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Last school year, my friend Shawn and I messed around like two times. Well since we were such good friends, we both decided that we didn't want all of our other friends to know about it. But, I had to talk about it to someone so I told my closest girl friend, Melissa because we tell each other EVERYTHING (well we used to anyway now I tend to keep most things like this to myself and not tell her).
So I was talking to another friend, Mark and asking him about his new girlfriend (this was about a month after I told Melissa about Shawn). He wouldn't tell me what I wanted to know and said that the only person that did know was him, his girlfriend, and Melissa.
That really pissed me off because, well, wouldn't it piss you off? So I asked him why he told Melissa and wouldn't tell me. At this point, I didn't care about him and his girlfriend any more; I wanted to know why he thought he could trust Melissa over me.
He told me that he doesn't trust her over me and that the only reason he told her was because she traded other information. He told me not to make a big deal out of it but she told him about Shawn and me to get the information about him and his girlfriend.
I was furious when he told me this and the only thing keeping me from fucking exploding in her back stabbing, untrusting, face was that she was having some serious family issues.
Now, every time she tells me about the guys in her life I remember how she "traded information" about me and it drives me insane!! I wasnt to say something SO bad but since it happened last year I don't know how it'd turn out. What do I do here? I seriously can't take it anymore.
you have a right to be mad! if my friend did that to me, i'd want to kill her! but i wouldn't. anyway, you didn't ask this question for someone's life story, you asked so you could get advice. and here is mine: talk to melissa. and talk to shawn. first, tell melissa that she hurt you, and that wasn't a good thing to do. tell her that even though she is your friend, and you care about her, that that really hurt you. she needs to know. but, DON'T TELL HER THAT MARK TOLD YOU, ok? that would just piss her off, at mark. so that's the first thing to do. then you need to talk to shawn. you need to let him know that you told someone. and, since it was like a year ago, maybe it's ok to let everyone know that you guys fooled around. i mean, once a little secret gets out, more tend to leak, trusts are broken, and friendships are not as strong sometimes. it could be that this secret needs to get out in the open. that would be the best way to put this all behind you. to forget it ever happend.
hope i could help! and, remember-even though melissa told, she cares about you. and she is your friend. she hurt you, and you know how that feels, so don't hurt her, ok?
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I signed up for the school talent show. Suddenly today, I learned that it will be held at the assembly. And it's too late to drop out. I have a terrible case of stage fright. I'm singing a song from THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA (Wishing You Were...), and it's going to be hard to liven up a beautiful broadway piece next to all the other singers, who are singing stuff like Ice Ice Baby and Alicia Keys. How do I relax?!
well, i myself LOVE phantom of the opera. i'm a "phantom phreak"! and Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again is one of the most beautiful songs, and one of the best songs in the musical i think. so, just think about this-do you love the song? do you love the way you feel while singing it? do you love the harmony and melody combining to make a beautiful masterpiece? just let those happy thoughts take you away. just sing with all your heart while in a place where no one can disturb you. when i read this question, i got a tingly feeling in my stomach, because the SAME EXACT THING happened to me. at our school talent show all these people were singing these up-beat popular songs and i really wanted to sing Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again. I myself don't have stage fright, but when i realized all the other songs people were going to sing, i worried. and i worried. and i worried. but then, on that night, i got up on stage and just let the song take me away. and that's what you should do.
do you guys remember that coke commercail for lime coke and there like near a beach and a song is playing i think it was butterfly by crazy town but im not sure does anyone know what it was. this was a recent commercial
ok, i have a different idea than the other answer. i may be thinking of a totaly DIFFERENT comercial...oh, now that i read recent comercial i don't think it's the same. but the song i was thinking of anyway was "Put the Lime in the Coconut". so, ya. hope you find your answer!
