want to know if its possible to get pregnant if he didnt cum
yes because of pre-cum, take a test! good luck :/
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which is better for homecoming?
http://www.papayaclothing.com/shop/goods_detail_v1.php?goodsIdx=3928
http://www.papayaclothing.com/shop/goods_detail_v1.php?goodsIdx=3963
i really like the first one. its so cute. its a little more dressy too. :D
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I am a senior in high school, and totally scared about next year. right now, it is so confusing and fearful in my life, i dont know what college im going to go to, i dont know what im going to study, or do, and i am going crazy. i need emotional help with that ... lol...
thanks college girls or guys for helping me out.
take a deep breathe. i was in the same situation this time last year. it's not as bad as you think. seriously. you should take college visits and seriously think about where you want to go. do you want to live close or far from home? if you haven't started applying to places yet, pick a few that you think you might want to go to and apply. Don't worry about what you want to do. i still have no idea. PLUS over 60 percent of college students switch their major at least once. its not the end of the world. ENJOY your senior year. Your freshman year will be hard, confusing, but also SO much fun. and just think of all the freedom you'll have. Even if you live at home. I live at home and i still have a lot more freedom than i did. although i wish i didn't live at home, i kindof need to. good luck with your search, :D
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