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I've just recently been breaking out real bad on my face(this usually doesn't happen)and I also notice some red zit like bumps on my legs.. which is really weird. Does anyone know what this is?! ( i'm supose to be getting my period soon if that has to do with anything?)

it seems like you should go see a trusted demotologist, and he/she will give you some treatments for acne

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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate)

definately. he sounds like a such a sweeet heart!! what are you waiting for!

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im so unhappy. i dont really know why, people just bring me down with stupidity and selfishness. i guess mostly just teenage problems, im just afraid this unhappiness is going to get to far. ive picked up smoking, and drinking, and popping pills, just to feel better. (no cutting or anything i think thats rediculous) but i guess my question is, what do i do to make myself happier. what can i say to myself or do for myself without having to go to a doctor because im another one of the millions of kids with "depression"? 17/f thanks ahead of time

i think that you should stop turning to drinking smoking and popping pils. because that is a MAJOR health hazard. i know this isnt what you want to hear. but you should go to a doctor. just to talk to them, maybe even a therapist. i go to one and they really talk to you and they get underneath your skin and really help you understand why you are depressed.

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Well i have been pretty close with my friends for the past 3 years (I'm a senior in HS) and i feel as if they have become very distant from me lately. They all have girlfriends except for me. It seems that all the girls i have crushes on are the ones going out with my best friends. It seems as if my friends ditched me for girls that i like, it's a very messed up situation. I don't think of myself as a shy person, it's just that i'm never around girls that i like. My friends have classes with these girls so they are around them more, so i guess you could say that they have more access, i don't know. I have never had a gf in highschool and i don't know what i'm doing wrong. At this point i'm convinced that i'm a loser.

i know exaclty how you feel, and its a horrible feeling. your a senior you need to start having fun and not worry about how horrible your friends are being to you. you can allways try talking to them, sit one of your frineds down and talk to him, explain to him that it hurts you that they leave you out. and if he is a good enough friend , he will listen and understand.

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