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im 12 and i have not yet started my period... im an elite level gymnast. ive been told that gymnastics stunts puberty, im starting to get really worried and idk what to do, i have been doing gymnastics for 8 years. im just really worried and i need your advice. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!☆★☆ (link)
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Hey honey, there's nothing to worry about at all.
12 years old is a little young to even get your period, some girls don't get it until 13-16. I got mine very young (10 years old) and that was very weird, because I got mine super young. However, the most common age range to be getting a period is 12-13
So don't worry, it's coming.
You're very lucky you haven't gotten it, they're a huge pain in the butt!
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what does rub clit mean?? (link)
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Hahaha, oh sweetie. So the clitoris (or clit) is at the very top part of the vagina, this is where many many nerves are, and for women, this is very satisfactory, and for some women this is the only way they can achieve an orgasm.
http://drugline.org/img/term/cancer-of-the-clitoris-2419_0.jpg
In this picture you can see where it shows the clit.
Rubbing someones clit is just a way of sexually pleasing them.
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I like this guy and i liked him for a year and i am trying to forget about him but it is impossible. The most hurtful thing is that he doesn't even notice me and i always get mad and i know that i want to forget about him. I madly in love and i am only 14 so what should i do? (link)
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Oh sweetie, this must be very hard. I'm 14 myself, (15 in 2 months) and I understand that it is very hard to get over someone that doesn't even notice you.
What I've found, to get over ANY situation, is surround yourself with people (new or old friends) try to distract yourself as much as possible. Get into a new sport, take a jog every day (which definitely helps, because it gets your endorphin's going, which makes you happy! Seriously, after I'm done working out, I feel awesome, and really good about myself!)Another thing is to get a job, I know it's hard to because we're so young, but some places that the owner is actually in, they will sometimes hire at 14/15. Mostly like yogurt shops, and whatnot.
What I'm trying to say is just do new things. Obviously this person was very important to you, but you have to realize that things like this happen all the time. There will ALWAYS be more boys, you've got a long life ahead of you!
I understand that you think you are 'madly in love' with him, but take your age into consideration sweetheart, love is a very big thing, and unless you're emotionally stable, mature, and secure, love isn't something you want to be getting into.
Not saying because of your age you shouldn't be having realtionships, because I think relationships are good to build structure for future relationships, help development and growth as well.
I know it's hard, but we have to realize the reality of it, we are so young, and there are so many opportunities coming in the next 20-30 years.
When you look back on this situation when you're in your 20's, 30's 40's (if you even remember it at all) you're going to think how silly it was to be so upset over this guy you probably won't even know in the next 10 years!
Just hold on, and be strong. I know it's very difficult right now, but you are going to be fine.
And you'll definitely find someone worth your time.
Hope all goes well sweetheart. xx
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I have been smoking sense I was 13. I am 21 now and I am now quitting. The smoking I believe has had some affect on the skin of my face. What are some ways I could tighten my skin and give the appearance of a slight lift. Products you have used that you know you work and etc. Please help me! Thank you. (link)
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Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize Moisturize!!!!!!!
I suggest using sunscreen as your moisturizer (preferably BABY sunscreen) This will help soooo much. Also, exfoliation will help a great deal! just make sure to apply pleeeeenty of moisturizer 2-5 times daily. Every chance you get. You could also consider getting a prescription for Retina (Retinol) cream. I have a prescription for it (even though I'm a teen, but it helps with blemishes as well)
I want to be a dermatologist when I'm older, and know lots about skin. Just stick to a good skin regime with plenty of hydration and you'll be fine.
But I do suggest the brand Mario Badescu skincare products, they have all NATURAL skin products, and they have AMAZING products for aging. I will leave a link here!
http://www.mariobadescu.com/
Hope all goes well! xx
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I was fingered 4 d 1st time but didnt bleed 2 much,n d 2nd tym there was no blood at all,n d third time i've been bleeding,thats 4 d past 3 days,wen is it going 2 stop,n am i ok? (link)
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Oh goodness, you're fine! They probably just broke your hymen sweetie! Nothing to worry about at all.
Hope all goes well. xx
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Okay so im a 13yr Female and i have this guy friend that is almost my boyfriend. But he doesnt want a relationship this year wich im cool with. But he had called me up one day and he said "Hey you gotta stop sending me pics (we sext alot) and his mom goes or, and he says or we will have to go to your parents about this and he said that he loves me and all and that he had too go what should i do too get on their good side i mean his dad was realy mad an was about to cuss me out ut he held back what should I do I really love him and he loves me. (link)
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Okay, I understand that you're 13, and you have interest in boys, which I have nothing against dating young, I actually think that it is a very important part of growth and development to experience being in nonsexual relationships. However, I do think it is unhealthy to be in a sexual relationship at your age. I'm sorry to say, but if you and this guy happened to be together longer, say in the future when you're 15 or 16, then the relationship should become serious. You're only 13 for now, which I know, age should not define us..being a teen myself, but our age does say something about us. We shouldn't be focusing on sex right now. However, I do believe if you are in a STABLE relationship (meaning you've been with this person over a year) then I also think it is fine to start becoming sexual with that person. Not to mention making sure you use birth control, condoms, or some sort of contraceptive. It's just common sense.
