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my bf and i hav been goin out for 2 months or so.then we started to not see each other. also w/ xmas break. but we hardly talk to each other. every1 says hes cheating on me. i dunno wat 2 do. anyway, other ppl says he still likes me. wat should i do?:/... (link)
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You definitely need to talk to this guy. There will be no real answer until you ask him yourself, and even then you should be cautious. Cheaters don't like to admit they are cheating, but I'm not saying this guy is cheating! There could just be a lot of gossipers at your school.
Wow, I just ripped off everything that was said by everyone else that answered this topic.
Redlion
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me and my ex bf have broken up 11 months ago and i have been with my current bf 10 months. i went out with my ex for 2 years and a month... i love my curent boyfriend alot..... but i cant help but think abt my ex from time to time.... he broke up with me saying he didnt love me but the next day he called me to tell me he just wanted to see other people and he wanted me to wait for him.... and that he still loved me.... should i have waited is that why i still think abt him till this day..... is that normal after all this time i still think abt him....can it be that i do love my boyfriend i have right now but im still wondering abt the ex? this is tearing me up please help (link)
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Well, first of all, it sounds like he broke up with you to ask another girl out, which tells me he isn't really into you at all. Then the other girl turned him down so he came back to you. Nah, I would stay with the guy you have, not some looser that ditched you for someone else. It's very common to keep thinking about your ex for a while after the relationship has ended, especially if he wants you back. But that doesn't mean you have to give into him.
Hope this has helped, but wait for at least another opinion before you make your decision. Redlion
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I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!! (link)
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I have to agree with the other answers, your friend isn't as great as you think she is. No friend should ever have to be paid to do anything. The term Rent-A-Friend comes to mind. Ditch this girl and go hang out with the other friends you have.
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Okay, i'm a ninth grader, and i can't stand all of the 7th graders, they're all stuck up. i got into a huge fight with one of them cuz they were sayen stuff about me. and then the one girls friends sister got involved and shes 16, and im on 14, she threatened to kick my ass, i duno if she'll actually do it though. i see her alot in the halls , i dont think she exactly knows what i look like either, but alot of people in my school know me, so they might tell her. should i skip school tomorrow, or just go? im soo worried.. thanks!!! and if i do skip school, what can i tell my mom, like what are some good tricks? (link)
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Well, skipping school is not an option. Eventually you will have to go back, and then they will know you are afraid of them. Just go and act normally.
For future reference, don't talk smack to the seventh graders.
One person(you) < the whole of seventh grade(especially with older siblings included).
Hope I have helped, Redlion.
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
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No, you won't be a slut. No, it won't hurt. Yes your cherry can pop, and yes that will hurt. Maybe you should take it a bit slower, maybe have a bit more physical contact before going strait to this. A nice session of touch and feel can leave a guy very satisfied. Don't feel pressured to do something like this.
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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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Woah, I read the other answers, and for the most part they are all wrong. There is nothing wrong with you, porn is meant to turn both sexes on, not just men. It's completely normal for girls, especially girls your age, to be turned on by anything sexual. Hope you feel better about your sexuality, Redlion
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so i have a boyfriend for over 5 months and i kind of want to break up with him because i want to be single but im scared because i know his family and like im afraid they will hate me and im scared because all my friends think that we are like THE CUTEST COUPLEand stuff but im scared cuz like i think that i will miss him.. but i really want to be single and just have fun im not ready for a major commitment so i dont know what to do help me please and if i do break it off with him what should i say??..... should i write him a note?? i dont know help me please (link)
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First of all, don't be scared. Breaking up with a guy should never be scary, unless he's a member of the mob, but I doubt you have to worry about that. On to your question, if you don't want to be with the guy, you need to get out! There is no reason to be with a guy you don't want to be with, not because your friends think it's cute, not because his parents like you. So yes, you should end it. I would suggest talking to him face to face. If you are honest and he cares about you at all, he should be fine. And if he doesn't care for you, then you have an even better reason to get out.
Hope I've helped, Redlion.
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