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This question is a little bit long, but I used good grammer so it's readable!
I'm really in a bad situation. I just got broken up with by a guy who I was with for over a year and it's been 3 weeks ever since and all I've felt like doing is drinking alcohol or anything that I can find. I've never drank before, so these are weird feelings for me. I've heard that when you drink, for a while you are numb, and for the longest time I've always thought that if I could have at least one moment with all of my problems forgotten, I'd do whatever it takes and it's so true for me. I can't stop wanting to do something extreme like cutting, or drinking or not eating. What I'm really looking for is something to numb the pain in the moment. Like a drug or something that I can run to when I get depressed. Lately, I've been 'sleeping in' to forget about everything and I'm in love with sleep and I feel addicted to it. I know these feelings aren't good and I'm really scared for the next time I get depressed that I will take extreme actions.
I'm a 15 year old female by the way
Thank you, anything can help me at this point and I'll be sure to get back to you with rating! (link)
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Hi there i happened to be reading your question and i can't say that i know what your going through i've never experienced a bad breakup to the point where it would make me feel like that. it really worried me when i was reading your question, you seem very nice but don't put yourself through something like that try to keep your mind off of the breakup, instead of drinking do something that you like to do i suggest with a good friend your so young not much younger than me i'm 21 and when i have bad days i'll admit i think straight to drinking however instead i call a friend and they always help me through everything. If thats what you need i'd be happy to lend an ear out. Please take care of yourself and think positive you do deserve that much.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We were eachothers' firsts. We have only had sex a handful of times, and its not anything amazing. Neither of us can 'get it'. He either gets too exhausted or we just give up. We've tried different positions and places, but it doesn't seem to work. When we fool around, its great. Its better than intercourse at this point, but I want having sex to be good. We love eachother and this isnt going to break us up, but it breaks my heart knowing that we aren't enjoying something that is suppose to be so sacred and passionate. I have no idea how long to wait or what to do, neither of us do. So if you have any suggestions on what to do, I'd really appreciate it. Even some kind words to make me feel better. I just don't know what to think. Please help us. (link)
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hi there i read your question and wow it sounds so much like me, my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 years now and our sex life is wonderful i have an orgasm just about all the time we do it, and how, this is how a few tips for you k... well i like being on top not on the bed or anything cuz thats hard but if he lays straight on the floor with a pillow on his head and you sit on top of his penis you have full advantage on how fast and how deep it goes and that rocks!! and i love going fast to get a great pace due to the movement and position my clit gets very much attention and next thing i know i'm orgasming.
also another one in the missionary position put a few pillows under your bottom and i like to rub myself while he's doing his thing and last week i found that my hands were a bit chilly but the nice cold pressure on my g-spot was great i've never orgasmed like that and wow am i glad i tried that!! try these techniques some day you'll be glad you did. i know i am
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