14/f...okay all day saturday my school had this fundraiser and almost my whole entire 8th grade class was there. it was a lot of fun and we were outside all day. i was hanging out with all of my friends and a lot of my guy friends. i thought that i used to know how to tell if a guy likes youm but i'm not sure anymore. ok one of my guy friends was sitting next to me and then purposly dumped water on me twice, so then we chased each other around trying to dump water on the other. then my other guy friend had water ice and i asked for some but then he wouldn't take it back so i said i would dump it on him, but i didn't, and then later he dumped a water bottle all over me. like all day the girls would verse the guys in a game of keep away with a little squish ball..it was really fun and we would like tackle each other. i know those two guys don't like me as more then a friend, so then how do i know if a guy really does like me?
well, it's hard to say whether a guy likes you or not. i mean, lets face it-guys are strange beings. but there can be signs. like, if there is no reason for him to be looking at you, and he is. or if you have a class with him and he would normaly sit with his friends, but he makes a b-line for the empty seat next to you when he comes in the door. or if he starts walking next to you in the hallways. or if he keeps coming up to you and saying "hi" and then leaving. stuff like that. that is, of course, if he's not your friend. if he IS your friend, just think about this: wouldn't you notice if he started acting funny? probably! so if he starts acting funny around you, in a way that he isn't normally, that can be a sign that there are different feelings brewing inside him when he's around you. you should ask him, as a friend, what's up with him. and he will probably open up to you. also, if you wanna have a bit of fun, if you see the previous signs i mentioned, toy around. when you are with/around the guy, flirt with him. see if he notices. but, you should ONLY TOY AROUND IF YOU LIKE HIM!!!!! other wise things could get complicated. hope i helped!
ok im 15 years old. i weigh about 155. im like 5'8" im not extreamly over weight, but most of my friends are really skinny, so it makes me look fatter, plus im tired of working so hard to find clothes that fit. and i have a belly that i suck in all day that i wanna get rid of. really bad. i stoped drinking sodas. and i dont eat too much junk. and i have not lost ANY weight. i have thiroid problems and have to take medicine for it. my mom says that it makes it harder to loose weight.
summer is comming soon and i need to loose weight.
what do i do?
exersie exersise exersise. you have to work out. take walks, do sit ups, bike ride, something that will give your body a chance to ditch the little bit of extra padding it might have. if you want detailed advice, here it is:
1) turn on your favorite (better if up-beat and with a steady rhythym like "CASCADA") and work out for half an hour before you go to bed. set a time (no shorter than one minute) and do sit ups. then, for the next thirty seconds, do a relaxing stretch. then for the next minute do push-ups. then splits. keep going for as long as you can, and don't give up! if you really want to loose weight, work hard!
2) walk briskly. i walk about two miles (there and back) from my school. i don't mildly strole, i actualy WALK. try it. i'm pretty fit.
hope it helps! but, the one thing above all to remember is not to give in. if you want to get thinner, you have to keep working even if you are tired, or don't feel like it, or are HUNGRY, don't give in. you are worth it! go for the gold! :-)
well i'm the gurl that asked about the semi formal but...yea
i'll be wearing a red dress abot almost close to my ankles.no sleeves, i think it's called spaghetti straps . i waz just wondering what
1) color heels i should get... i'm "5'5" incase that helps
2)purse...(if i need one??)
3) and the way i should do my hair
i'm african american. hair length about to the end of my neck...VERY NAPPY ...but can alwayz straighten it and dark skinned if that helps?
thanx in advance:)
well, of course red heels always go well with a red dress. the dress sounds BEAUTIFUL by the way. but there are some other options. white can look nice with red, and if you are dark skinned i've found white shoes to look pretty hot, but formal at the same time. of course, black will go with most anything, but it depends on how dark of skin you have. if you have REALLY dark skin, black isn't the best choice. but if your skin is lighter black would be cute! the shoe color brings me to your second question: the purse. a purse can be nice for things like this. you can keep extra makeup to do touch up's with, and if you have an unexpected period they can be a life savor. trust me ;-) so, the color of the purse should match your shoes. white shoes, white purse probably that shiny material (forgot what it's called) if you can find it. the hair. that's always the biggest question for me. i have the weirdest hair in the world. i never know what to do with it because it's so frizzy/curly/strait at the same time. my answer: just leave it down. it will look nice, yet sexy and playful at the same time. if you are worried about it being TOO nappy, straiten it. i, however, like nappy hair. i think it's cute. but down would be my choice. good luck with the semi formal! hope you have fun!