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My 15-year-old sister is horrible. I'm only two years younger than she is but she treats me like I'm some kind of slave to her or something. And it's all the time. I'm usually a really passive person about things like this, but I'm just downright sick of being forced to live with this kind of treatment from her.
I had my two friends, Rachel and Beth, over a couple nights ago and we went straight downstairs, keeping to ourselves, minding our own the whole time. Then my sister barrels down the stairs and yells at me in front of my friends because I didn't let the dogs in after they'd been let out. My sister called my dad and told him, "Dad, she hasn't been helping me all day and I've done all the work and her friends are so rude to me." Even though, for one, I'd done her AND my chores because she had threatened a phone call to dad.
And I believe that the only remark my friends had was "You could have just opened the door because you were already upstairs." and that's not rude at all. So then my dad came home and yelled at me in front of my friends, and guess what? They had to go home and I was grounded for a week. All because of my sister's lying.
And then I found out that my sister did some stuff with this college guy who never liked her anyway. So I promised her I wouldn't tell anyone and I never did. But she continues to treat me like she does.
She lies to my parents about so much stuff. I get in trouble for things I don't deserve to be in trouble for. And I can't tell them that she's lying because she denies it and they believe her because shes the 'mature' one and the older one.
Help? (link)
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this calles for something really like serius well for one just calm down and everything will go smoothly and just remind her constently that you know and could tell anybody what shes been up to with that guy. And give her the look when she is telling on you and that will hopefully knock her back to her senses. And if this works wich will probably shell stop.
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Okay, so im 15/f. Ive known a girl named...lets call her Jane. So Jane has been like, one of my best friends since third grade. But then we were in a fight, for like a half a year and then I said sorry but I didn't really do anything in the first place, she was the one who got into the fight. Well I said sorry and she said, "Well ,it's taken you a long time to say sorry." and I thought, BUT I SHOULDNT EVEN BE SAYING SORRY! JANE SHOULD BE THE ONE APOLOGIZING!! So then later that day she calls me and says, "Well, I forgive you. and I said okay,... and she didn't even say sorry for what she had done!!So now I am still kinda angry at her for that, and now when we pass each other in the hallway, we kinda give each other a strange look, like we dont know if this friendship thing is going to work out. I mean, I don't think she has any other good, best friends, but she desprately wants to be popular. she isn't even trying to be friends with me, just people who are "popular" I dont know if I should just let her go or what? I have plenty of other good friends, friends I made when we were in the fight. WHat should I do??? Some days I just get fed up with all this drama and think it would be best if I let her to find other friends. But then I think, she has been my friend since third grade!! What should I do???? Any sort of advice welcome!! (link)
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Well it really depends on how much you have been through with each other. Like throug the bad times. I mean it depends how much you like her and care but dont push it
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Okay. I'm 17 & he's 39.
So i recently moved in with my dad & one of his friends & my dad's friend & i started talking & then we started texting. Now our relationship has gone further. We been kissing & having sex for over two months now! I don't feel bad about our age gap because i dont think that there's age for love. The thing is that his son knows & his ex wife thinks we are dating & she keeps threating to tell the police. I really do like him & he doesn't act anything like a 39 year old. I'm just not sure if our relationship is worth hiding until i'm 18 [in 84 days!] Sometimes its getting harder to hide it but i do want to be with him. I dont want to dissapoint my father but i think that he has an idea, sorta, about our 'friendship' [we stay up & play chess when my dad is home]. I just dont want to hurt people & i dont want people to think less of me because i'm with someone with a son. =/ & his son loves me & wants me with his dad. His son is going through a hard divorce [not literally since they were never married] & i help him out with his troubles. What should i do? (link)
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Well you are sorta right age dosent determine love you could be one and he could be 100 but still love each other. And if his exwife really liked him and is threateing you why did she break up with him. If she does call the police whats she gona say oh somones hanging out with my ex and the police will be like oh were are they lets hunt them down for liking eachothee. LOL ok sorry i got a little carried away. But if you really LOVE each other you even die for eachother. Im just triyin to say calm down whats the worst that could happen. I mean you love each other then flirt.
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my crush says that he is getting me something for christmas.bbut i dont know if that is true or not. should i get him something?
please give suggestions!! thanks (link)
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Well if hes givin signs that he really actually does like you then he probably will. It depends if he sounded serius or not to. If he is and you whant to keep your relasionship on the bright side i sujest you get him something.
