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hello! im kristen yes i am a cheerleader and i am not a snob, brat, whatever you wanna call it so you shouldnt be haten i will answer anything and everything that i can and im not rude about any probs so dont be shy. i hate when people judge me, my friends or anyone so please dont judge me.

~love~*always*
~*kristen*~
Gender: Female
Location: kansas city missouri
Age: 14
Member Since: February 4, 2005
Answers: 81
Last Update: November 10, 2005
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The first time I had my period it was from the 19-22 then it became 25-29 then 3-7.Wat is wrong?Is this normal? I need advice and i rate very high.thanx (link)
ok yes its normal it will be just unusall at first mine was the same way
xoxo love *kristen*


i want to dye my hair either brown with blonde highlights or blonde with brown highlights, which sounds better? I am a white girl with blue eyes, and light tan. (link)
i think blonde with brow because well you never see that much and yaeh i like hair when its unique so i think it would be really pretty ethier way though x0x0 l0ve *kristen*


I like this boy and I know for a fact that the feeling is mutual. I know enough about boys to be able to tell. But he isnt making a move. He's said before that he's pretty shy when it comes to girls..But this particular boy has had sex before. Only once though (so he says). Is it possible for a boy who has had sex before to be shy around girls now?! =S Help. (link)
well yeah because yeah because your not the same girl so yeah hes prob. just shy xoxo love *kristen*


ok so i want to break up with my boyfriend and i dont know how to do it. I want ot break up bcuz we dont talk that much and its just awkward. I am a girl and 14 yrs old...plz some one help, i wanna do it tomorrow
thanks sooooo much (link)
just tell him things arent working you never call we never talk i think we talked more as friends then say sorry x0x0 love *kristen*


I really like this guy and we have hung out acouple of times. We've done things but not sex or oral sex. We both want to do more then that but I want a real relationship also (we are not going out) Do you guys think doing alot of sexual things before going out could ruin the chances of a good relationship or possibly make them stronger? thanks :o) (link)
um yes normally sex is allguys think about it kinda screws the relation ship up when all they want is sex but if you like the guy and thats all he wants then your really cant have a relationship built on love it will be built on sex xoxo love *kristen*


Hey!! I have a question, my friend was smoking weed tonight and she has to get her wisdom teeth out tomorrow, and she is freaking out that they will be able to tell if she has?! She also thinks that when they give her laughin gas she will tell everyonethat she did? Can you help me out so i can give her some advice so she will quit freaking out?! Thanks!! (link)
ok i say she like tell her mom she dont feel good the night b4 and have her mom reschedluue


my skin sucks ass. its been about a year and a half with ance. My dermatologist hasnt made a single difference! not alloud 2 go on birth controll pills. and my dermatologist wont let me go on accutain!!!!! HHEEELLLPPPP.

P.S. my days are so much harder with acne..everyone around me has perfect skin...and if u say "it will go away soon.. or in a few years" ill kill u!! lol. (link)
theres this stuff called proactive i dont remeber the number it was on the tv it has jessica simpson on it look for it on mtv they show it there alot i think that might help my best friend had ance and that made it go away pretty good x0x0 love
*kristen*


i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do? (link)
ok i think you should ask him if he is going to dump her then if he says no then forget him x0x0 love *kristen*


I'v been doing the whole secret admirer thing for a day or so now. I think that this girl knows its me doing it. Should I just play it off and continue with the plan or should I just forget it and go for it. (link)
well i think you should keep doing it because girls love things like that it makes our day go great to know where loved by someone x0x0 love *kristen*


sorry, didn't know what category to put this in. i get really bad razor burn/ bikini bumps. i get razor burn on my legs too but they go away and the ones on my bikini area don't! i use shaving cream and a fresh razor blade (venus) and i put on lotion and neolsporen (sp?) when i'm done but its still not going away! so my question is:

a) how can i make it go away now
b) how can i prevent it in the future
c) will waxing or somehting else help... or hurt?

thanks! i RATE HIGH! (link)
i cant shave my binki line i have to use finishing toch i dont know where you by it but my sister has one its for eyebrow noes bikini line ect. it dont leave bumps or anything x0x0 love *kristen*


i know this is kinda confusing...

ok i met this guy on-line from one of my friends last saturday night and we talked and all, and i think i may like him i dk hes 2 years older n he went out with one of my some-what friends, i mean i talk to her but were not like close or anything...they recently just broke up and all....so he said he was single n looking or w/e, we were joking around n crap over cyber stuff on-line then he asked me how far i went with a guy...and im like uhh well im not suppose to date till im 16 so i have to wait and then he said n ur turnin 15 soon arent u and i said yeahh...then he asked me how long would i wait to have sex. or if i would give a bj or a hj...or if i would enter the back door and all...then he said that i would prob b the only one who doesnt have muchs bf all threw high school and i said yeahh well i rather be single then screw my life over be4 i graduate then he said that i could use a condom n i said yeahh condom or no condom if my parents found out i would be dead...i get a feelin that i wont turn out a virgin when i graduate im gettin this feelin that i wouldnt but anyways...then he asked me if i was bush or bare as in the south of the border..and i basically refused that and all..he knows i know his ex..and i was wonderin if this sounded like he liked me or something? any ideas?

