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My name is Jen, im 14 yrs old n'd im a freshman yr at JHS. i luv shopping and spending money .also i luv helping ppl out and i luv giving advice, you can ask me ne thing and id be happy to help you out. Sum of my fav bands are The Used, linkin park, Greenday, my chemical romance and soo many more.

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You see, there's this girl that likes me. But she is obnoxious, annoying, ditsy and eats everything in site. Not only do I not like her, I hate her with a passion. What would be the vest thing to do. O, an PS, she is my ex-step cousin.

ok well u say these and things about her they may be tru but would you like someone saying stuff that about you to other people? you say you dont like her and u probably have your reasons but the best thing to do is for one not to treat her like shit. how would you like it if you liked a gurl and she said nasty things about you to everyone? im sure if she heard these things she would be crushed. but if you really dont like her tell her nicely and maybe she'll get the hint. and her being your ex-step cousin doesnt really mean ne thing b.c your not blood related. [ i mean really some brothers n sisters fall in love ] yuckk but ne wayz try to put it nicely to her and tell her how you feel * hope i helped ~ Jen

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I can't seem to get a girlfriend. I'm quite shy, and not the best looking either. I have a really good personality, but most girls don't seem to notice it. What could I do? I believe your a girl, what makes a guy catch yer eye? Anyways, thanks for any help.

well first off yes i am a gurl. and it might be hard to believe but theres a lot of guys that deal with this problem, so your not alone. different gurls like different things, sum like only looks and sum go for personality as well. but most gurls want a guy that is sweet and has a good personality b.c at first a gurl could be crushing on a "hott" guy but when she actually gets to k him he can b a real jerk. you say your shy.. well my advice for this is be a bit more social b.c if gurls get to k you and you really do have a great personality then she might start to like you. looks arn't everything, and if you show her that u are a kind caring person thats what matters most. now for your other question... wut makes a guy catch mi eye is well personality really ... the first thing i notice though is looks [ but you have to admit everyone notice's looks first ] but still it doesnt mean ne thing b.c if i really get to know someone i check for their personality to decide if its good or bad and if we have some things in common. but no gurls will know about your personality if you dont talk much i know its hard but try and be less shy.. i hope i helped if i forgot to answer somthing or you need more help ask ** Jen

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You see, I've had this problem for a few years now. You see, well its kinda embaressing, but I'm gay, everyone always says bad things about gays and it offends me. Please help.

well first off there nothing wrong with being gay. and sum people are always going to say negitive things wether you are gay or not, its just how some people are.. but you shouldnt let those things that they say get to you b.c it shouldnt matter what they think. there are many other people out there just like you that probably get embarassed too. If you dont feel that your ready for people to know its ok b.c you should only tell people if your ready. and if u do tell people theres always going to be some people that give negitive remarks, but just remember their not perfect either. but try not to let ne one get to you. next time when your around some one and they make a bad remark about gays try to change the subject. good luck and i hope my advice helped if u want to know ne thing else let me know ** Jen

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ok theres me and my boyfriend (or ex) and i dont know if we should break up or not??? well we went to his friends house a cross the street and his friend was being so stupid so me and my friend went back to his house to jump on his tramp and he didnt even follow us or any thing so i got mad and then he came over and went inside his house. so i was like HELLO im over here. and he came back out and i was like y are you out here and hes like my sister kicked us out. and then his friend kept throwing the ball so hard at me and my friend!! and my boyfriend (or ex) didnt tell him to stop or and thing!!! so then my boyfriends 2 friends went behind the tree and were looking at us and talking about something so i left and he still didnt follow me or any thing. so later i was riding bikes with my friend, and we see my boyfriend (or ex) and his friend riding bikes and we go by them and he didnt say anything to me!!! So i wrote a note to him and in the envalope i gave him back the bracelet he gave to me and the picture of him he gave to me!!! and gave it to him.


So sould we break up or not?????



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well first off ill start by saying that sumtimes boys can be very complicating. and you told me that your boyfriend or [ex]didnt do ne thing to stop what his friend was doing to you, this might be b.c all guys act different around their friends, but thats still no excuse for not even trying to tell his friend to stop. and now that you have returned the bracelet he gave you most likely he took that as an > i want to break up with you

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