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Alright, so I really like a couple songs by the band Chronic Future but I haven't been about to find alot of their stuff... and I've heard just about everything else that I have right now.
Does anybody have any ideas for new music? I really do like EVERYTHING.

One request though- nothing really really popular right now. I like that stuff, but I've listened to it too much already. I tend to like stuff that isn't as popular.

Anything and everything is appreciated.

-Skillet
-Flyleaf

two really good bands that arent known by many

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so i was being impulsive and well, i went on this website and wasnt exactly well behaived. should i forgive myself and move on or what? because pictures of me are on the web and i dont know what to do.

thanks.

ya i think you should move on forgive yourself try and forget about it and never do it again.

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17/m

okay, long story short my girlfriend and i want to start having sex again, but the problem is we have absolutely nowhere to go, the car is okay, but its cold outside, (freezing!!) and both our parents are always home. Is there anyone who could think of somewhere we could go, aside from like a hotel or something???? Thank you so much!!

could you wait for it too warm up outside thats we me and my bf have to do and then we are gonna get in the car go to a wooded area and ya the longer you wait the more special it is :D

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*16 female

i've been going out with this one guy for about 5 months now. well hes a virgin and i'm not. we've been close to having sex a few times but he never has a condom. then one day we were talking about doing it and then he kind of chickened out. well i agreed with him we should wait a while. but then i got scared cause all my friends were having sex and they were all saying how they thought they might get pregnant. i didn't want that to happen if me and my boyfriend had sex so i told him i wanted to wait till college or maybe even out of college. and he was more then happy with that decision. but now i want to have sex with him and i've told him that. i want to have sex but i'm scared. he just says okay. i want to have sex with him soo bad. how can i get him in the mood for it again? please help

get close try and be sexy just do whatever you can but make sure that if you guys are gonna have sex that if you do get pregnant that you guys are ready for what can happen and whether you keep it or kill it:(, you guys could aviod it.

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15.

this one boy is always staring at me. like, hes in my math class, and like he sits across the room, and he'll stare at me. and like before school starts, people sit in the cafeteria, and like he was in there the other day, and he kept staring at me. and hes in my lunch period, and hes alwayys looking at me. I know he thinks I'm hot. Because, I was at mcdonalds, and he was with his friend, and my friend was standing behind him, and then i was like getting my food right infront of them, and his friend is like ,the girl in front of us is really hot. and he was like, yeah i know shes in my math class, she is really hot. so yeahhh. i saw he had a myspace, should i ask to be his friend? and ive never talked to him like before. oh, and this one time, i went up to go and get my paper, and he got up and got it for me, and handed it to me.

i kindaa like him. and hes super super cute. but i have no idea how to like start talking to him.

what do you think?
do you think he likes me?
should i talk to him?
how do i talk to him?

i think theres a chance he might and you know he is physically atracted to you so why not.
first you should add him on myspace and just message him saying hey whats up and just keep talking too him and hope something developes from that.


-Jenny

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is it safe to have sex everyday?

yes but make sure that if you doing that that you use protection and that since you are doin it you are willing to take responsibilities for what could happen

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in fifth grade there is this cute guy i want him to like me. he usto like me but now he likes this other girl. how do i get him to like me without telling him i like him.

Flirt with him get close to him hang out with him take things slow and it will work :)


-Jenny

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if you could vote, who would you vote for?

Borack Obama

i hope he wins :D

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I really like this girl and I want to ask her out, but she goes to a different school. She's in the same grade as me, and we chat sometimes in person, sometimes online. I don't see her that often, but even one date would be really nice. Any ideas on how to ask her out?

Thanks...

ooo make sure you do it in person and just explain how you feel and that even though you guys cant see eachother much you think it can work and stuff.

me and my boyfriend go to different schools and see eachother once a week or everyother week it sucks but we make it work by talking onlin and on the phone and thats how he asked me out it was cute :)


hope i helped

-Jenny

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okay me and my boyfriends have not made out yet one day he tried to but i have no idea what to do so i leaned away. i know your supposed to open your mouth and touch tongues. but what i don't get is like how. do you rub them against each outher or what? i'm so scared that to do it wrond since he has done it before. i really don't know what touch tongues mean like explain that more please.

ok well i had the same problem i was with my boyfriend for 4 months and we still hadnt kissed mind you we are both 16 but i wanted to take things slow and well i was scared to death to makeout with him thinking i would screw up and i had no idea what to do but one day it just happend and like you dotn even think aobut it. so i dont really think you will have a problem so dont worry about it just do what feels good.


play with his tongue


--jenny

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I'm 17 and I'm' a girl....So me and this guy starting dating 3 months ago (he's my first serious boyfriend) and I really like him. We took it slow phyically but the last time I saw him we were making out and that lead to him almost fingering me. I stopped him before it got to that point but he was headed there and it scared me. I made a promise to God that I wouldn't have sex before I was married and I intend to keep that promise. I feel as though I should hate him and break up with him but he's such a sweet guy it's like I can't break up with him. He knows I've considered breaking it off and all he can do is be sweet about and tell me that it's my choice. Basically if I break it off I'm going to be the "bad guy" because he's just so sweet. From a christian perspective, because he tried should I break it off or not? I mean if the attraction between us is so strong that it is causing us to sin then should I be with someone that I cause to sin and they cause me to sin?

i think breaking up with him would be wrong. you gotta be strong and try and resist temptation and make sure he knows that you want things to go slow and make sure he knows where you stand. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months and we are just now starting to finger/hj and i dont plan on going farther any time soon. im also a strong christian maybe not as strong and i'd like to wait until marraige or close to it. i think that your intensions are good but just dont break up with him for it unless theres more to it.

