my friend and i went out last year
we are really good friends but our friends didnt support our relaionship so we broke up cus it was too hard. we still hangout, and whenever he touches me i get a chill, like a good one, and last weekend he was watching a movie at my house with a couple other guys, and he sat wicked close to me and ran his hand up my leg, and just left it close to my 'area' .. his friends were there so i laughed at him and he just smiled, and i put my feet up on his stomach, and he moved them down a little bit, onto his penis area, so i guess he wanted me to play around a little so i kinda rubbed my feat back in fourth around there under a blanket so people didnt see.. then he took me in the next room (my laundrey room) and picked me up, and started like rubbing his hands undermy shirt and kissing me and stuff, and was like' we should do this more often, just fun you know?' and it is,,, i'm not the type of person to do a 'fwb' and i know a ton of you think its 'bad' or it wont workout,, but we're good friends, and it wouldnt be awkward, and i trust him, so what do you think i should do. like we cant have sex, because we both couldnt do that, but what other things ca help get us going and explain how to do them,, he wants this to be like a fun 2 hours for every weekend, and i do too, we promised to stop when either of us got into a relationship
just advicce on things to do
thanks
Do everything except sex.................................
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So, I just gave my best friend a blow job. It only took like a minute for him to cum, is that normal? Does that mean I'm just that good? Or just he was really horny? Or that it was his first blowjob, or a mix of those?
He was probably over excited about the fact of getting that done to him. If you would have done it again he wouldnt have reacted so fast!! Hope I helped
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This is a very long story so I will shorten it as much as possible.
I had a 'best' friend for a long time but she was VERY co-dependent. She was also not a very good friend to me. Always expected me to be there for her but was never there for me, tried to steal my boyfriend, flirted outrageously with him right in front of me, was horrible to my sister and so on. The final straw was when she did something WAY out of line earlier this year (details of which I won't go into) and I told her I wanted nothing more to do with her.
That was in March and, horrible though this may sound, although I missed having a friend I haven't missed her as a person at all. Now, she's e-mailed me saying she wants to be friends again and wants me to e-mail back. I can't just not reply but I don't want to open the lines of communication up because I really don't want to ever see or hear from her again. That being said, she was kind of suicidal for a time and I just don't know what to do.
So please, any suggestions on how to respond firmly but without saying I want to be friends would be appreciated. I know it probably sounds like I'm being a bitch but believe me, there are good reasons.
No offense or anything but she sounds to me like she wasnt really much of a good friend to begin with. I suggest you to reply back to her email and in the most nicest possible way say I cant be friends with you again, because of all the horrible things you have done to me over the years. You have not treaed me with the respect a friend desearves. I wish it could be different bu it cant. That way your technacially not opening up means of communication but your simply telling her how you feel and by telling her in a nice way this she will know she has hurt you and most likely leave you alone. Hope I helped!!
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I'm so angry and confused. There's a school dance on Wednesday and my friend Tori invited me to go with her and her friends (new school, so I don't know much people). Anyway,we hardly see eachother in school anymore because she's always somewhere with her friends. So, I tried calling her but she was busy and she never called back. She always promises she'll call me and she never does. Frankly, I don't think she wants to be my friend anymore and I'm kind of fed up. What should I do? I guess I won't be going to the dance. I feel like cursing her out but I can't even do that because she never picks up the phone! Got any advice? Any is appreciated. Thanks
I know exactly how it feels to have your friend ditch you for someone else and its not a good feeling. In the past 2 months I have lost 2 people who I thought were my friends, but yet they chose someone else over me. Anyways she doesnt sound like such a good friend if she is going to ditch you for some other friends & Its no use to curse her out even if you feel like it, because thats not gonna solve anything. If you can get a hold of her somehow then talk thingss out with her if not well idk what to tel you beyond that point. Hope I helped!!
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Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥
Depends on what u mean by hoking up! Kissing is ok, but past that umm thats not so good
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i am the one that had the question about the fiance and the other girl and me anf my fiance have been together for ten months allready and i will try to follow my heart but it will not make a choice yet and thanks for the advice.
I really think you should stay with your Fiance, but yeah following your heart would be best. I hope your heart makes the right choice
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i am a 17 yr old male. well i have a Fiancé and it is going good between us but there is another girl that i really like and want to go with but i dont wana hurt or leave mine and i dont know what to do. i was told to follow my heart but it says to go with both and i cant do that to either one of them and i dont know what to do.
Wow that is a major GF problem, and I think you came to the right person for the answer. Anyways you say you have a fiance....hmmm if i were you I would stick to her exspecially if you have been together for a long time. On the other hand maybe you havn`t been with her a long time...IDK really what the case is here. All I can tell you to do is listen to your hearts gut feeling. I do know one thing if you break up with your fiance to go out with this other girl, and something bad happens your fiance will not take u back.
