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I need songs for a hard-core rap playlist. Songs that aren't too well-known within the average white-girls group of friends, have a really good beat, have lyrics that are degrading to humanity, and are just purely blastable in the car.
Any ideas? Thanks

well one that is a weird song but i for some reason love is " i feel like dying" by lil wayne. it isnt too well known i dont think.

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i like this guy...and im pretty sure he likes me (keyword: PRETTY sure..so not 100%) i dont know how to ask him if he likes me because its just really akward, i cant ask his friends because 1)i hardly know them, 2)they are like 99% always with him, 3) his friends would be like WTF!! and i cant get my friends to talk to him because i am sooo sure he would say no..even it it is a yes. i cant ask him myself..because that would be really akward since we get along good as friends right now, so how do i figure out?? like ,is there any signs? or something? ANY advice would be so much appreciated!
Thanks:)

if you want to tell him that you are sort of interested in him then you could casually bring it up over aim or even in person. you could be talking about another person liking someone else.. then say .. well do you like anyone? and if he says another person then whatever, but if he says i dunno or if he says.. sort of or something like that and then asks you who you like just be like.. well i have a few people in mind but you are one of them. or something like that. i would advise doing this because once a guy knows a girl likes them they are more apt to think of this girl and like her if they dont already. i hope i helped!!

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My boyfriend is not coming home right after work but he calls me and stuff and recently he hasnt been coming over. I feel like my heart is tearing apart but I cant leave him because I love him to much. His attitude has changed a lot and its like i am alone. Someone help me i want to be loved. Do you think something is up? Oh by the way his ex is back in town.

the best thing to do in this situation is talk to him. if you assume he is cheating and accuse him of it with no actual proof, this will show him you have little trust in him and make matters worse. if you dont want to full on confront him, try asking him where he was in a curious way. not an angry way. Ask him what he did or how his day was. if he is trying to keep something from you ask about it. there is no easy way to talk to a partner about cheating but if you do it calmly and dont get angry or accuse him, it will work out best. i hope i helped and i hope all is well for you both!

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does anyone know a techno song, it goes like "dum duddi[?] do, dum duddi[?] do di dum. and its a really fast beat. I tried google and yahoo but nothing helpful came up. thanksss.

it could be Boom Boom. It goes like: doom chica dum chika dee dum dum dum ba doom chika dum chika dee dum dum dum. hahahah

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ok i like this guy
who I've known all year.
we've been talking a lot lately.

ok so he's having a pool party...
and I dunno if I should tell him I like him
because I'm usually good at reading people
and it seems like he's interested.

i wanna do something at this pool party with him?
i dunno.
ideas?

If you want to make a move on him "physically" you could always just give him a little peck kiss. Since its nicer to have the guy make the first move you wouldnt want to totally hook up with him. (atleast thats my opinion) but my friend was at the pool of a guy that she liked. She didnt know if he liked her or not but she had an idea that he did. So she is sitting on the edge of the pool with him and says "You know what i really want to do?" and he says "what" and she just said "Close your eyes" and kissed him! then before he opened his eyes she jumped in the pool. He ended up jumping in to and kissing her back (only this time it was a french kiss) =) just try something like that! If you dont want to be too straight forward then just be like.. .do you like anyone? and see what he says. If he asks you back just be like... mm i kind of like you =).

I hope you have a great time! Keep me updated!

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I'm tired of my boring voicemail recording. You know, the simple: "Hey this is so-and-so call me back later."

I want something clever and funny for my voicemail recording. If it helps, I'm a girl.

Any ideas?

haha well i did like a song for mine. It was like
Hey it's (name) and you called my cell
And im not here as you can probably tell
I might be out, or maybe im asleep
so leave me a message after the..
(beep)

haha =)

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okay their is this guy who is obsessed with me and his name is andrew. hes a dorky and all. but hes nice. i dont like him but he follows me everywhere i go. hes always asking where i am and what im doing. he talks to my friends to see what im doing and when im hangingout with them so hecan join us. and even on his myspace it says I LOVE BRITTANy all over it. oh and he says i love you to me. even though he doesnt know me. he knows.. that i know that he likes me. its kinda like a no BRAINer. and hes even asked me out. but like i said i dont like him. But he tells me even if i dont likehim, he will never stop loving me. and honestly the guy doenst know me well enoguht to love me much less like me.

SO HOW DO I TELL him to basically screw off.. because ive tried that and it doesnt work and ive tried just telliung him nicely.?!??!?! help me.

There are some good ideas below, but also you could try being like " If you love me and care about me then you will respect my feelings and lay off." If he really is in love with you, he will back off. Good luck with everything
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okay so this guy at my school made this video for the seniors. there was this really good song in it but i can't find the name of it or who sings it. all i remember are the words "i remember when.." then something about laughing. the band sounds like hinder. anyone know what song that is?

PLEASE don't tell me to google it. already tried.

try ashlee parker angel
"let you go" is the name

that it?

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What are some good authors for teens. I like Standiford, Rennison, Katie Maxwel, and Meg Cabot.

Jodi Picoult is my favorite.
Try "My sisters Keeper" by her. It's really sad, but one of my favorites.
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My friend(mia) liked this guy(bob) for two years and she told me a week ago that she stopped liking him. Well I was talking to a different friend, Chrissy today and she told me that Bob hooked up with this other girl(Rachel) alot over the past few months. Should I tell Mia this or just let it go? Bob was hooking up with rachel while mia liked him.

Well i think the easiest thing to do would be to tell Mia. If she is good friends with Rachel and you think this could cause jepradize (sp.?) their friendship then you might either want to leave it alone or let rachel tell her if she wants to. Otherwise.. you dont want to keep it a secret from Mia because then if she finds out about it and finds out that you knew and didnt tell her she will probably feel pretty mad.

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okay so...i recently told the boy i REALLY like that i liked him. we hardly talk..but we know eachother and we both have the same friends. i know..get to know him first. lately, ive been seeing him look at me..either look at me or check me out[my friends also say it too] when i either pass by or he passes by. does he like me or is he considering it?

If i were you i might talk to him and either tell him or hint to him that you like him. Sometimes letting a guy know you like him will make him realize if he has any feelings for you. It seems like he already likes you though.

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So I can blame the harsh climate on my chapped up hands, and I've been applying cream like a fiend.
my hands have all since returned to normal.
But my knuckles are very red and bumpy.
The cream doesn't seem to work on this.
Any ideas that will put this dry skin behind me,quickly?

I used to get that often on my hands too during the winter months. A lot of the times it is because i was using soap that dried my hands. Instead try using moisterizing soaps (like some from bath and body works.) Keep applying moisturizer because no matter what that is working to make your skin less dry, even if you cant tell. I hope this helped you =)

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