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What would you do if your boyfriend of a year and 2 months stole money from your house.. but denies it and you know they did it.?
do you break up with him?
or not? (link)
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If it were me or up to me i dont really whant to break anyone up but yes you should but only if you know for sure like if you saw it. Qoting from Mulan2 "without trust there can be no relationship". So basicly you should hope this helps:)
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15 f
How do you make a boy jealous? The reason why I want to know how is because the boy I like lied to me by saying he had a girlfriend when he really doesn't just to avoid going out with me and now I want to show him that I don't need him and that he missed out on someone special who really did and still does like him. Any boys out there who wouldn't mind sharing what makes you jealous of a girl?? Girls how do you make a boy jealous? (link)
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You talk about all the boyfriends you had and have and how they are so much more hansome and stronger and how you would be with them instead of him any day. It help if you say you and your boyfriend are going to the movies or something.
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okay so me and my friends used to hang out with these guys from another school. like i had a boyfriend and we would hang out with him and some of his friends. hes not really friends with them anymore and im not going out with him anymore. i was friends with the other guys before i started going out with him anyways. but anyways...we used to hang out with those guys all the time last year. now we dont really talk to or hang out with them anymore. except for one of them that i hooked up with. but i feel like all the other guys dont like me anymore and im not sure why. any help? it seems like as soon as i broke up with my boyfriend they didnt wanna hang out with us anymore. (link)
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Well your exboyfriend's froends probably liked him and well when you dumped him they felt like oh we cant have contact with her any more. OR if he was like a leader sort of thing then you dumped him he would whant to get revenge and he would tell his friends not to sosialize with you and your friends anymore.
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I really am convinced that my parents hate me.
My dad has said he'd rather pay for boarding school than have to see me everyday, and tonight he said that he doesn't have time for me anymore.
My mother doesn't listen to a word that comes out of my mouth. I've noticed that I talk louder around her than I do around anyone else.
I am such a good kid. I get good grades, my room is close to clean, the whole shebang.
Why don't my parents love me? (link)
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My parents are like that too. My grades are straight A's my room is always clean and I am really actualy a pretty nice girl. Well your parents could be like this if they lost someone they really like. My mom for example got really upset after her sister died. Tonight she got really mad and threatened to cancel my birthday thats in two days. I hope this helped.
P.S. dont hold back your tears its bad for your health.
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20/f. I'm open to advice from anyone at this point, I'm kinda stuck.
A little background on me: I've always used writing as an outlet, whether it's to dream up my future husband, or play out a scene before it happens to see how it'll turn out (my writing's also had a habit of predicting events, if I use people I know as characters.) My other two major creative outlets are singing and drawing, all of which I'm equally good at...but all of which I'm equally stumped on.
I was reading some of my old writing, and I found it to be...overwhelming. One of my stories was written entirely out of my control (my characters took over), and it's just SO good. I can't figure out how to just let go like I did to write that story. Where my prose used to flow smoothly, it's now choppy and flat, and I can't stand it. I hate my own writing, and that bothers me to no end.
I intended to use this break from classes to get back in touch with my ability and remind myself why I love it so much, and I feel like I don't even know where to start.
Can anyone relate?
Does anyone have any useful advice?
Thanks...
-Siren =( (link)
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It really depends on your feelings to your topic. Like for exampel i have a diary and the best thing i express is my feeling tword my crush. I love him so much I could write a 10 page essay on how much i love him. Im telling you it depends on your fellings tword your topic
Note: It helps if you write in comlete scilence like at night when your whole family is asleep.
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i have a boyfriend, and he is amazing and perfect. But I can't help but to be tempted by other guys. I just really need passion in my relationship and my boyfriend is so awkward about it. How can i resist temptation, because I don't want to mess up my relationship or hurt my boyfriend =/
and i can't really tell my boyfriend to pump it up in the bedroom - he can't help being a little nervous about that kind of stuff. (link)
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Well you could just try and look at only his good qualities and not his bad ones. It helps alot. Trust me. I was tempted at first to but then i did this and it actualy worked. Its amazing.
NOTE: If you really do love each other and are ment for each other this much temtation wouldnt really happen.
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