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ok, me and my boyfriend have only been going out for a few weeks now and he knows alot about me already. but i get mood swings alot sometimes(pms) and i'm afraid that i'm pushing him away. i really like him and i think that i'm falling in love with him but i think that i'm also pushing him away whenever i say that i'm fat or stupid or ugly, which he swears up and down isn't true. but i still can't help but feel that it's true. how can i feel better about myself and see if i'm pushing my boyfriend away from me?
Dont be so hard on yourself. I know your probably horrified of the things ur BF thinks about you, but he wouldn`t have gone out with you if he didn`t like you. You should point out the positive things about yourself, instead of the negatives. Maybe if you start doing that you wont feel as if your pushing him away from you.
Good lUck!!!
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hey, my boyfriend has been going to the doctors bc they think he has depression. he will fall into these moods where he will get really quiet and not know why he's feeling like this and he just feels really shitty about everything, i asked if it was ever about me, and he told me that i was the only thing that made him happy. i just wanna know how to deal with it bc whenever he gets like that i just get a pit in my stomach and i feel so terrible. i need advice on how to deal with it or what to say to him to get him out of that mood? thanks!
Your boyfriend is lucky to have someone he can share his troubles with, but if his depression is indeed "serious," he may need professional help too. However, he may not be able to get to that point alone. If he's not open to the therapist idea or seems too overwhelmed by his negative feelings to find one for himself, perhaps you can do some research. Also, you might want to encourage him to tell his parents about what's going on, if he hasn't already. Meanwhile, I suggest you make sure you're taking care of yourself. Worrying about and helping someone who's depressed can really wear a person down. The hardest thing for people like you two can be realizing that love alone may not be enough to help either of you with the stress of serious depression. I hope everything works out for you.
Good Luck
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ok i reeeally like boys lol. the thing is, all da guyz in my class like these 4 girls (2 r my friends, but all of em r pretty bitchy). i feel like i dont have a chance against them!!! around guyz im like superconfident and funny and sorta loud (*blushes* lol), but i dno if they like that kinda thing (ive only had 1 bf). im pretty and i have a lot of friends, but i dno wat im doin wrong/how 2 get guyz 2 like me (instead of the girlz they normally like)! plz help!
-B.O.Y.L.E.S.S
p.s. im 13 and goin into 8th grade
From my experience with guys I would have to tell you that you need to forget about having a BF and kinda ingore the fact that u dont have one at the moment. If you do, then u will end up getting a BF sooner then you think.
Good luck!
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i like this guy we go to church together.
My siter told me that he liked me and i did tell him how i fell but he did'nt like me back that thing is that i can get over him, i want to but i can and i need to find a way to get over him and i want to know how came i love him so much .
i met him 3 years ago and we became really good friends.
femele 15
Well it seems to me that you have known him for a long time. He probably has been there for you on certain occasions too. He probably makes you smile and laugh too. You think he is like no other guy out there, you have met. As time went by and you got to know him better, you started having feelings for me. Just try and get over it, cause if you dont him and you may end of breaking the friendship off.
Good Luck!
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Okay me and this guy have been going out since June 3rd. I've known him for the past 5 years but we just got into contact mid May. I like him alot and I get the feeling that he likes me. He and his friend left for Arizona last Thursday, but I've been hurt alot in the past relationships and everytime I feel like I'm really falling for a guy, I get nervous. And thats how I feel right now. Before he left I made a comment, "so are you and Dustin going to go and pick up some chicks?" and I laughted he goes, "Dustin might, but I'm taken" That sorta made me feel better but he said that he'd be gone 2 weeks at the most and that he'd call. He hasn't called and I don't know if hes okay or if hes cheating or what. I don't know if I'm just over reacting, but I need someones advice! Help! I'm 15 years old and I'm a women.
I know how you feel I have had so many bad relationships too. Right now my BF is 14 hours away from me and he promised he would call me. He hasn`t yet, and I do trust him. I think you should trust him, maybe he is just having alot of fun at the moment.
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i had a dream a couple weeks ago about kissing my best guy friend. i told him about it, and he said he had a dream almost exactly like that, with the same thing. we're both like EW and gross. but i told my best girl friend about it, and she said you only dream about guys if you like them. is that true? every1 says my friend likes me, and they tease me about liking him back. i've always said no the heck i don't, but now i'm not so sure. can you help?!?!
(i'm 13 and so are my friends)
I had a dream similar to that about my guy friend and I told him and he was like I did too. I had it twice in a row, and you know what they say about that? They say that if you have a dream twice in a row it means you might just end up going out with him. Thats what happened to me, and we ended up going out for awhile.
Good Luck!
