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hay yaw!this is letty!i`ve been through a dag gone lot in muh life so w/e questions yoOh have ii should b able to answer!luh ya!
Website: MY LIFE!!
E-mail: lettylOu16@yahoO.cOm
Gender: Female
Location: batOn rOuqe,La!
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Age: 16
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Member Since: July 14, 2004
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me and my mom fight alot but i try to b nice to her as much as i can cuz you never knoe wut will happen you knoe so i really do try my hardest when we get in fights to just let it go but it seems that she alwats gets her way! and i knoe shes the mom and shes older and knoes best but i really get upset when i have a very good reason to defend my self for but she never listens to me! but then again i never give up until i get my way! i knoe i sound like a total brat now and i guess thats wut yu get but i don't want to b a brat n e more! i really want to be a good person for the rest of my life so please help me
asap (link)
w/e yawl disagree about something..just b like "mom im not gunna argue w/ u!"and walk away!try and keep away from yawl two arguing!thats what i always do!if i feel theres a argument about to start between me and my mom i just go ahead and go in my room or something!because i kno if i argue w/ her then im gunna b in huge trouble by the end of the argument!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


okay i really really really really still love my x but hes a major playa we went out twice and both times it didn't work out but we still talk alot online and stuff but its not the same. i still like him alot but i try to make it sound like i don't care everytime his name comes up in a convo wit me and my friends but i really do care and i really do have feelings for him still! and i knoe that i can have almost n e guy i want i mean a lot of guys like me so y do i want him soo much???

please help me out asap!!
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omg sooooooo been there!it sux! u deserve so much better..i had a bf just like that..but i had to dump him and get over him..it took a LONG time but it happened..and i found someone else that makes me totally happy!beleive me..u`ll cry alot if u try and get over him and all but in the end ur gunna b like wow..i cant beleive i dont care about him n e more..thats what happened to me!i was just amazed how much i didnt care or think about him n e more..cause he was all i used to think about ..even though he hurt me alot!well lyl babe
xO.Letty Lee!


Hey, So My BF is great, and my best friend is going out with his brother... its a lot of fun. but i am scared. Yesterday, my friend was talking to them on the phone and he said he was thinking about breaking up with me because i havent been acting like myself. The three of them (my BF, my friend, and her BF) are coming over today.

I'm so scared, i dont know what to do.

PLEASe hELP!! (link)
ok..if u like him enough then start trying to make a differencee in how u act!like ASAP!cause we cant have u gettin dumped!if that doesnt work then get ur friend to talk to him and ask him in what ways have u not been acting like urself and then she can tell u and u can try and work on that!goodluck grl!!!tell me how it went afterwards!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


Female almost 15...kay me n my bff r like....sisters we do everything together!!i tell her EVERYTHING..n we have been through sum reallly tough times but we got through em n she has ALWAYS been there for me..we go on vacas together n our familys r like each others seconds familys....well..okay b4 she had me she was really good friends with this one girl Alexa..and i have met alexa once..but alexa doesnt like me..she says she doesnt like me n i8m a bitch bc her current b/f was my b/f over 3 YEASR AGO!!! which i think is kinda dumb but i think its really bc i took Stephanie my bbf away from her a year ago...well 2 months or so ago stephanie alexa n alexas b/f n his good friend Kenny all hung out fer a weekand..well stephanie REALLLLY like Kenny...so she ditched me fer all them..n it got me really mad but i didnt mind bc i mostly had plans on tha couple weekands they all hung out..well then Kenny got a g/f n steph found out n she got REALLLY mad n she dropped kenny n started to ignore alexa again..well now kenny apologized to her n hes single now so alllll last weekand alexa steph kenny n all them hung out..n then yesterday i aked her if she had wanted to come ova n go siwmming in my pool bc she had owed me sum money fer a play ticket n i need tha money n she said "oh i cant bc me n my mom r going to tha cell phone place when she gets home from work" which i noe is a lie n she was guna go hang out with alexa bc i called her @ 1 in tha afternoon n her mom doesnt get home from work till 6 plus she NEVER asks her mom to do nething she just goes n does it...n then today i called her n i told her i needed tha money that she owed me by tha end of today n she said oh well i would come n kik it wid u n give u tha money but i cant bc i have plans with "other ppl" fer tha mall..n i noe fer a fact its alexa n all them...i dont need to be her doormat..i have other friends but its just we had/have a REALLY great friendship...i snapped on her today n i havent talked to her since...im soooo irratated n mad i dont noe what to do..i wanna talk to her but i dont really think she'll listen..n if she doesnt i think she might just lie n make up excuses..what SHOULD i do?? PlEaSe help thanx!!! x0o0x (link)
omg so been there!what you should do is just make plans w/ other friends and just go out and have u a good time..cause i promise u shes gunna b the one crawling back to u..and ur gunna b like hmm..dont i have plans!?but u being a good friend and all u'll b like sure lets go do soemthing!
xO.Letty Lee!


hhEy* wow u seem Really nice and you give GrEat advice,. thanks so much for everything (link)
aww thanx so much babe!ill add u under mine toO!stay sweet grl!!
xO.Letty Lee!


