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when a guy is kinda always asking you who you like and then you ask him back and he says " i like three people" and only names two of them, and won't tell me the third. does that mean he likes you or does he just want to know who you like. (link)
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he totally likes you! if he told you two of them why wouldn't he tell u all three??...unless it was you! haha good luck with that!!
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I been going out with this girl for a month now and one of my best friends told me that in his 6th pd class some people said that who would go out with me and then my other best friend said that my girlfriend said that people are telling her to break up with me but she isnt HELP ME!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Chances are that if people are telling her to break up with you and shes not, she probably really loves you. She obviously doesn't care what other people think or say, all that matters is the way she feels about you. ask her about it, but if you love her, trust that everything will be okay. Don't let stupid gossip ruin the best thing in you're life. Good luck! hope i helped!!
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So I asked this guy out and we had our first date on sunday. It was seeing a movie- and I thought it went really well for a first date. I couldn't reach his lips at the end because he's so much taller so i kissed his neck. He was smiling the whole time I was leaning in though- and he had his arm around my waist.
I admit I'm pretty new to the world of dating (first bf at 13 1/2 and now im 14)... And I love this guy a lot (i actually LOVE him- not just LIKE him.) and I'm going to die if he doesn't call me.
I'm seeing him tonight at my acting class- is there anything I should say to him that would make him more likely to call and ask me out for this weekend?
ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP
thank you. (link)
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Ask him how he liked the date, then go from there...if he says he liked it then just be like "yaa..." ....it might be a little awkward at first but the awkward silence will make him want to ask you out or say something like "well we should hang out again sometime" and if he doesn't say anything or just says "ya you're a great friend, ill talk to you later" chances are he just wants to be friends. but friends is good, a friendship could eventually lead into something more if you give it time. hope i helped!! good luck!
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A few weeks ago I was whining in class about how i was cold, and this kid said "want to wear mine?" I was like "really" and he was like "sure just give it back before the end of the period" ; I couldn't stop smiling; and by the end of the class, I developed a crush on him. I thought it was the sweetest thing ever.
I guess he was just trying to be nice, because he likes one of my friends. But my friends doesn't like him. He flirts with my SOMETIMES, but flirts with my friend most of the time.
again, but friend does not like him at all. I haven't liked him for that long, so I'm not so deeply in love with him that I can't live without him, yet. Should I try and catch myself before I fall inlove and get hurt? What should I do? (link)
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If I were you, I'd just play it cool for a while. Flirt with him, and flirt back when he flirts with you. if you're friend doesn't like him, he'll eventually get the hint and move on. Be there for him when he needs someone, and become good friends and just be really sweet and nice back to him. When you two are really good friends then tell him you like him. good luck!
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I went to camp in a different state and met a guy I really liked. He really liked me too but we didn't want to start dating because we live far away from each other(opposite ends of our state.)He gave me his number but wegot ina fight so I threw it out. Is there anyway I can find him online so I cant talk to him again. I have his first and last name.Thanks in advance. (link)
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you can try searching for him on myspace....or if you don't have myspace google his name.... i did that for some cousins i hadn't seen in a while...other then that i don't know..you could try 411. dial 411 on your phone and ask the operator for the city and state he lives in and give the operator his last name and see what comes up. hope you find him!!
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COMPLICATED!
ok so i like this guy -we'll call him j- and well my friend --a-- likes him a lot! and i sorta like him too but he doesnt kno and its kinda gettin' sad. i say j is like my "sister" -even though he's a guy- my friend doesnt kno. i want him to go to the valintime dance with me but A LOT of girls like him, like the popular girls and even sum guys...-dont ask- i wanna show tat i like him but not in a obvious way. he is just so-so sweet and he is so nice to me on AIM. here's our normal convo:
me: hey
j: hi
j: so wut up
me: ehh nm & you
j: nuttin'
me: so how's johnny --he named his bed spread bcuz mine is named pinky--
j: he's good but he had to go into the wash
me: you're sooo evil!
me & j: hahahaha;lol;lmao
j: g2g do man-ly things
me: yaaaa ok
me: BURN
j: hey, you do more man-ly things then me
me: ya
j: tat means you're a boy
me: nooooooo
j: oOo....BURN
me goes away
i'm too scared to talk to him bcuz i'm scared he may ask *we're jus friends, rite* and i really dont lie...seriously!
any help is appreciated
♥ Flaggal --once again-- (link)
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id say in a normal friend to friend conversation just say so who do you like?? and then go from there....o0o that is really complicated....but try asking that and then get back to me! good luck
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Hey. I know you just gave me advice but what do I do when im like really shy. and I can't just be like hey babe can i have your number I just cant say tht..lol im like not like that what should I do and im like really afriad to hear his voice im afriad im gonna like frezze up..lol help me plz..lol (link)
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haha my best friend is just like you! umm... you might try writing it down on paper and practicing it and stuff so you don't freeze up and like practice it in a mirror or something haha as for getting his number you don't have to be like hey babe can i have ur number but you can say do you have a cell phone....and then just go from there if he goes ya why? then say i do too i was just wondering...and if hes not smart enough to ask you, just say do u think we could talk on the phone sometime??...just have to get up the courage to ask...just convince yourself that this is something that needs to be done....i mean whats the worst he can do??