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I'm 13 & i'm a girl. You see, my b/f is my neighbor. Ever since he moved here, he said that he liked me. We started going out last month. I really like him. We really want to kiss, but he's nvr been kissed & I haven't REALLY kissesd b4. I really want to, but i'm just nervous. Can u plz help me. How do I make the 1st move? thanx :)
This may not be the best advice, or the advice you were looking for, but I think you should wait. You just started into this relationship and its not best to make the first move yet. He might think your easy. Hope I helped
Good Luck!
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My boyfriend oftens has dreams about marrying me and/or asking me 2 marry him. We often talk about marriage and he tells me how much he loves me but I don't want him to jump in2 anything 2 soon.BTW he's 20 i'm almost 18. We've been 2gether for almost 7 months. I had a preganacy scare recently and he told me that if I were than we would be ok but he said that he thought about it and said that he would be really happy and I love him very much and expressed that i'm not ready for a baby. What do u think this all means?
It doesn’t really mean anything, because a lot of men feel the same way. Guys always rush into relationships, and if they have been with you a long time they decided that they want to marry you. Just tell him you’re not ready to get married yet, he should understand, and if he really does love you like he says he will wait till your ready.
Good Luck!
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hi me and my dad havent talked since febary this year, i miss him but i dont want to make the first move, and now my boy friend who ive been with for just about 10 months wants to meet him but i not sure if i can go through with that please help im super con fused i mean eric (b/f) n i are real serious?
I know this might not be the answer your looking for, but I think you should make the first move. If you really want your dad to meet your BF. Otherwise, I dont know what to say.
Good Luck!
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hi my name is reanna, im 14. last year i lost my brother to sucide. and june 12 yesterday i lost my dad cause of a 4 wheeler accident. i don't know what to do. if you have ne advice for me then please give it to me. i really need it right now. thank you so much
I am so sorry for your loss, I wish there was something I could do. I know how you feel, it causes so much pain inside. I lost a parent too. I lost my momma. Be thankful that you still have her. Just keep praying to God to give you the strength to get through everything. I hope everything gets better for you.
Good luck with everything.
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i am f/15
ok me and my boyfriend went out for almost exactly 2 monthes i no it doesnt seem like long but in those two monthes we did everything together ( went on 2 trips together ext...) he was my first love and i was going to give up my viginaty to him but then like 2 weeks ago he went away on a trip with his dad for 5 days and the weekend while he was gone my best friend was gone too. so i was hanging out with some other ppl i guess i could call my friends and my one friend thought i was trying to hook up with her boyfriend or something and she through a fit ( she was intoxicated) so me and my other friend left becuz i didnt want to deal with her and then 2 days later when my bf came back he found out about this and he got made at me becuz i was drinking with other guys and stuff ( my bf doesnt like it when i drink and i am not with him becuz he thinks i will do something stupied like cheat on him or get myself hurt) and he found out that ppl were saying i was trying to hook up with my friends bf and then my bf broke up with me. he said he reason was becuz i flirt with other guys and stuff. i told him that i didnt mean to and that i was with him and no one else ment ne thing to me, and then he told me he just didnt love me ne more. i cried all night and then the next day at school everyone seemed to treat me different ( even though my ex doesnt go to my school) my best friend kept ignoring me and she started hanging out with the girl that had a fit on me becuz she thought i was trying to get with her bf. and my other friend started phoning my ex daily( they were really good friends before she introduced him to me and we started going out). when my bf broke up with me i lost all my self confidence. i just want everything to go back to the way it was! i want him back so bad, he made me feel good about my self and i miss him so much! how can i get him back!??
This may not be the best answer, but he doesn`t seem like he is worth all the trouble to get him back. The main thing for now is how to get back your friends. Then try and find a way to get back with your ex.
Good Luck
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(By the way, im 14 and a female)I have a really close friend, Eric (who's 14, a male), and a while ago, to get some guy jealous and to stop him from flirting with me constantly, Eric and I pretended to go out. We stopped that charade a few weeks after hanging out with him, but ever since then we've hugged eachother a lot in a joking matter, and we've joked about kissing and going out. (This has been going on for about 3 months)I find that I'm somewhat jealous when he hangs out with our other friends (girls). We've been really close friends for two years so I don't know if telling him that I'm starting to develop a crush on him would ruin our friendship. Do you think I should tell him how I'm starting to feel? Thanks. And sorry the letter's so long.
I know how you feel, I felt that way about one of my best guy friends, and I told him. It ruined our friendship like major, he started treating me mean and left me hanging. Now I look back and wish I wouldn`t have told him that. I am not sure that is such a good idea yet.
Good luck!
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Ok this might sound dumb but what is the water way of masterbating? i hear people talking about it and i have no idea about what it is. A respose is greatly appreciated.
The water method is using water to reach orgasm. You can do this by filling up a tub with cold, or warm water while running water, and putting your crotch under the faucet. Or by gently pushing the water against urself down there, or by taking a removable shower head, or water massager, and using it on urself down there, or by using those water jets in a jacuzzi.
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