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well, my mom was acting really crazy last night. she got mad at me and my sister for no reason and starting yelling at us. it's been like a whole day and she hasnt even talked to either one of us. she makes me really depressed and it makes my stomach hurt. i dont know what to do. i think she hates us. (link)
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your mom doesnt hate you shes just probably PMS'ing but just sit down with her and ask her how come she won't talk to you if she doesnt talk to you then tell her you really sorry for what you did even if you didn't do anything.
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Ok sorry that this is long but please don't pass over it I really need help.
My parents aren't divorced but they both cheat on each other they basically both get with anything that moves of the opposite sex. My dad is always drunk and is very abusive. My mom isn't physically abusive but she just tells me that I'm a waste of life and that she wishes she never had me and that I'm such a huge mistake and bla, bla, bla but her boyfriend Tom hits me all the time and even rapes me sometimes. I've gone to the police before and they took my parents side because to everyone else they look like such nice people. But at night they're druggies and alcoholics. I even went to social sevices they put me in a home for a week where I started cutting and then they put me right back with them! Lately I met a guy who uses drugs and I've been going out with him. And we were using and did some things and now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. He was arrested for possesion so I can't go to him. I can't go to my parents. I really don't have any friends who aren't stoners and all they care about is how they're going to get their next fix. I don't know what to do. I've already tried killing myself and it didn't work. I'm soo scared I don't know what to do. I was going to run away but I know that I'll just end up somewhere where there's drugs and I'm really trying to stop. What can I do about all of this? Please help me (link)
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you just need to calm down and if your really want to get away from your parents one night when they're drinking or being abusive call the cops and bust them that way but im not really sure what to do in this situation
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Ok, I'm really good friends with this kid mike. And he just broke up with his girlfriend and lately he's been really flirty with me. And he asked me out the other day and I'm kind of nervous about going out with him because if it doesn't work out I'm worried about if our friendship will still last. Should I take a chance and go out with him or just tell him that we should stay really good friends? (link)
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You should probably say no because it probably will ruin a good friendship but if you want to take the chance go for it, it's your descision.
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i have obsessive-compulsive disorder about death. in my mind i am always seeing people die like i see my dad die in a car accident and it's really scary. does anybody have any suggestions to help me think of something else. don't say "just stop thinking about it" because i can't just say "ok brain you know the drill start thinking about candy land and hot dudes hugging you. because that's not the way it works (link)
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I know how you feel my friend is like that to but if your thinking like tht you might need to talk to an adult insead of us advicenators (if u want) im not all that sure of what your saying so if you dont understand me then i understand
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lets call the kids jack and jill.
so ive been babysitting jack and jill every other weekend. jill is really good and sweet but jack is not. now there mom wants me to watch them everyday in the summer. and i dont want to! im only 14 i have a life! but their mom is really pushy and in your face.
what should i do?
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Just try to tell her that you can't babysit them everyday but you can babysit them every other day or every three days or somthing like that.
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Me and my girlfriend are in a delema she is makeing a dission between me or another guy she says she is confused. and she says she loves me but my point of view is if she loves me as much as she says she does then i would this it would be no comp. I love her like no other. Im thinking she is playing both sides she wants me to be here if she picks the other guy and it goes wrong with them. my prob is what should i do if she picks him. I would hope she'd pick me though. (link)
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Well its pretty much her descision so u let her choose who she wants if she chooses the other guy then thats okay. She's not the only girl in the world. you can probably find another girl that likes you too.
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ok so theres this guy who ive liked ever since i can remember.. he just broke up with his gf of 8 months. hes like the only person i cant act normal around, its kind of hard for me to talk to him. anyways one of my best friends is really good friends with him but i have a feeling they will hook up. they always flirt and he picks her up and she was sitting on him. me and him are flirty sometimes too, but it was this way before he went out with his old girlfriend too. she won him over before i did and i dont want it to happen again. how can i win him over and try to keep my best friend away from him? (link)
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Easy just flirt with him more than you usually do and just find a way to get him to know that you like him.GOOD LUCK!
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I have seen my report card since 8th grade (I'm now in 11th). Ever since my sister started high school (she's a year older than me) she started throwing away both of our report cards because she doesn't want my parents to see them. My parents did notice at first and called the schools and everything and they schools told them that they don't know what's going on because they've been sending them. So, my parents kind of forgot about it. I didn't really care about it but now I do! I have no idea how I'm doing in school. I think I'm failing half my classes but I don't actually know. I have no idea what my GPA is either (we get it in about 3 weeks but I don't know what to expect). It's completely unfair that I don't get so see my report card because my sister doesn't want my parents to see hers. I've told her before to just throw hers away and not mine but she was like "No, then they'll figure it out." I've also tried asking her to at least just let me see it and then she can throw it away. She agreed at first but then "accidentally" threw it away. She already got into the college she wanted to get in and my parents are all proud of her and whatnot so I don't get it! What else should I do? And no, I won't tell my parents about it. Other than this, my sister and I are really close so I don't want to do that to her. (link)
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Just tell your sister u want to see your report card or if she doesnt give u your report card just go to the office and ask for and extra copy
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hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!
I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!
Luv,
~~~ASHLEY~~~
P.S. i rate high
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Dear Ashley,
It's not bad that you like your friend's ex because I liked my friend's ex too. But ask your friend if she still has feeling's for him if she says no ask her if she would feel comfortable that you asked him out if she says yes then go for it if she says no then lay off him for a while and if u still like him after about 2 weeks ask her if shes over him and ask her if she would feel comfortable with you dating him most likey she will say yes because she's your friend. GOOD LUCK!
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