- thx (link)
ok i think that he does because well when guys start to get personal about things yes i say that if you like him you should ask him if he has feelings for you xoxo love *kristen*


i love to cook but i cant because i have a game to go to and i want to go to a cooking compittion of my friends but my other friend has a cheer game that she wants me to go to they both asked me to go at the same time so i dont know what to do there both fighting over whos im going to go to plz help fom bree (link)
ok well i say you dont go to etherand you tell them both that you just cant decide because you love them both dearly xoxo love *kristen*


My twin and I need help finding something to get our boyfriends for valetines day!! we need HELP!! If you have any Ideas PLease Post Them!! Will Rate HIGH if i like them :) Thanks! (link)
ok i think guys lik colonge axe is what i get my bf or you7 could give him a card like a poem saying that you love him to much to explain or somthing xoxo love *kristen*


What is the difference between a "padded" bra and a "cup" bra?
thanks.
-confused (link)
a cup bra is like what i have its under wire and it has like this soft thin inside i guess you could call it padding but its not lik as much as the padded bra padded bra are lik an inches worth of padding the cup under wire bra that i wear has like a half a cm padded bras makes you look bigger cup bras dont do anything they keep you the same there i hope i have help xoxo love *kristen*


I have this new friend i just made this year, lets call her blue. and my friend that i have knowen sence 4th grade, lets call her pink, doesnt like blue that much. now i dont really make friend as well as pink. pink doesnt like blue that much because blue is friends with this girl that we hate, lets call her red. and pink doest like red so she doesnt really trust blue. but i do trust blue. blue is a really cool friend. what should i do???

~*~Lizzie~*~ (link)
ok i say you talk to pink and blue ask blue why shes friends with red tell blue not to be un trust worthy tell pink thatshe doesnt need to worry because you talked to blue about not telling red anything about anything just anything so tell blue not to tell red anything that pink dont want blue to tell red and if blue really dont like red you need to tell blue to stop hanging with red xoxo love *kristen* p.s god what a tongh twister lol sorry if this doesnt help. good luck if you have anything else you need plz feel free to ask! love ya


Hi, I'm 14/f living in California if that helps.

Anyway, my parents are getting a divorce and it's been very difficult- my dad is a chronic liar (diagnosed by 3 doctors but refuses treatment). While married to my mom he had a girlfriend for 3 years. She got pregnant and had a baby boy and he mostly lived with his girlfriend and the baby for 1 year, then my mom finally decided to divorce him. The current arrangement we have is that my 12-year-old brother and I live at my mom's and see my dad every other sunday at 11:00. The problem is that my dad wants half of our house (he wants us to sell it even though he promised in march he would let us keep the house) and that he insists he and my mom have been seperated since 1998 when they have only been seperated since march 2004 (if he tells the truth he will have to pay more money). My mom has a great lawyer who's working very hard, but the court is kind of against us- my dad's friend Al is the bailiff.

Al is a nice guy, though my dad is not, and he and my dad used to be friends because they were both police officers in Oakland. One day as they were making an arrest there was a fire (no one is sure quite how). Al was trapped and my dad saved his life, but Al got some brain damage (I'm not sure how severe it is). Now Al owes my dad big-time so the court is biased against us, basically. Is there anything my mom can do about:
(A) The date of seperation (if needed my brother and I can attest to when they seperated)
(B) Him forcing her to sell the ohuse (not yet but he will and we will have to move far away, it costs a lot to live where we do)
(C) the court being biased?

If anyone knows any website or can help me, that would be great. Thanks in advance. (link)
you wanna start with me im not fuckin kidding dont talk to me and dont u be calling me a hore bitch or ill kick ur ass


Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help. (link)
i think you should keep him i mean you should be driving soon and you really cant forget about him and untill you can drive maybe you guys could swicth off and stay at each others houses idk? xoxo love *kristen*


My boyfriend and I are sorta in a fight right now. It seems like we have kinda been losing interist in one another. I dont want to just give up on our relationship this quick though. So does anyone have any advice on how to keep a relationship going, or what i can say to him tonight on the phone so he isnt mad at me anymore. Please help!!!! (link)
tell him that you love him and that your sorry xoxo love *kristen*


How can you slim down your legs? I have big thighs and I was just wondering if there is a way to slim down ONLY your legs. (link)
ok normally everone has big thigh ii have big thighs idk how to slim down your legs b4 you go doing it just know that its probably just muyscle and muscle helps xoxo love
*kristen*


OK im a female 14 years old. Last year i really loved this guy who didnt go to my school but we saw each other alot because he was best friends with my neighbor. Him and i went out for about 4 month for me its was a longest relationship i ever had and he was my first kiss and stuff and then we broke up because he thought i liked another guy well i kind of did but not really and when the guy i was going out with dumped me i didnt really care but then maybe a week went by and i saw him again and brought up alot of memories back but we werent together anymore. After that day i realized how much i want to be with him and how much he means to me. I called him and told him that me liking other guy wasnt true and he said okay and i dont think he cAred then i heard from someone he likes me againa then next time i saw him he didnt. I still liked him alot but we jsut didnt see each other at all over the summer. Well next year(this year) i go to his school and he is on 2 of my classes so i see him alot and everytime i see him i get the memories back. My biggest wish in this whole world if we would go out again then i will be the happies i ever been. Well i had a little chance before getting back together but now he is going out with this girl that he went out last year right before we went out and he dumped her for me but not they are back together. I dont know what to do because ive tried to move i had alot of bf`s after him when his first gf after me was liek a year after we broke up and ya well i want to get back with him together but im not sure if its possible so should i just keep on trying to move or keep on trying to get him back???? plz i really need help i like that guys for over year and a half now and i cant tell him that cuz he has a gf that im really good friends. (link)
ok if his gf is your friend you need to tell her and if shes your real friend she wont date him but if she not like one of the people that you talk to every onec ina while then you need to tell him or you just have to let go of him xoxo love *kristen*




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