hey my names alli, i play soccer and do track...i like to hang out wit my friends, idk im pretty much just a normal teenager....ask me anything and ill try to be as helpful as i can.
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Gender: Female
Location: mass
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: July 22, 2005
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hey...well i have a friend, well i should say bestfriend because i've known her since kindergarden and now we're going to be in 10th grade...we're totally drifing apart she seems to be getting newer friends to replace me and i dont know, i kinda miss her but sometimes she acts like shes better than me, it may be just me but thats how i feel so i think that shes just trying to make me jealous with all her new friends and she cant like, hang out with me anymore. we're totally different and we hang out with completly different groups so, its kinda hard since she doesnt really know my friends and i dont really know hers. i havent talked to her in forever and everytime we do like on the phone for example, its like really quiet and theres nothin much to talk about...what should i do? should i just move on and forget that we were ever friends?...it'll be really weird and hard because we still go to the same school and our parents and friends will be all confused why we dont really talk anymore...thanx and sry this was long...i rate... (link)
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this happened to me...first of all you should definately tell your friend about how you feel, tell her that you miss her and that you dont wanna loose her as a friend....wat you should do is maybe try introducing your new friends to her and have her introduce her friends to you....that way u guys can all hang out together.
if you really feel that you both have changed so much that you cant even be friends anymore than maybe it is time to let go...but talk it over with her....you dont wanna just let go of a friendship that has lasted for so long unless its wat you really want....i mean you dont really have to "end" the friendship if you guys just stop hangin out and drift its natural....you probably have just gotten into different things...and if your parents ask what happened just explain that you two drifted...you dont have to go into it all....you guys have such a past that you should feel comfortable confronting her with all this....hope this helps (sorry for it being so long)
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im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice? (link)
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i say dont go through with it and have sex with him unless thats wat you really want and unless you kno you r ready. dont just have sex with him because you think thats wat he wants...if he really loves and respects you then he will respect watever your desicion is and if you say your not ready then he shud be fine with it and respect that if he really loves you.....it shouldnt matter to him because he should always want you to be comfortable....the relationship wont work out if your not happy and if you have regrets...and if your really this unsure i think you shud wait....hope this helped
~a.c.
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