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Okkay, my boyfriend always says he's going to kiss his girlfriend, & not referring to me, (referring to my other friend) & he goes in to kiss her & I pull him back, I know he is just playing but I would really like him to stop, what should I tell him? (link)
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first, bake him brownies. or cookies. or something to start off the conversation on a positive note.
get him somewhere private and say, i made these for you but i want to talk to you about something first.
say, i know you're just kidding when you call so-and-so your girlfriend and pretend to kiss her, but it makes me really uncomfortable and i'd really like it if you didn't do that anymore.
then let him have the brownies.
men are like dogs sometimes, you have to give them an incentive to remember what you say sometimes :]
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I'm a bit underweight and I'm doing my best to gain. The problem is that I really don't like eating meat. I like eating chicken and turkey, but that's really about it. Is there anything I can do to bump up my nutrition without having to eat beef?? I do eat a lot of fruits & veggies, but are there any other foods I can try to replace beef?? Thank you!! (link)
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eat high protein, high fiber, and bump up your carb intake; you don't have to stick to whole grains if you want to gain weight.
high protein foods like nuts (espiecially pistachios and cashews), and you can get a lot of fiber from dried fruits.
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this is going to sound corny but i have a myspace and i hate all of those mirror "myspace pictures" they're boring. i want a good picture, does anyone have any good picture ideas? thankss 16/f (link)
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get a bunch of your friends together and take a group picture, or go out with them somewhere and get someone else to take a picture of you.
if you don't want that, use a digital camera with a timer and prop it up on a dresser or a bookshelf, so you don't have to hold it when the picture is taking.
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i want to make my hair have waves at the bottom, instead of just going straight, not really waves just like a flip at the end.
http://www.juniorcelebs.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/zoey_101_1.jpg
like her hair, how it flips at the ends
thank youu (link)
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when you're blow-drying your hair, flip your hair over and dry the underside, curling it up with a round brush.
when you're done, use pomade or hair sculpy stuff to keep the curls in place.
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Oki doki, before I start I would love to let you guys know that a) I love food. b) I had gallbladder issues c) I have Chronic Lyme Diease d) And yeah...
So, like I siad, I've had gallbladder issues which I thought made it to be that I felt like I was about to be sick when I ate food and what not. But when I got it out, it didn't help make me want to eat anymore, and when I am hungry, and when I get food, I feel super sick and when I see/hear/smell/think about food, I feel like I am about to throw up.
I've been trying to eat more, but sometimes i just don't eat because I am not hungry. My mom knows I try, but she keeps reminding me that if I don't try more (which I do try very hard) I will be one of those girls who gets tubes down her throat and what not so that I can get food. I don't want that, but I have no clue what to do...if anyone can help me, you won't believe how much I will love you guys...
Thanks so much in advance! ^^ if you guys need anymore info, please let me know! (link)
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make sure to tell a healthcare professional, espiecially if it's been increasingly worse. beyond that, you should probably treat it like you would if you had a stomach virus; eat smooth, bland foods that don't require a lot of chewing... like people already mentioned, staying hydrated is key. liquids will be easier for your stomach to tolerate.
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ok so theres this boy ive known since this yr .. he was in all my classes in school . he just moved to a different city . the other day he texted me saying "i have a cam" meaning webcam then he says "give me your cam so i can see you". so later on in the day i signed online & said to him i thought that you don't like me. he says not as a g/f maybe as a friend then the next day i said to him i might go on cam then i said do i go on yeah or no he says its up to you so i said yeah or no then he says yeah i go on the webcam so you can only see my face & part of my neck . (im not naked ) or anything but why does he wanna see me on the webcam? like i wanna know if he wants to be my friend?or what . like maybe hes scared to say he likes me ? . whats he doing ?please help ! 15/f .. thanks ;] (link)
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he is probably just trying to keep in touch better; it's easier to remember people if you can see them. but he's a 15 year old guy, right? he's probably confused himself. he may like you, but i doubt he wants to see you naked. you know you can make up a story about how your webcam took a suicide jump off your desk and now it's broken... if you really don't feel comfortable talking to him like that. :]
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hi,
im an ex-cutter for about a month and i was wondering if anyone could tell me about the chances of relapsing into cutting again.personal stories would be appreciated.
please note:i have once before stopped cutting but the fell back into it.
thanks in advance. (link)
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it's very easy to relapse into self-destructive tendancies, but they can appear in other ways such as burning (self-incendiarism), pulling hair (Trichotillomania), or scratching (Dermatillomania) depending on your mental state... are you on any medication? if not, you should probably be seeing a therapist once a week just to keep tabs and have someone to talk to. if you are on anti-depressants of some kind, or already have a psychiatrist, make sure to tell them that you're worried about relapse. they can most likely help you out.
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