-hope i helped-
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Okay well this going to sound werid but I have this internet boyfriend he use to live by me but he moved and like now im datting him and i really want his number but im afraid to ask him and like I don't know how to like ask him like being all nice and not tring to be like I want it so bad ya kno? and what should I say. And I'm also kinda like afriad to hear his voice so what do i do to like make this fear go away. can someone plz help me. (link)
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haha... well if your dating him!! just ask him, just casually be like heyy...we should talk on the phone sometime, whats ur number? and then just go from there! just tell urself that hes worth talking to (if he is)...and get up the courage and do it!! as for hearing his voice, that will probably make you like him more, you'll be of a more intimate level then you were before. haha good luck!
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Ok, there's a guy I like and the story's kinda complicated. Ok *deep breath* he was my VERY best friend in 2nd and 3rd grade and after that we were still friends but we drifted apart but in 4th grade my friend told me that he liked me and I realized that I liked him and then in 6th grade another friend told him that I liked him and after that he wouldn't even say hi to me in the hallway (if we saw each other) anymore. I'm in 8th grade and I gotta do something before we get to highschool and probably never see each other again! The only problem is that we never see each other and are on completely different sides of the school! HELP!!! :( :'( Please write back. I NEED to know what to Do!
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well you could try writing him a note and find out where he sits first period and ask a friend to give it to him and in the note tell him to meet you somewhere...during a passing period or lunch or whatnot and just let him know how you feel!! if you don't say anything then you'll regret it later. or if that doesnt work try calling him or showing up at one of his sports games, band concerts ect....if you really WANT to do this you'll find a way, you just have to be willing to work for it!...good luck
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well a few days after my perios me and my boyfriend almost had sex. he didnt go all the way in, only the tip, but he said that he might have bust and i could feel the cum over my legs after. im starting to feel realli paranoid cuz i relli dont wanna be pregnant at this age (17)and my lower area looks like its swelling and my stomach always feel full up, does this mean im pregnant or is this jus happening because im realli realli scared (link)
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well....the only thing i can think of would be to get a pregnacy test..if u started feeling symptoms like 2 days after or even a day after you're probably just paranoid. Next time you might be able to enjoy it more if he wears a condom even if you don't have sex but are just fooling around, to avoid the constant worry. and im sure hed be open to the idea especially if you explain to him that you just would rather be safe than sorry. he'd respect the fact that you want to be safe, because having a baby would not only affect you, but him also. good luck....please please please keep in touch with me...i have a very close friend going through a simular situation.
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14/f okay well last year i wasn't what you called attractive....i was fat and had kinda bad achne. Well this year i've lost a lot of wait alomst 22 pounds and my achne has cleared up and my boobs are a lot bigger.....well this year i've heard that a couple people like me and stuff and a couple guys kinda talk about me in 4th pd....well atleast i thinks it's me and there are other 2 guys have asked me out....but i said no because i didn't know if it was a joke or not and not this guy named...well i won'tsay his name was talkin about my butt and my boobs but i don't know if they are just joking or not how do i tell if all the guy that flirt/ask me out are really tellin me the truth becasue hinestly i still don't think i'm pretty/ (link)
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okay well 13/14 was a really awkward stage for me.... i thought i was ugly too....but looking back on those old pics i actually realized that i was alot more attractive than i thought....
the guys that are talking about you and asking you out...chances are that they are serious....but also, guys are really immature at that age and can do some really mean things. But if you can't tell if they're serious or not, ask them.... and then if they are serious ask them why they like you now instead of last year, but don't come off snobby when you ask...if they say "cause you're hott now" then you're answer is up to you. But remember a relationship shouldn't be ALL about looks, granted that there are some really good benifits if there is a physical attraction. And don't go out with someone just to have a boyfriend...Aim high. Get the guy of your dreams! you sound like a sweet girl and any guy would be lucky to have you.... i prolly gave u more advice then u were looking for but sry i can just relate to you really well! :-) so yea.... good luck with everything!
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okay well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months. i'm not going to lie it hasn't been exactly the easiest relationship in the world but i think that happens to about everyone. we get into arguments about stupid little stuff that doesn't really even matter and it sucks because we both hate it, but it just doesn't stop. it's gotten worse lately, we both don't want to break up but feel we may need to if this keeps occuring. i just don't want to break up if it's over this stupid stuff. can anyone help please!? (link)
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Me and my boyfriend went through the same thing. If you both really love eachother, dont break up. 7 months is along time to just give up. Next time you guys go out bring some friends along, that way you guys will get some time to spend more like friends rather than boyfriend/girlfriend, then after you have a strong friendship start going back on one on one dates This will help you two appreciate eachother more.. I hope i helped. Good luck!
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