I hope i helped some.


-Jenny

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My boyfriend is absolutely wonderful, cute sweet, charming. He jsut really likes my stomach, like to jiggle it and rub it and stuff.
I do have a bit of a belly, but really I'm average.
Anywho, I know I'm not super skinny, but my boyfriend always says things like "Aw your belly is so cute"
And he always is trying to get me to eat, and wear tighter shirts. I just think it's weird, how can he can like an untoned stomach?

aww i think thats cute.
i wish all guys were like that
thats amazing that your boyfriend loves you and your body the way they way they are. i'd be really happy to have something like that make sure you hold on tight :D

-Jenny

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my best friend really likes this guy. His best friend asked her 2 be his girlfriend and she said yes because she kindof liked him. Now shes over him and likes his bff alot but how does she end it with him? Will his best friend ever look @ her? She is thinking about donig it on valentines day. Please tell me how i can descourag her from doing that. HELP!!! She's going 2 break his heart then her own without knowing it.

i dont think that breaking up wiht him on valentines day would be best that would make things worse the longer she drags it out but i also dont think that if she breaks up with him she will get with the other guy...because its kinda a thing guys have or guys with morals never date someone your bff likes.

I think maybe it was a mistake to have dated the one she kind of liked when she oculd of waited that one out and tried to maybe make the other like her well not make but ya.

ive had a simular thing happen to me and i ended up screwed at the end :-/

hope i helped
-Jenny

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I am a girl, and my friend (Lets call her Ashleigh) is acting strange. i.e, not eating very much, being unusually quiet, saying things that dont make sense, and not being herself, oh and possibly lying. Something just didnt feel right when she claimed that she was just missing her dad, (Who she said died when she was four) It just doesnt add up. Were in 8th grade, and she doesnt have a boyfriend.

She's probably depressed
i had a friend that was going through about the same things and she was in a state of depression. If you havent tried and talked about it with you friend you probably should...i didnt get to my friend in time to save her. Dont pry but be a good friend and ask her whats going on.

hope i helped

-Jenny

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Me and guy are long distance lovers... we've been having a relationship for a year now.. and we love eachother alot.....

I only met him once in this year i've had the relationship with him.. and we couldnt spend more than 5 mints together at that time either because we didnt get the chnace... i'm hoping to meet him again soon...

I've never french kissed ever in my life... and we've planned to french kiss when we meet again... how do i take of my nervousness...???

How i touch him to show him i truely love him???

Please Give me tips on what i should do when i meet him?

ok well me and my boyfriend just had our first kiss and french kiss yesturday and well i started it just with the first kiss and everything fell into place...just be playful with your tongue have fun :D

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I am in love with one of my friends. We're not best friends, but I really do love him. But the problem is, even though he's fit and tan and beautiful, he likes fat chicks. I am so sad. I am naturally thin and small-framed, and I feel pain any time I see him flirt. I can't just become something I'm not, and I feel so terrible that I can't do anything. I don't know what's wrong with him. I am beautiful, and fit and we would be perfect. But we're not because he can't see me as I want him to. What should I do?

I think if you are beautiful and have a great personality he will fall for you. flirt a bit and tell him how you feel maybe things will work out.

hope things do work out:D

& hope i helped.

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im not very experienced with flirting, but me & the guy i like do tease eachother all the time in class .usually i feel stupid because i dont know what im doing and sometimes what i say to him backfires. his friend who sits next to him laughs about it lol . and sometimes they talk about what i just said and make fun of me ): but theyre not honestly being mean , its all funn.


he sits behind me, so its a little hard to talk to him and stuff without making it totally obvious that i like him.

how can i flirt with him , while hes sitting behind me, in class, without having it be a giveaway ?

well you could just give him really cute smiles.
or just glance at him cute.
guys always love it when girls smile they find it adorable :D
just mess with him alot like you do just be yourself.
have fun
hope i helped hun

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ok so for the past month or so ive been really tired all the time, ive gained a lot of weight (im not that fat though) and ive been sad a lot but i cant figure out what im sad about. I used to love playing games with my sister, but not all i want to do is just be alone and watch tv or something.

i eat a tonn and i just feel a lot of anger and nervousness.

whats going on with me and what can i do about it???

14/f btw.

yea i think you might be depressed.
sorry

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sorry that this is so random.
but what is a really cute and flirty perfume?
and where can i get it?

Love spell. its a lovely smell that just about everyone loves.
can be found in victorias secret...its not to pricey either.

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Hey! I was wondering, what are some really cute and flirty perfumes? Also, can you tell me where i can find them. Prices arent an issue, as long as its under $100.

Love Spell. it is an awsome sent that doesnt cost all that much. can be found in victoria's secret.

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