Take what I say, or not. It's your life, but I think that the relationship between you and him should stay nonsexual. I know I didn't answer your real question, but this concerned me a LOT.
But if you want to impress his parents, just be yourself, honestly. Bring his mom flowers, his dad cologne, or a watch. Be nice, use manners, say please and thankyou. Talk about them, not you.
Hope this helps sweetie. xx
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I started my period today after a few days of cramping and back pain. The only thing is my blood is coming out thin and brown. My blood has yet to be red like it usually is. Today was the first day of my period and I wasn't sure if I should be worried that the blood is brown. Is this normal? (link)
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You honestly shouldn't have anything to worry about, it's not normal, but it is somewhat common. The blood just could be backed up by something, and is taking a while to actually come out, so it's old, and that's the reason for the coloring. I really don't think you have anything to worry about. If it persists after 2 more periods, I would go to a doctor, otherwise, don't worry.
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can mixing of sperm with water while washing enter to vagina nd cause pregnancy when its my 3rd day of perid nd m wearing pad?? (link)
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Well, whenever sperm cells are anywhere near the vagina, the chance is always there. You said it was mixed with water, so that could have given the sperm an easier way to access into your vagina easier. The chance not that big that you could become pregnant, but remember, the chance is ALWAYS there. Just be careful next time. Unless you want to be pregnant, don't let sperm get that close.
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mkay im a13yr old girl.i want a horse thats older and good with kids! but dad said no because we dont have the money! i dont know what to do i reaally want a horse (link)
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Horses are one of the animals that are the hardest to take care of, your dad might be more apt to let you get a smaller pet, like a dog, or fish. However if you're dead set on a horse, then maybe save up money, or do chores around the house to add up to getting a horse.
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i had sex with my boyfriend and i have been on the pill for 6 months and we used a condom and it fer sure , definitely did not break. could i get pregnant? (link)
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Yes, you could still definitely get pregnant, the chance is ALWAYS still there, except after menopause. The person that answered before me is actually very wrong. It is not "so close to zero" condoms actually only have 88% effectiveness. However, birth control IF TAKEN CORRECTLY (without missing pills, and taking the same time every single day) is about 99%, but if you miss a pill, or take them different times each day, it goes down to about 85%-90%.
That's why me and my boyfriend use both condoms and I take birth control, as well as a Optivite (a vitamin supplement) that can also help with the birth control.
So yes, you should still be very careful, I suggest getting the plan b pill from the pharmacy (or better known as the morning after pill) just in case you ever have an accident, with the condom breaking, or you feel like the sperm could have leaked out of the condom. A plan b pill is ALWAYS good to have around.
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My boyfriend and I are soo close and have gotten along together like brother and sister but I just found out today from him that he was moving and I got afraid that I would never see him again. What can I do to spend more time with him? What can I do when he's about to leave? How should I kiss him? (link)
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That shouldn't be a problem, you can always hang out outside of school!
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what can i do in order for my mom not to take me to a doctor nd find out if i am a virgin or not? (link)
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Exactly what the other girl said, it's completely fine. You have nothing to worry about.
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I think i just made a big mistake im a boy who just fell victim to hormones yes i used a condom but im 12 is this bad? (link)
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Well, sex is a very big thing, at any age. I know some people would think I'm crazy for saying this, but if you have feelings for someone, and you love them, and you know that you're going to have a long relationship with them (a year or more) then I think it's not a big deal, and you should go for it, as long as you love them and care about them. Unfortunately, this isn't the case for you, it is in fact too late now, but all you can do about it now is make sure you don't have sex with anyone, unless you know you have feelings for them.
Hope all goes well. xx
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So my mom's daughter (We aren't related. My dad and our mom never married) has slept with my dad's nephew. He's 2 years older than her (16) and they're not related because we don't have the same dad and our mom and my dad has never been married (And never will.. They're together, but you know..). So does this mean my sister ISN'T a virgin because they slept together? They were never together, well from what I knew. (link)
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Honestly darling, I don't think you should be worrying whether or not your sister is a virgin or not. I can understand that you are concerned, but you should talk to her, if you want to know.
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