Hey, guys! I'm supposed to call this guy I like back in ten minutes. We're not dating, but we can both tell it will happen soon. He asked to see me again, and we couldn't come up with things to do. He said we could go swimming, but I'm not the most confident person, and I wouldn't feel comfortable swimming infront of him. I don't want to tell him this, because it's highly embarrassing and something I just wish to keep to myself. I know you could tell me that if I can't tell him something like this a relationship wouldn't be good, I just don't feel like it's his business. Can someone please tell me what to say to him, or suggest another outing? Please help me!! (link)
man o man!DEF kno where ur coming from!gosh!my ex asked me to go swimming one time before we starting dating and i was like yeah rite..i dont want him to c me in a bikini just yet..i mean u gotta get used to them before they can get all that greatness!how bout the movies?or the mall?those always do me just fine!:-D!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


Ok So 6 guys like me.. i think its because i'm a freshman and older guys want to go out with me cuz i'm new or whatever,. i already know 3 of the guys ,. the other guys i met at camp or the races,. and talk on the phone.. ok the problem is.. while i was talking about all these guys i have a guy already..of about 2 years off n on ... I broke up with him 12 out of 15 times.. & no matter what we always run back to eachother,. its like trUe love.. haha ne ways.. these other guys got me thinking and i think it might be a good idea that we need to see other people.. =/ Since it is highschool ,.. but seroiusly,. a while back my guy said that if i dump him one more time that hes not coming back or go out with me again.. so now i'm afraid to lose him,. and what if hes the "one",... i'm so confused.. last night while i was talking to these 6 other guys on the internet i didnt even notice that my boyfriend was on =x opps? well we havent been talking Much,. we never get together? .. what should i do? i'll rate =)

thAnkS gUyS n GalS =) (link)
hay babe!wow..ive DEF been in that position..and let me tell u ITS SO HARD because u dont kno what the rite decision is..i was always afraid that if i ended things w/ *Beaux* i woulda ended soemthing so great..or something that coulda lasted forever!but i did..and i moved on..and now have this wonderful bf that just makes me so happy!i def think you should give somebody else a turn!and if it doesnt turn out like u want it..and if ur ex or w/e likes u enough and cares for u enough then he'll welcome u back w/ open arms!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


My gUy ALWAYS trys to make me JealoUs ,. i hate it iTs Such a tuRn off! He thinkS hes 10x better Than Me.. he tells me he is gonna meet hot guRls at the BEach and all this shit,. i try to tell him but really he doesnt get the picture,. he always talks bout all the sports he plays and i only play softball =/ so i feel like a dork when he asks.. so whats the next sport coming up for you? and i'm like i only play 1... and he knows that! he always brags about VarSity f0otball n hes gonna play on it when hes only a freshman,.! when hes at his friends house he makes fun of me ova the internet and believe me i kn0o its him. So one day i told him that i'm gonna run away with Ashton kutcher on a derserted island,. hah i'm in l0ve with him!!! ,. So now We both Make Each other Jealous n than we always GetS in fights,.

hah any advice? (link)
gollie grl!im surprised yoOh put up w/ him for that long!i woulda got rid of him already OR used his lil game against him and woulda b like yeah im going to the mall w/ my friends ..were gunna go c all the hott guys!(done that before)and let me tell u..it worked quite well!if hes sucha asshole then i think u should dump him..cause it sounds like u deserve WAY better!!lyl grl!
xO.Letty Lee


hey girl!me and my girls saw u last friday at dixielandin with ur boyfriend..we just have to say you were by far one of the prettiest girls there!you and your bf look so perfect and happy together!we all hope to c you at the staci orrico concert this weekend!lyl bae!
*Brooke (link)
aww gee thanx babe!yeah im def happy w/ jake!he makes my times w/ him GREAT!:-D!Me n Jake will DEF b at that concert!hope to c ya there babe!
xO.Letty Lee




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